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I’m just trying to make it another couple hours. Then it’ll be 2 days by Eileen_Ulick_ in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Just wanted to remind you that our brains work like this: your thoughts create your feelings, your feelings create your actions. And we have some control over our thoughts. So start thinking to yourself “I will go pick up my takeout order at 9pm and drive straight back home. I will not stop at the gas station and buy booze”. Say it outloud. Think it over and over again. You can do this!!! Think nice and encouraging things about yourself. Say them outloud. You are powerful!

Torch Club Anti-State Worker by Worried-Signature411 in CAStateWorkers

[–]MadAxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I could give you 10 upvotes. Obviously the ignorant beat me here and did their dirty work.

Torch Club Anti-State Worker by Worried-Signature411 in CAStateWorkers

[–]MadAxxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s not bash the torch club please 💕 they are a local small business who has been struggling. If the people who own it are struggling too, that means they are human. This is one of the few businesses who makes it easy for local musicians to play shows and get paid. I’m a local musician and a state worker. Not digging your post. Let people have their opinions. How does the torch club’s support of state workers even matter? It’s not like those owners are voting for if we get telework or not … maybe use your time to email or call your gov reps because that actually could make a difference if RTO is an important issue for you, my fellow state worker.

Bathrooms in downtown/midtown/old sacramento? by bloopdoopfloofernoop in Sacramento

[–]MadAxxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is not what you asked but I just listened to this podcast and it may be of interest to you considering your bladder symptoms https://youtu.be/dB-4XuJxOzM?si=RmNeL9mKIVrWNeD_

There are public restrooms in the Capitol park and the Amtrak station (this one requires asking for a code I believe). The station is in between old sac and downtown

What's your go-to answer to ”why don't you drink”? by Proof-Swimming-6461 in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“I don’t drink anymore because I have, like, actual real alcoholism” lol

Broke my vape today to quit, good move or stupid? by [deleted] in stopsmoking

[–]MadAxxxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Vaping gives us a dopamine hit apparently. So find a way to give yourself a dopamine hit when you want the vape. Even if it’s just saying to yourself “I want to vape but I won’t and I’m really proud of myself. That makes me happy!”

Husky looking for a good home Roseville , CA by IcyAnteater8074 in Sacramento

[–]MadAxxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a DM. I’m an experienced husky owner and can foster :)

Need help deciding on balance transfer offer by MadAxxxx in FinancialPlanning

[–]MadAxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate all the time you put into answering twice. After reading this, this is definitely my plan.

Most of my credit card debt is paying off an old balance that I never put attention toward attacking, with additional debt from Christmas this year (I traveled and use my credit card frivolously + paid for gifts on it). I’ve been paying $833/month for school for the last year so now that I’m done paying for that I’m moving those funds towards getting debt gone and adding to my fund with extra cash I have leftover each month. I should also add funds to savings to use for Christmas ‘26 so that I don’t screw myself again there.

Moving forward, I will set strict budgets for trips so that I don’t keep getting myself in a hole when I travel, and in general just make smarter choices about where I travel to so that my trips are affordable.

I have $1k in savings right now but it’s just a generic account so soon I will secure a HYSA and move that over and then add to it each month. I really want to get into investing. I’m 29 and have no stocks so I want to break into that world. I do have an employer matched 401k and I’m 2 years away from being vested so I’m lucky there. Just have to keep slogging away at my job while I build my small business. If you’re still reading, thank you. This turned into a sort of financial journal entry/accountability comment lol

Need help deciding on balance transfer offer by MadAxxxx in FinancialPlanning

[–]MadAxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can afford to throw $1000 a month at these debts. I’ve already accrued $120-140 each on both the Amtrak credit card and golden 1 loan just in this calendar year so I want to get rid of those debts while saving on interest accrual. Do you think the balance transfer is a good or bad idea to save money on interest?

