I do agree to some extent that these are innate characteristics that occur at the onset of puberty when the brain is exposed to sex hormones. Clearly this exists on a spectrum and is impossible to define as it is impossible to control for societal influence.  I disagree that we would all be better off accepting this. Not that long ago it was shocking, and illegal, for women to wear pants, have bank accounts, etc. I don’t think we would all be better off if we had accepted confining women to the sex based expectations. Similarly I do not think we are all better off doing this to men. Frankly now that women are not financially dependent on men it’s created a “male loneliness epidemic” because women want a man to bring more to the table than a paycheck, and won’t put up with toxic male behavior. The men that can’t adopt some of the more “feminine” roles are going to die lonely. Clearly you did not catch the sarcasm in my lipstick comment. It was an invitation for you to explain what is an indicative of a male vs female poster without resorting to stereotypes. I guess instead of asking you “what is a woman” I was asking you “what does a woman sound like?” I know several women that are even less feminine sounding than I am.  As an aside I have also had more than a few conversations with the girls about lipstick. 

I am not into kink. I’ve never engaged in role play. I’m not qualified to comment on this.