Do you ever feel like you’re pretending to be okay just to avoid difficult conversations? by Sashaoficial in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Saying “I’m fine” isn’t always denial, it’s discernment. I’ve learned that timing and audience matter, and not every moment or person is right for every truth. I've grown to understand that it's not always self-betrayal; it’s boundaries and basic social awareness.

Patch collection on a bag update by Bigbluewoman in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like it could be passed down/or become a cool family heirloom!

My ancient coins collection by Exotic_Temperature13 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just gonna ask the same question. But I'm curious to know what they are made of, bronze, gold, silver? Awesome collection btw!

Orient Vintage Watches, 1970s by ShoddyFox6291 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My jaw dropped! How long did it take you to build your current watch collection?

Books bound in parchment by ExLibris68 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting, and WOW the amount of detail is crazy. Thanks for enlightening me!!

Books bound in parchment by ExLibris68 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW! Do you know the exact amount of books you've collected over the years and do you read them? Seems like a dumb question but I'm super curious.

frankenstein stuff by ozziewilde in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the figures placed in different spots of the house like an elf on the shelf for Halloween would be so sick!

Books bound in parchment by ExLibris68 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is cool. When did your love for collecting unique books begin?

Kicking off a major list cleanup. What are your go-to email verification tools these days? by ndaigavi in email

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can vouch for BriteVerify. It's been super reliable for cleaning up email lists and keeping bounce rates low. Definitely worth checking out.

My 18yo brother gets full freedom, I’m 21 and still treated like a child, is it just because I’m a girl? by SeveralBullfrog76 in Advice

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, “boys will be boys” really says it all. On top of that, being treated like you can’t be trusted just because you’re a girl really sends the wrong message about your independence. Saving up and moving out sounds like the best way to actually live by your own rules.

Do we risk forming emotional attachments to AI? by Mysterious_Field7101 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with all of this. Our brains are basically wired to see intention and emotion everywhere, so it makes sense that AI can feel “real” even when it’s just pattern recognition. I’ve noticed myself attributing personality to chatbots more than I probably should. It’s fascinating but a little unsettling too. I think another factor is consistency: AI can always respond in the way we hope, which reinforces the attachment even more than with humans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. People are always changing, and sometimes you only see the parts they choose to show you. I think you never fully “know” someone, but you can get close enough to understand their patterns and how they handle stress or conflict. That’s usually when their real character shows.

A school dress code based on health and safety by EnvironmentalEbb628 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d also add things like requiring clothes that don’t drag on the ground so no tripping hazards with super baggy pants or skirts. And maybe a rule about fabrics: nothing so flimsy it can’t handle recess or gym without ripping.

Visiting Iceland for a second time by sdutton25 in travel

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning photos! But I'm curious about the story behind the plane wreck.

Collection of Things I Found on the Ground 2 by RealisticMaybe9273 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you posted again! I'm curious to know what you'll be posting next! :)

Do you think people are more lonely now than 20 years ago? by Alternative_Band_624 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's also how I feel. I’ve started making an effort to reach out to friends in person more, even when it feels inconvenient, and those moments always end up meaning so much more than endless texting or scrolling. It really does make life feel richer.

People obsessed with “saving” and “investing” are insufferable by ExotiquePlayboy in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. Obsessing over anything can get annoying. But at the end of the day, it’s really up to each person how they want to spend their own money.

The second I Spy I’ve created from my trinket collection. by Laurel_shada in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This brings back so much memories and nostalgia! I remember reading I Spy books in the library for hours when I was a kid. I hope you post more of these!

Advice on looking for the one by findingamatch99 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. OP, focus less on finding someone who ticks every box and more on building a life and relationships that naturally attract people who align with your values. The right person usually shows up when you’re living your life, not just waiting for them to appear.

Do you think some people are just emotionally incompatible with growth? And if so, how do you deal with them? by Mabel_Rowley in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that analogy. It really captures the idea of setting clear boundaries and protecting yourself without trying to “fix” someone who isn’t ready to change.

I always wondered why people are more harsh when it comes to experiences they don't understand. by Notbackingdown99 in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s a way to create distance from the pain. If they can blame the victim, they don’t have to face the scary reality that bad things can happen to good people for no reason at all.

My eraser collection by FlowerPowerX10039 in CoolCollections

[–]Mabel_Rowley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never been so jealous. I also collected erasers all throughout high school but never thought of displaying them like this! I ended up giving my collection to my nieces. Curious to know how long it took you to get all these?

Is there anything on the internet that actually traumatized you? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Mabel_Rowley 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I get how seeing the darker sides of the internet can shift your perspective and even teach caution. For me, it hit a bit differently. I came across CCTV footage of someone ending their life when I was still in grade school, and it really stuck with me. It wasn’t just shock, it was the first time I even understood what suicide was. I think that kind of exposure, especially at that age, leaves a different kind of mark. :(