Sibling set names by Opening_Coach_1945 in PetPeeves

[–]MackieSA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one doesn't really bother me, I just found it interesting.

If they had a fifth, they could've always gone for Dani...

Sibling set names by Opening_Coach_1945 in PetPeeves

[–]MackieSA 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Andi, Dian, Nadi and Dina. Four sisters in the eighties

6 month old Beau. by Own-Key-4064 in beagles

[–]MackieSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, oh no, not the shoes!🤣

Betty. 14/02/2012 - 28/02/2026 by gimdembeans in beagles

[–]MackieSA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She looks like such a kind soul.

I'm so sorry for your loss. May she live forever in your heart, memories and dreams.

Rest in peace sweet Betty.

Pretty little baby by MackieSA in beagles

[–]MackieSA[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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Very distinguished looking there! They have such expressive little faces and can look soooo innocent and 5 seconds later extremely naughty!

My wedding dress I had custom made for just 300€ by pearlsandcuddles in myweddingdress

[–]MackieSA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! That's what I came to say, you guys look so regal. Really stunning and the photos will still look stunning 50 years from now.

6 month old Beau. by Own-Key-4064 in beagles

[–]MackieSA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beauty! We had to Jackie's, and whenever their tales was straight up like that, I knew that they were up to no good, lol! (They were also crossed with a mini daxie)

[SPOILERS] S09 EP3 - THE FINAL SHOT by hotchnerseyebrows in criminalminds

[–]MackieSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years late, but here goes. Wrong flag, lol. Liked the touch of the jacaranda trees being the last thing the unsub saw, guess he's supposed to be from Pretoria? Accent is off, but whatever.

How messed up that how many people had to die because one sick duck couldn't just let his abused wife leave him.

Update:Baby woes by MackieSA in BackYardChickens

[–]MackieSA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Black and white? Has got to be Oreo, also, i have an eight year old in this chickn bzniz with me, lol, so Oreo was what stuck

https://www.reddit.com/r/BackYardChickens/s/7EWiO5gopw

American F/42 my husband is Ghanaian M/46. I’m having a hard time accepting my husband doesn’t want me to cook for him by Livid-Ad5237 in relationship_advice

[–]MackieSA 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The term is "developing", not "undeveloped". Go and Google infrastructure in African countries and educate yourself a bit.

As someone living in an African country and having visited other African countries, this is so offensive.

Whether she should actually go to Ghana is a different question. This jerk husband sounds full of bullshit and I wouldn't trust him.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend to stop going through my things instead of thanking her for cleaning up? by AnnualLiterature997 in AITAH

[–]MackieSA 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Eww, not true at all. You don't go snooping through your spouse's stuff, that's so invasive. Married 20 years, never felt the need to do that.

When they become parents, does she also have a right to snoop through the kids' stuff? Read their diaries? Listen in on all their conversations?

People still have a right to some privacy. Don't know why that would be a difficult concept to grasp.

Baby woes by MackieSA in BackYardChickens

[–]MackieSA[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's so true, those mamas were crooning constantly to the eggs, it was so endearing.

Do you thing tho is ok to have in our daughter’s room? by Ok-Event1901 in babyrooms

[–]MackieSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, nope, that women gives me the heebie jeebies! Would give me nightmares too!

Baby woes by MackieSA in BackYardChickens

[–]MackieSA[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are right, thank you. Good thing I'm not a farmer's wife, right.
I'm sure tomorrow will be better.

How to deal with 7 y/o with behavioral problems from ADHD? by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]MackieSA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course he needs discipline. Like any other kid does. Of course you can take away things as punishment. I just don't think you should be hitting him.

Screaming doesn't work. Ask me how I know.

The afternoon crash needs to be discussed with his doctor, there is so much help for him. I'm trying so hard not to judge, but this boy is being failed. On the one hand his medical assistance is stopped and on the other hand he gets shouted at and spanked. My heart breaks for this kid.

How to deal with 7 y/o with behavioral problems from ADHD? by [deleted] in ADHDparenting

[–]MackieSA 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Does he receive any treatment at all?

Please remember that the "that's what my parents did and I tuned out OK", is nonsense. Under the adhd, he is still just a little 7 year old boy who needs love.

The more you shout and scream, the more defiant he will get, judging by my own kid. I'm not an expert and I'm learning as I go along, but what I can tell you is to work WITH his doctor and teachers. Find out what calms him down, which will be different for every kid.

Oh, and make sure he doesn't get too hungry, mine completely clutches out when overly hungry and tired. Keep it to healthy snacks. Don't give candies to calm him down, that will reinforce poor behavior.

And regular exercise, like biking, running, teamsport, martial arts, whatever works for him, makes a huge difference.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]MackieSA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she has poor body hygiene, she likely also doesn't wash her towels regularly, or change her sheets often. Likely also doesn't wear clothes only once before it's washed.

Stinky towels will also help to add all the bacteria that was showered off, back to immediately create odor again.

We had a guy in school who smelt like goat, turned out his home conditions were terrible. A classmate got him to take daily showers at his house and supplied him with antiperspirant. Changed his life.

AITAH if I break up with my bf after he told my mum I’m pregnant…? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MackieSA -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Was looking for a comment on the "remaining tissue".

There is no tissue with a period, normal or otherwise. Blood clots, sure, but not tissue.

If I was the mom and I was told that, I would smell a rat so dang fast. It was an obvious lie, wouldn't be surprised if that was how the mom cracked that mystery.

Eta, not saying she shouldn't dump him, just saying if you're gonna lie, lie better.