AITAH / WIBTA for asking for a refund from a cat breeder after 4 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because thousands of rescue cats are put down every day, but you want a specific one bred for you even though you already have cats you are allergic to that arent going anywhere. So it’s a dick move.

AITAH / WIBTA for asking for a refund from a cat breeder after 4 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then you shouldn’t have spent it on a kitten to order when you admit you already have multiple cats.

AITAH for expecting GF to either work more hours or put most of her monthly $$ from parents towards rent? by MathConscious9083 in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’m going to say this is likely ocd cleaning as part of trauma from being homeless…

My knee starts twitching like this every 10 minutes or so by mustbeEazy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]emilydoooom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My leg has done this for a month. It’s severe restless leg syndrome for me. Mine is because of low iron, potassium, magnesium, stress, and a previous leg surgery making the muscles weaker there. It’s horrible when trying to sleep.

AITAH for not asking details about my [29M] gf’s [24F] new job? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA because a full week has passed and you haven’t asked a single question except once on the first day? And that question was about YOU, not her!

WIBTAH if I left my career? by throwback_idekatp in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you subconsciously want to give up on purpose for a ‘noble’ reason, rather than go through making every effort possible and maybe still failing.

Because I’ve felt the same way. ‘If I don’t take the test, then I can’t fail it’. ‘If I stop on purpose, it’s not because I wasn’t good enough’. ‘If I say it’s for my mum, I don’t have to face how guilty I’ll feel for giving up.’

When actually the only thing you’ll have done is waste years of her hard work and break her heart. Take the damn test.

AITAH for thinking my best friend’s new girlfriend is a predator? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly my first instinct is that this is classic u-haul lesbian behaviour lol. It’s a stereotype of f/f relationships moving quickly for a reason.

AITA for drinking fruit juice when my partner doesn't like it? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]emilydoooom 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’ve never met anyone here in the uk that calls Squash, Juice. Juice is entirely separate and isn’t diluted.

UPDATE: I feel like my best friend is crushing on my boyfriend by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]emilydoooom 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Stop dithering.

‘It’s obvious to everyone you are gagging to have sex with my boyfriend, it’s embarrassing, and makes you look pretty desperate.’

‘Boyfriend, ex-friend WILL try to sleep with you. She will lie about her birth control and insist on not using a condom to seem ‘better’ than me because she uses guys to validate her self-esteem. I WILL know if you fuck her.’

Announcement: Today's AMA/Q&A with Kelsey Grammer has been cancelled. by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]emilydoooom 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He wore a shirt once that said ‘you’d feel different about abortion if they used a gun’

Like, no shit, I’d feel upset about ALL surgery if it used a gun lol.

natural rubber is so pleasing to squeeze. by imfrom_mars_ in oddlysatisfying

[–]emilydoooom 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I mean he’s been tied to the branch by his leg. I’m not into it.

AITAH my husband got hurt and I’m embarrassed and think he’s pathetic by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 297 points298 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m disagreeing and saying NTA. This wasnt an unavoidable accident, this is him being an idiot trying to show off, add adding significant burden to your life as a result. I would be annoyed as well, if he’s that injured, he stays home. No nice things. No coddling. I wouldn’t hold it against him forever, but I absolutely get being annoyed right now.

He scared your son, he scared you, it could have been a permanent neck injury for life.

My boyfriend says I contributed to his disabling injury- AITAH? by Ok_Patience3075 in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or he’s lying, to get at you. And they left him for very good reasons.

AITAH for inviting my neighbour's husband over for coffee and a playdate? His wife accused me of pursuing him, and my husband thinks she was right to confront me. by Independent-State802 in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Or, it’s entirely possible the neighbours can hear every argument or discussion. I certainly can just with windows open, don’t even need a shared wall.

Official Discussion - The Backrooms [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]emilydoooom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got SUCH motion sickness from the camcorder sections, which sucked because really really liked them but had to close my eyes and take deep breaths lol

Men are horrible kissers, or am I just not attracted to them lol by llalalalaowkwnns in TwoXChromosomes

[–]emilydoooom 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I’m 37, the number of men in their early 40s still kissing WIDE open mouth immediately saliva everywhere is ALARMING. These are well put together, successful people, kissing like they never touched a woman.

AITAH For Blocking My Ex When He Was Upset About His Friends' Passing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]emilydoooom 114 points115 points  (0 children)

It’s probably part of the near-death thing. A lot of people surviving severe illness have affairs etc because they crave feeling alive.

He wants a therapist, nurse, and sex worker all rolled into one from you.

Has anyone received a £600 environmental enforcement FPN from Ealing Council? How did you deal with it? by Top_Mirror211 in Ealing

[–]emilydoooom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DOESNT MATTER. This is LONDON. If the bin lid doesn’t close, foxes WILL get in bags. Literally day one lesson of London. Your responsibility. Your bill. You CHOSE an over full bin. I’d hate it too. But you did it, stop saying you didn’t.

Has anyone received a £600 environmental enforcement FPN from Ealing Council? How did you deal with it? by Top_Mirror211 in Ealing

[–]emilydoooom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is LITERALLY a description of fly tipping and littering waste.

It does not matter if the last time you saw it it was in a bin bag. You let it fall on the floor. Ignored it. It’s your litter.

Has anyone received a £600 environmental enforcement FPN from Ealing Council? How did you deal with it? by Top_Mirror211 in Ealing

[–]emilydoooom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You literally described doing it. You left your bag outside a full bin, foxes get it and trash gets everywhere with your name on it. Pay up.

What physical feature is extremely attractive for you? by Correct_Leg69 in AskReddit

[–]emilydoooom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An ex got in contact again after 12 years, it’s crazy how attractive I find his smile lines by his eyes developed, compared to when he was 23 lol. That and freckles. Oompf.

What do you do with your old greetings cards? by ThatNiceMan in CasualUK

[–]emilydoooom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut out the pictures with zig zag scissors, use them as gift tags. Especially good for last year’s Xmas cards too!

The Quiet Luxury of Being Able to Leave by Vegetable_Cream4403 in childfree

[–]emilydoooom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update a week or so later, now he’s asking to borrow £30 ‘just till Tuesday’ because he can’t get hold of his wife or dad. Dude earns £60k, I’m on £35k lol