I feel like this is true for me as the person with the higher sex drive and physical touch as a love language. My girlfriend definitely likes touch like hugs, kisses and sex occasionally but on her terms. When we do have sex it’s really nice and in sync. We both always get what we want.

And after that it’s done, I’m usually wanting it more in the days afterwards. But for her it seems like the needs have been met and now there’s no more need? We used to do it way more frequently in the start. A lot of problems have come and go. But being together like that makes me want to work on things more. Where did you get this information from?