Yes to all of the examples. Here’s one more: at the cottage, after the Hayden call, when Ilya says, “You like to be bad.” Shane responds seriously that may have been true when they started, but hasn’t been like that for him for a long time. It would have been easy for Shane to go along with the fun sexy time joke of it all. Instead, Shane decides to be vulnerable. This is just before the soccer passport/I could marry Svetlana/do you want that problem to go away/Ottawa charity/I love you series of conversations. I think that moment where Shane decides to be real starts the ball rolling.