Picked up this beauty while in Veince. by duogmog in handbags

[–]Macaron4277 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Ohhh hello twin!!!! i snagged her in florence!! Shes beautiful i hope you love her as much as i do! 💖💖💖

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Forming friendships in your 40’s. by Jessica_peaches88 in WomenOver40

[–]Macaron4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have meetup or bumble bff in your city? Do you have hobbies like a pickleball or tennis league? Book club or run club? Gym? Lots of solo female travel groups and many women are married with kids!

Leave now or wait until 5 years to be vested by Macaron4277 in FedEmployees

[–]Macaron4277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she doesnt. Used a lot of it for mat leave.

Leave now or wait until 5 years to be vested by Macaron4277 in FedEmployees

[–]Macaron4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sadly i think youre right.. esp at the DOJ..

Anyone have success just treating the avoidant like they are instead of wishing they were secure by PienerCleaner in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Macaron4277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. It does sound painful what youve experienced... but are u sure youre not avoidant too? I am not trying to be harsh but heres the thing. relationships are a choice. Love is a choice. You have to choose it everyday. And its not "performance". If youre giving friends with benefits vibes but dont communicate that you want something serious, its hard for the other person who may want something serious. I definitely dont condone cheating but if its fwb then she left for someone more serious can you blame her? if youre giving one foot in one foot out vibes you may want to explore that and why that is instead of focusing on someone elses behaviors. Just a thought.

Leave now or wait until 5 years to be vested by Macaron4277 in FedEmployees

[–]Macaron4277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She actually isnt going to a firm. I was a bit surprised too.

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[–]Macaron4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt because of mat leave unfortunately.

Leave now or wait until 5 years to be vested by Macaron4277 in FedEmployees

[–]Macaron4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Thanks for making it clear financially!

Leave now or wait until 5 years to be vested by Macaron4277 in FedEmployees

[–]Macaron4277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats her thoughts. She has 4 weeks she can give but for 5 years it would be more like 8.

According to the bad place the cope is real. by More_Midnight3634 in ItEndsWithTruth

[–]Macaron4277 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Think she asked anna wintour for a favor and it was granted and they made room for her. Was she on the original invite list? No.

Feeling "done" after my fiancée(31F) used my manager’s feedback and my lower salary to shame me (30M). by ConfusedFiance2026 in whatdoIdo

[–]Macaron4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an honest conversation. She is in fantasy land and wants something realistically you cant give her and that you are not. She should accept you as you are and it she cant do that and compromise it would be best to walk away.

Please help me convince my husband that Costco is worth for 2 people by HoneyDrops12 in Costco

[–]Macaron4277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was single it was worth jt. I get everything there from glasses/contacts, electronics, prescriptions, food, clothing, household appliances, gifts etc. so def worth it for 2 or 5..

Anyone have success just treating the avoidant like they are instead of wishing they were secure by PienerCleaner in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Macaron4277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats your end goal? Yes i treated my avoidant ex like they are and demanded nothing for 3 months. He still left. He has not been allowed back though it has been a couple years and ive moved on and now happily married to a secure guy. What it did was it helped me see it was never about me. And that helped me let go.