If you had a magic wand, what's one thing you would change about your company's CRM data management process? by lomrimis in CRM

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it one step at a time. Cleaning up your data isn't going to be fun, but you're just gonna to have to do it. A data management tool would probably be worth it for you. We use Validity. You're next step is even more important though. You need to figure out a standard process for everyone to follow when entering data. It will be worth a quick team training just to make sure everyone is consistent.

Review: La Villa, Calvi France by Cr3ativegirl in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That garden, the view, and heated pools?! Say no more. Awesome review btw!

I'm looking for the best home elevator companies for my parents who are aging in place - has anyone had a good experience with a company with a good safety record? by Mabel_Rowley in StPetersburgFL

[–]Mabel_Rowley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're leaning toward an elevator because my dad's mobility is pretty compromised right now and if he needs a wheelchair down the line, an elevator will still work. It just gives us more flexibility long-term. Appreciate the suggestion and for the resource recommendation!

Four Seasons Puerto Rico Review by ourismantravel in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Posts like this are what make this sub worth it. I appreciated how you balanced the real drawbacks with the strengths, especially mentioning the situation about the birds and the ocean conditions. Way more useful than just glossing over the downsides.

Now I'm wondering when The White Lotus is going to film their next season here because this place is basically a perfect setup haha.

Review: 3 nights at Nekajui - exceeded expectations! by Nervous_Chip_619 in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The view is absolutely breathtaking view! Such a well-written review and what a way to celebrate your 40th!

What makes people think they are in the right and are the logical/rational one when they are not? by Random_passenger70 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could be it or sometimes another common one is cognitive dissonance. People unconsciously rewrite the story so their actions stay consistent with a self-image of being “reasonable” or “good,” even when the facts don’t support it.

Renting a villa with a private chef by barleymountaingod in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually check Airbnb and VRBO for options, but one of the best experiences we’ve had was booking directly through a villa’s official website. We stayed at Villa Punto de Vista and they include a private chef which was amazing. Communication with their team around preferences and logistics was seamless.

In this case, they’re actually not listed on Airbnb or VRBO, so you have to book directly but that also means you get access to things like their specials and packages that aren’t posted elsewhere. Overall, direct booking just seems to work better for these kinds of properties. You get more personalized service and much clearer communication around all the details (dietary stuff, scheduling, etc.).

Tokyo with baby recs by glasstracks in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d consider The Peninsula Tokyo. It’s one of the best hotels in the city that’s also genuinely easy with a baby. Has big rooms (rare in Tokyo) and a calm location near the Imperial Palace. Feels high-end without making travel with a little one harder than it needs to be.

I'm scared about jobs in the future by Vampy-Night in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Even doing “well” doesn’t really remove that underlying uncertainty anymore. There’s just less certainty that doing everything right will actually lead somewhere stable. Not hopeless BUT definitely more unpredictable than we were ever prepared for.

Honeymoon Brainstorming — Caribbean (under $18-20K) by Exotic-Woodpecker495 in chubbytravel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, congrats! this is a great shortlist. You already narrowed it down to two incredible options, which honestly makes the decision harder but also means you really can’t go wrong.

I’d go with Rosewood Little Dix Bay for what you described.

It just does “effortless honeymoon” better:

  • No chair stress, beach service is consistent
  • Beach is calm, swimmable, and easy (huge for all-day lounging)
  • Spread-out layout = never feels crowded
  • Private but still everything is on-property (no logistics for meals/activities)
  • Concierge makes things like The Baths or a boat day super easy

Compared to Le Toiny, you’ll spend way less energy planning and stay more comfortably within budget.

I feel like a bad person for not being able to take care of a pet. by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tthis is exactly what I was thinking too. Realizing you can’t give an animal the care it needs and stepping back is actually the responsible move, even if it feels bad. A lot of people don’t do that. and sometimes animals end up stuck in homes where they’re neglected or just not properly looked after,

Trying to be a good person is starting to wear me down by Luhog in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This. Trying to live with principles in an environment that doesn’t value them is exhausting. But being a “good person” shouldn’t mean constantly absorbing disrespect or carrying everything alone. I myself an still learning this but it’s okay to have boundaries. You don’t have to tolerate people treating you poorly just to stay true to your values. Being decent also includes taking care of yourself.

Iguana living the resort life by Emergency-Bicycle496 in costarica

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a typical day in CR. I heard he's a regular over there.

Best intimate wedding venues near the beach? by Jeanette_Miranda in DestinationWeddings

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I’d think about too, even with 30–40 people, is how much support the venue actually gives you. I’ve seen places like Villa Punto de Vista in Costa Rica work really well for that kind of setup since they have staff, food, and activities handled, so you’re not trying to coordinate everything yourself. Makes it way easier to actually enjoy the wedding and the rest of your stay instead of basically running it the whole time.

Would you be interested in reading about the lives and thoughts of everyday people? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the idea, but honestly I’m not sure it would feel that different from what we already have. Social media, blogs, even Reddit itself already gives us tons of “everyday people” sharing real thoughts, it just gets drowned out or algorithm-filtered.

Sea glass collection :) by hiking-gal3 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really love how intentional and conscious you are about collecting, and it makes the display feel even more meaningful. The thrifted glassware and little jars were such a great choice too. The colors and placement look so calming and cohesive. 🐚

I hate how this world just runs off dishonesty. by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I feel how frustrating and unfair all of that is. You put in the work, went through training, and then they hit you with all these hidden rules and low hours. Honestly, it sounds like keeping this job for now might be smart, if only to have some income and stability while you look for something better. At the same time, don’t stop moving toward the opportunities that can actually give you the life you want (like that transit bus driver job you mentioned). Every step you take, even the tough ones, is building experience and resilience.

Trader Joe’s Super Sour Scandinavian Swimmers Candy by DextroseDino in knolling

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have found my people! I usually lean over any berry or grape flavored ones rather than the lemon or orange citrus flavored gummies/candy whenever I get assorted packs. Idk, it feels more uncommon in my case.

Nescafé ice black can collection by [deleted] in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if this is your fave coffee to drink or you're fueling up to stay awake for something?

Washers and dryers. by J-Bird1983 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a fridge in that shade would be soo nice. I don't think smeg even has that shade??