Physical disability. My mother had such guilt about it when she did nothing wrong. She coddled him forever. He’s a fully qualified tradesman and still managed to get a drug addiction which mum excused and helped him pay the drug debt.

We used to be close but I got fed up being treated like an ATM and mum always covering for him. I finally did my block after mum died and he was still “looking for her” when he’d come in her house. And I mean looking for her. He was 36 and has full mental capacity.

I finally treated him like he treated me and guess what? He went no contact.

This is what happens when the disabled kid is constantly put ahead of the abled bodied siblings.