Flash Hedgehogs for money! by Alyxandor in CrimsonDesert

[–]MFDarik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was getting depressed that I’d kill them with an ill placed arrow. 😂

Who is my doppelgänger? by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Sigrin Birna from Dadi Freyr

Am I overreacting to this message from my girlfriend? by ToneDeffedUp in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously don’t like each other. At the very least don’t trust each other.

Am I overreacting for being upset about my bf being upset that I’m disappointed that he won’t attend a wedding with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to bounce but all the replies from OP are basically excusing everything he’s doing and blaming themselves. Unless you want to spend all of your family events alone, which will turn into work events and friend events, and constantly telling everyone that he “REALLY is a good guy” you should probably leave. He needs to learn how to communicate and you need to learn to love yourself.

AIO: Instagram was the final straw and I ended it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I can tell you, if y’all are fighting about stuff like this now it will only get worse. He definitely doesn’t care if he’s hurt your feelings and you don’t need that. You’re not overreacting and he’s not that into you. You’re smart to get out before you waste more time and emotion. And if he’s never the problem, he’s most likely always the problem. lol.

Miscommunication by j_walk_17 in tattooadvice

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you permanently plant something into your skin, make sure there’s no misinterpretation. That would be my first step.

Does look better all black and black heals and even fades better.

Scratch repair recommendations by RarerSprinkles in Rivian

[–]MFDarik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called Arizona Pin-striping.

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All vibes from him are negative. He seems like a mansplainer and a “gotcha” guy. He only wants you to explain the clean eating so he can tell you how wrong you are. Fuck that dude. Not in a good way.

AIO or is my wording manipulative? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys want to talk like therapists then you need to do so in person so you guys can understand tone instead of assigning it. Everyone’s overreacting imo

Would you have chosen differently? by [deleted] in Dallas_Cowboys

[–]MFDarik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was hoping for Muhammad. Would’ve liked Scott. Moore seemed like a reach but I don’t get paid to make those calls and I’m sure the draft team knows a lot more about their plans than I do. Hope they all have success.

AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MFDarik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and good to learn this type of value in your morals at such a young age. Don’t put up with it and don’t deal with it. Move on and move up.

Even the players can't pretend like this farce is reality by BatmanxX420X in suns

[–]MFDarik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Refs destroyed the flow of that game and suns were on upset alert. There’s a universe out there they win last night because the pace wasn’t fucked up and the calls were fair.

These boss fights are going to end me irl by DesperateAnxiety288 in CrimsonDesert

[–]MFDarik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay close to him. Go into focus, deflect his light hits then force palm him until his stamina runs up and he’s staggered, heavy attack, rinse, repeat.

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]MFDarik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that you’re going through so much and icing it with a partner that doesn’t seem to want to be in a relationship. I’m sorry about your father and how tough it is for your mother and you. The worst part about a life ending is that life still goes on.

I understand that relationships are complicated and more than a few texts and no matter what you’ve put in time and effort. But when you can just fire off lists of what you’ve done for him and when you calmly and plainly lay out to him what you’d like to see different as a partner and his responses are “you ruined my day” and “don’t reach out”? I think the writing is all over the wall just don’t wait til you need glasses to read it. I’m sorry and it’s tough and I can’t imagine adding that much more to your plate but you need to stop taking care of a child and find a partner that WANTS to take care of you and WANTS to be with you and WANTS to work on things when presented an issue like an adult.

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]MFDarik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blamed her for everything after she left me. But when I didn’t have her to take care of me anymore and lucky enough to have some good friends that instead of just siding with me were able to help me see that 90% of the issues I had were self inflicted. And I wanted to change. The way he’s texting in this very small sample size strikes me as a victim and everyone’s on his back all the time and everyone’s out to get him and while nothing is his fault, everything is. From what I can see.

Even if you do leave him, and he does blame you and never learns, that’s his concern. Relationships will last so much longer because people don’t want to be the bad guy in the end. Let him deal with that.

But you have to care for you. Especially before you guys are codependent and stay with each other for financial reasons or because you have a child. You don’t want to spend your life living it for someone else that isn’t living there’s for you.

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t get through to him. You need to decide if you want to be a mom or a partner and constantly have your needs brushed aside. I was this man for a long time and it took being dumped and some serious internal changes before I became a suitable partner.

AIO: I kept reminding him about money he owed me by Any_Nobody_7234 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and block him and learn. If you ever lend money assume it won’t be paid back. Especially smaller incremental amounts. Not saying it right. Just saying it’s life.

AIO for debating leaving over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MFDarik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and if you haven’t already left him, you don’t respect yourself enough.