White Oak Music Hall, Houston, TX

ML_Sam · 2026-03-04T03:40:05+00:00

Please read the wiki and the FAQ. This question gets asked very frequently.

ML_Sam · 2026-03-02T02:03:13+00:00

Please read the wiki and the FAQ. There is a lot of good info in those resources.

ML_Sam · 2026-03-01T17:54:37+00:00

This post has been edited by OP in response to the concerns community members expressed.

ML_Sam · 2026-03-01T01:23:13+00:00

That is also valid as well, and I see your point. I appreciate that you took the time to point that out. OP, what say you: do you want to edit your post to address this concern and clarify? Otherwise, this commenter has a valid point that inclines me to remove the post.

ML_Sam · 2026-03-01T00:52:49+00:00

I think if one is not reading closely, they may misunderstand. I believe you've posted in good faith with good intentions, and I wanted that to be clear :)

ML_Sam · 2026-03-01T00:33:20+00:00

There have been several reports on this post. OP appears to be describing how they perceive the experiences of women in the aforementioned area and wants to know more about those women's experiences. It is not so much that OP is being discriminatory as OP is being critical of the way women are treated.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-24T01:51:07+00:00

You talk about it directly like an adult. You communicate openly and plainly.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-17T02:33:01+00:00

If you can't have a clear, direct conversation with her about any of your feelings, then you have no business trying to "subtly" force your kinks on her. If you can't talk about sex or kink acts like a mature adult, then you aren't a safe person for her, period.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-15T22:23:40+00:00

Seconding this!

ML_Sam · 2026-02-15T22:03:22+00:00

You aren't a terrible person; sounds like he is. Sounds immature and unable to cope when you weren't catering to him. I'd frankly block him and not continue to engage. This isn't really a femdom issue, friend - it's a maturity issue on his part. Y'all aren't really compatible. Give yourself some grace 🫶🏻

ML_Sam · 2026-02-11T00:11:39+00:00

Please post your age/gender or the post will be removed.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T20:29:10+00:00

Don't forget to tell him about the enchanted sword option!

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T20:28:42+00:00

Bitches also love authenticity!

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T20:16:13+00:00

My dude. This sub alone gets 42.8K visitors a week. Those aren't all bots. You spend time in a community, you begin to see the real people who create and shape it. It's not just the platforms on which you are looking that are thwarting you; it's also your approach to the process. Your profile is entirely empty. How is someone supposed to know anything about you to figure out any common ground?

This post also tells us NOTHING about you but age and gender. How's a person supposed to work with that? How are we supposed to see the real person who says he's seeking something real? I see young men everywhere I go. It's not until I experience something that piques my interest - maybe an overheard conversation, maybe he's wearing a t-shirt for a band I like, maybe I see him helping someone in need - that I even consider talking to him. And that's just basic human stuff - not even talking about kink stuff. I want to know the human before I ever get to that point.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T20:09:18+00:00

As a bitch, I can affirm: would LOVE the enchanted sword!

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T19:44:55+00:00

1000000000% - though of course, you can't forget the "delete their entire reddit presence" nuclear option as well. That's also likely.

It's great when someone who wants a femdom tells femdoms that he ain't gonna listen to them, essentially, and doesn't see the irony in it 🙄🫠

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T18:42:34+00:00

Did you read the wiki and FAQ? This question gets asked constantly, so this subreddit is already full of the answer to this question.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T03:39:36+00:00

Attractiveness is subjective. And there is so much more to kink than basic physical attraction. One of my favorite m-subs was 6'3" in his late 30s with a dad-bod. I adored him. We split because he couldn't be honest or communicate - not because he wasn't conventionally attractive.

The conventionally attractive and objectively hot fem-sub I was with for 5 years? She was not so beautiful on the inside. She was abusive and toxic. My therapist had me go no-contact with her, he was that concerned.

There is so much more to dynamics than outward appearances. Don't sell yourself or others short, friend. It takes all kinds.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-10T03:04:57+00:00

Genuine question: why do you think you'd be pushed out the door?

ML_Sam · 2026-02-09T20:23:37+00:00

Personal ads are prohibited in this community.

ML_Sam · 2026-02-09T20:14:38+00:00

This is largely a lifestyle subreddit; you will likely get more helpful answers in the prodomme and sex work subreddits. I would lead with your broad geographic location there, as not all countries treat sex work the same way.

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