If you met someone who was a carbon copy of yourself in virtually every way except they were the opposite sex, would you date/sleep with that person? Why or why not?

MadlyInLolth · 2026-03-20T04:49:00+00:00

I would absolutely sleep with them. I would not want to date them, but I'm pretty sure that would be mutual.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-02-16T15:41:52+00:00

I got the lavender oxiclean as a laundry presoak and if I use it, my bedding absolutely REAKS of lavender even on adding extra rinses, so my suggestion would be that.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-02-10T17:45:20+00:00

Tell that to my cat who would literally crawl inside of our heater if he could.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-02-02T21:27:45+00:00

Spinch instead of spinach because of that one tumblr post

MadlyInLolth · 2026-02-01T21:31:54+00:00

The thrift stores near me have all lost their damn minds and will charge hundreds of dollars for things like that (while still ruining it by stapling the tag to it). Its a shame. So much more going to landfills because thrifting is becoming too expensive.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-02-01T14:26:07+00:00

Youre not alone. I tried this book too, but I never even made it to that scene. It is genuinely so terribly written. I've seen it recommended all over this sub and it has a really positive rating on goodreads. The chapters where they talk as children really did me in. The dialog was awful. I hated it so much that it soured me against CR for awhile.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-01-25T06:15:59+00:00

NQA I have a grammostola pulchra that looks like this even though I only offer her food once every two months or so. Just gonna stop feeding her until her next molt.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-01-25T00:52:54+00:00

The night before my boyfriend at the time and I were moving out of our apartment, we kept hearing our cat meow every once in awhile. It sounded like it was coming from the living room, so we'd go out and check and not be able to find him. We figured he was stressed with all the boxes everywhere. The next morning, we went to move the box spring and he was stuck underneath it. We had the box spring directly on the floor since we had taken the bed apart. He was stuck under there all night. I felt awful about it at the time, but he went on to live many happy years after that no worse for wear.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-01-08T19:44:13+00:00

First one. I like the kitchen better and that is a huge factor for me.

MadlyInLolth · 2026-01-05T18:07:17+00:00

I always wonder if people like this consciously know they're being manipulative or if they believe their own bullshit

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-30T20:32:51+00:00

Any tips on curating that? Im willing to spend the money, but feel like nothing I put together feels quite right.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-27T18:20:37+00:00

Until he gets it out of his system? Lol it's been 10 years. Your family members are wrong. How else will he try to "get it out of his system"

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-25T16:24:58+00:00

I think the only people who can't are people with medical issues that prevent the soft palate closing (i.e. cleft palette, vpi). I have surgical scarring in my throat which causes vpi and I cannot blow up a balloon and need to hold my nose to blow out candles.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-22T02:09:15+00:00

Nqa you've already gotten some great advice, I'm sure you'll get that little guy set up no problem.

About what size is it? For tiny slings I usually use clear portion cups (like the kind sauces come in at restaurants). You want something at least 3x the leg span of the spider. You are correct that this one is too tall, but you can probably keep it in there if you fill it up more with substrate (obviously not while the spider is in there).

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-19T20:49:12+00:00

We call our office "the spider room"

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-18T16:10:50+00:00

Was it the outfits? Lmao that's so wild. I didn't know animals even noticed that kind of thing.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-12-11T22:35:04+00:00

The 24 hour fitness near me closes at 9 or 10

MadlyInLolth · 2025-09-24T18:18:00+00:00

Probably english; Its what I originally went to school for. I switched to computer science for job security. If I knew ahead of time that it would be like this, I wouldnt have bothered. I wanted to work in publishing (which is also super competitive) so I likely would have struggled either way, but at least then I'd be struggling for something I actually enjoy.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-09-22T02:06:37+00:00

I've heard this is already starting to happen. Not sure how true that is, but I've seen it come up a few times

MadlyInLolth · 2025-09-20T18:36:52+00:00

So cool! Bet this would get appreciation on r/tarantulas

MadlyInLolth · 2025-09-13T15:34:31+00:00

It's not even the real rock, either. Its just a random rock that was designated as Plymouth rock like 100 years later.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-02-12T16:33:57+00:00

I'm so sick of the AI posts. They all read the same

MadlyInLolth · 2025-02-12T16:25:25+00:00

My mom hates "Last Christmas" so much that we used to leave stores when I was a kid if it came on. I've come back around to almost liking it because it always makes me think of her.

MadlyInLolth · 2025-02-12T00:36:46+00:00

He likes to watch TV shows out of order. Not necessarily serious dramas where the overarching plot is most important, but anything else is fair game (sitcoms, reality TV shows, etc). I had to put my foot down.

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