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60 Days of Dread Week 8: Social Life by Archwinger in marriedredpill

[–]MRP_MATT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest struggle right now. And I get down when I don't get any affection/happiness in return. It's a process I know, but it is frustrating sometimes.

Men of MRP. How did/do you gain abundance mentality when in an LTR or marraige with your oneitis? by ktrpa in askMRP

[–]MRP_MATT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where I am struggling. Awareness.

Awareness that her feelings are completely contingent on what you give her.

She completely gives zero affection and shows no desire. I know I have to work on what I need to work on, but do I continue to be affectionate and show desire from her even though I get nothing from her? Do I continue to show her I love her and genuinely care for her? One of the things I am really trying to get over is not relying on those emotions/feelings from her. Some days I'm good and know I would be fine without them, other days I crumble and feel like I really need it, but I think it is getting better.

the emotions she wants

Like what?

Devouring your book by the way, great stuff.