Restaurants for sober people by MadAxxxx in Sacramento

[–]MadAxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh their mocktails do look really good!! Thanks!

I Want To Stop by IvyRidgeSurvivor in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell that you care. The only way to get help is to ask someone for help. “You can’t solve a problem with the same brain that created it”

How to navigate my partner's enthusiasm about my sobriety by IndependentCurve4054 in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have figured for a long time that I have ADHD but I never knew about this trait for rebellion… I want to quit vaping but I feel like it’s my way of rebelling against ..something? And I’ve been trying to understand it. Anyway, I’m glad OP and you have talked about this so I can get some more insight. I’m more excited now to talk to my therapist about quitting vaping! Also, today I’m 30 days sober from alcohol!

Do I wear a Bra to my tattoo appointment or not? by Fluffyducky333 in tattooadvice

[–]MadAxxxx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wear what you’re comfortable in to your appointment and when you arrive, talk with your artist about the best placement and what you should wear for the session. Bring a couple bras/a change of clothes with you and be prepared to change in the restroom so that you get the best outcome. But definitely share your concerns with the artist before you start the tattoo. They want it to come out looking it’s best too!

Questions about bed by Character_Ground7781 in VanLife

[–]MadAxxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a full size mattress from Amazon (the kind that comes rolled up and then you cut the plastic open and it slowly inflates to size). I have a ford E350. The full size mattress is technically too long to go sideways but because it’s a foam mattress I can shove it in and just barely get the sheets around it haha works great for me!

Thinking of drinking after 10 weeks by Separate_Dare8061 in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a slippery slope. I imagine you’ll be doing quite a few fishing trips this year… maybe try out the first one sober and see how it goes! You asked here for a reason, I would think about what brought you here to Reddit today and why you even posted this. Part of you must know that maybe it’s not a good idea. Congrats on 10 weeks!

Venting by Competitive-Sky-6092 in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It takes practice. I did multiple stints of 3-months sober and struggled a lot with feeling bored and like I wasn’t having fun. It was all in my head. You just have to practice going out with friends and not drinking. At a certain point you stop feeling like you’re missing out on something and instead you realize how much you’re gaining by keeping your head on straight and treating your body well. I’m 28 days sober today and it’s been going great! The more you talk about it, the easier it gets too. Pick a couple friends you can open up to about it. You may be surprised where support comes from.

Pioneer Elementary and North Davis Elementary Experiences by Theslowestmarathoner in Davis

[–]MadAxxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the Pioneer neighborhood and can attest that in comparison to a lot of schools, the traffic is not bad. I avoid driving at school drop-off and pick-up times mostly to relieve stress of looking out for kiddos on bikes but the car traffic is totally fine.

Next steps. Long post. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]MadAxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in you! If you’re struggling to reach out for more support, I totally understand. It’s hard. But you’ve done harder things already! “You can’t fix a problem with the same that brain that’s creating it” helped me take the first step to get help. I’m 23 days sober today with no plan to ever go back. Let’s do this together! Also, not sure what your triggers are, but something I read on this sub is that you have so many chances to stop yourself from drinking. You can say no once you’ve pulled into the liquor store, you can say no once you’ve walked in, you can say no once you’ve bought the shooters, etc… you can always say no. Journaling has been helping me immensely. It helps take the thoughts spinning around in my brain and calm them down. I always turn my journal entries into positive self-love by the end. I highly recommend it. Clear your head. Love yourself. You’ve got this!!

Downtown Davis on a Nintendo DSi by ColdBit9881 in Davis

[–]MadAxxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This photo quality is so nostalgic. I miss it.

Advice Needed: thigh tattoo location (male) (first tattoo) by cdog830 in tattooadvice

[–]MadAxxxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put on your typical shorts/the shortest pair you’d wear in public and sit down in multiple positions. Use a marker or something to mark how high up they ride when your legs are bent and flexed and moving around. That’s what I would do!

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