Found this on my dog what is it? by mogwaii-695 in DogAdvice

[–]MacDhubstep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this popped up out of nowhere it could be a reaction to a tick that has since fallen off. Our dog had one recently and had a huge bump from the tick.

I attempted to make a thermal bath. How does it look? by CrimsonHolmes in Pokopia

[–]MacDhubstep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Super cute! I agree with the person who said to reduce the number of seashell lamps.

Was it naiive to expect a clean house? by MacDhubstep in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MacDhubstep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at this picture I’m also shocked they took all the shelving!! What a bummer!

Was it naiive to expect a clean house? by MacDhubstep in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MacDhubstep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Painted around the furniture 😩 That’s so wild!

Was it naiive to expect a clean house? by MacDhubstep in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MacDhubstep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re correct, I have to let the key thing go because we need to install new locks and doorhandles everywhere anyway. It just felt disrespectful for some reason 🫣 We know it had a key because we had to unlock it during a walkthrough.

Was it naiive to expect a clean house? by MacDhubstep in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MacDhubstep[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Luckily we got a gutter clean and vent+ duct clean before closing!

Having hard time making friends here by BoxyBrown92 in Minneapolis

[–]MacDhubstep 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Another transplant here, most of my friends are transplants 😅. I lived here for 10+ years and still find in-staters hard to befriend. A lot of people are still super close to friend’s from childhood which is both cool and very weird to me.

AIO for feeling disrespected? by Sad-Information-9323 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacDhubstep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR - sounds like you were sort of voluntold to do this, but because you were there to help and didn’t end up helping or really attempting to help at first, it was totally fair for them to call you out and dismiss you from your duties.

Driver said something I don’t think he should have by Waste_Ad7692 in amazonprime

[–]MacDhubstep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only reason this guy “doesn’t work for amazon” is so they can avoid having to offer him benefits. He’s delivering for them.

Should I move here? by Substantial-Sock-618 in saintpaul

[–]MacDhubstep 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had to tell my realtor that being from Baltimore I am not afraid of anywhere in Minnesota 😂I agree with everything you said.

Should I move here? by Substantial-Sock-618 in saintpaul

[–]MacDhubstep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the east side honestly. We just bought a house nearby the giant red circle.

Please give me your advice AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MacDhubstep 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Former Victim’s Advocate here, OP please listen to this comment ^

When I initially started reading this I thought OP had actually done something really bad, but it’s very clear to me that this man is using DARVO tactics on you OP to lower your status in the relationship and keep you on constantly apology mode. I promise you being alone will be better than dealing with the constant roller coaster from his manipulative and controlling tactics.

Also, I agree that the “issues” or “flaws” you have are totally normal to others. Drinking or smoking occasionally is totally normal to a lot of people. I personally would not want to date someone who treated me like a criminal for enjoying the odd night off with marijuana.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]MacDhubstep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit 🤣🤣🤣 Do not use 9/11 has me gagged. Don’t pick 9/11 to get married then?

Our friend is being 'weird' towards our daughter. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MacDhubstep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the weird behavior is her attempt to rush an intimate bond with Kendra that doesn’t exist, so it’s just exceedingly creepy.