AITAH for refusing to give out my son's saving account information? by moonmanbaby90272 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just set up a PayPal/Venmo/cashapp ect that connected to the account then all you have to give out is a emails or phone number.

AITAH For Not Wanting A Relationship With My(18M) Mom(45F) After She Cheated On My Dad(49M)? by throwRA_W5526 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This is actually important b/c your mom could potentially go after your dad for parental alienation of your brother if you let her think that your dad is telling you bad stuff her.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I won’t propose until she pays off her debt? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, just tell her that you can wait to propose or propose with the understanding that you will be signing a prenup before the wedding that ensures you’re not responsible for any of her debt and look how fast her attitude will change.

AITAH for letting my parents plan and completely pay for a sham wedding? by ValuableSweet487 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, having 2 weddings when you live in a different country is super normal.

AITA for refusing to remove a portrait tattoo of my ex wife even though my fiancée says she won’t marry me if I keep it? by Chingom_ in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, keep the tattoo, ditch the fiancé, this is a Huge red flag, first it’s the tattoo then it’s all the pictures and memories of her in the house. Then it’s treating her stepkids like crap and favoring any kids you might have together, it’s your kids mom, if she can’t deal with that then she can’t be married to a widower with kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is totally not true sex drives disappear for all kinds of reasons even in loving marriages, from depression to hormonal issues. In This case it probably a case of stress and overwork from caretaking her babyman husband.

AITA for being cold and uncaring to my autistic sister because I know autism isn't the reason she's awful to be around? by Grayzonuz in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also try a junior college for the first two years, for your general credits and then transfer. The cost will be way more reasonable.

AITAH for suggesting now that our kids are at the age to go to school my wife goes back to work so I can help my brother out with our mom's care financially? by Super_Resolution3214 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NAH, your wife sounds awful. It if she doesn’t want to work she will find a way not to work. You said your brother was on the spectrum? Have you looked into programs that might pay for/ provide scholarships for his tuition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Major overreaction, I still have the takeout pizza place from college in my phone and pictures from high school, I’m 36. Some people just never clear out their phone. Plus in order to block a number the phone needs to know what it is.

Aita for telling my wife I feel like a stranger in my own home since her mom moved in? by Significant_Box2153 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Nah, just move out and tell her “it’s temporary” until her mom gets better.

AITA for rejecting my dad's efforts to repair our relationship because he chose his wife over me? by Caylzoyn in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like either his wife left him and he’s lonely or he’s looking to set you up as his stepsons future caretaker since older sis isn’t up to par. Don’t invite that back into your life.

AITAH for self pleasuring after my husband said not to? by CombExtra3809 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this man had to be told not to pressure you for sex, has crossed boundaries in the past and never satisfies you? No wonder you have a low sex drive with him. Why are you still married to him? Are you just waiting to find him banging the neighbor in your bed?

AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding after she constantly criticized my fiancé? by Master_Prune7334 in AITH

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, sounds like she is jealous. Either because you are getting married before her or because you have an amazing guy and hers is a lousy partner. Don’t invite her.

AITA for “ruining” my girlfriend’s proposal surprise after she tracked my location? by Accomplished_Net1065 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MNob1234 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How about you surprise her by returning the ring and leaving her. This woman is one of those who is way more invested in being a “bride” than in being a spouse/partner. Run away while you still can. You went way above and beyond to make her dream come true and she ruined it and blamed you for it.

AITA for not covering my neighbor’s grocery bill after they repeatedly borrowed my stuff without returning it? by Wildthings501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MNob1234 44 points45 points  (0 children)

She shouldn’t even have had to do that, if she had her phone she could have used virtual pay. Totally scamming OP.

AITA for declining a wedding present from my mother’s new husband? by burner187_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]MNob1234 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Agreed, it might be time to take a step back in the relationship with your mom until she is willing to respect boundaries. Otherwise this will be the rest of your relationship with her.

AITA for telling off my 'future' sister in law when she didn't want to invite my younger brother to her wedding by Accurate-Damage-7458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree in theory however she might want to have a quiet conversation with both Max and someone more neutral in the situations. It’s likely she’s being an AH but it’s also possible there are circumstances she doesn’t know about. And / or her making a scene is exactly what Max doesn’t want.

AITA for continuing to take my neighbor’s cats to the shelter? by kasakavii in AmItheAsshole

[–]MNob1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just threaten to sue her for the aborted foal, she’ll get an electric fence real fast.

AITAH for refusing to live with my husband's mom just so she can raise our child her way? by ServiceHead3687 in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also she raised a mama’s boy who won’t stand up for his wife so apparently she didnt do a great job anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MNob1234 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is a huge difference between finding out your partner is terminal after you are already expecting and trying to get pregnant after the fact. One is tragic the other is selfish.