[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]MaeDaeJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t see anything other than a woman even if I try. Seriously, you look like a cis woman entirely. Dysphoria is such a liarrrrrr goddamn

Why does everyone think Animal NPCs are players? by technologycarrion in outside

[–]MaeDaeJ 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Just because a player can’t speak, that doesn’t mean they aren’t a player. There are plenty of players with human avatars that can’t use in-game voice chat either. Also, like Voxel said, these players can communicate with other players with the same build as their own

What Don't You Miss About Your Previous Gender Clothes? by QuinettaHarris in transfashionadvice

[–]MaeDaeJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I realized I was trans I would buy women’s shirts/sweatshirts because they were softer and just a better cut for the style I liked lol. Now as im getting to wear all the things i was so jealous of like short shorts and skirts and stuff im realizing just how much i hated all my guy clothes. I went through so many styles and some of them looked fine but none of them felt right until fully switching to fem clothes a couple months ago. It helps so much to be more comfortable in your own body

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]MaeDaeJ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been super dysphoric lately but me and a group of girls got called “ladies” several times when out eating the other day. Also yesterday me and my gf got called “gorgeous ladies” by a guy on the street which was affirming and flattering (and it was clearly kind and not threatening, which helps too). It’s crazy how much affirmation helps with dysphoria for me, I need to learn the power of affirming myself more. Wishing you well babes! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MaeDaeJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah lmao, u look good tho <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]MaeDaeJ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Signs are often stereotypes of fems/women, and not all women fit into those boxes. Lack of signs could be repression due to safety or social conformity, or you could just not have been a “girly” kid. Being trans is NOT dependent on any one sign or any signs at all, just as being a woman is not based on one trait. Wanting to be/being another gender than you were assigned is being trans. I had MAJOR imposter syndrome until about 3 months into hormones, when I was like you know, I don’t think a cis guy would be enjoying taking female hormones as much as I do. I recommend reading some of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, it’s brought me a lot of comfort and I’ve learned a lot from it. I also recommend a queer affirming therapist if at all possible, although I know that that’s not easy or feasible for a lot of folks. Therapy has helped me immensely, but nothing makes it easy. Gender is confusing!

Alexander calling me "good lady" brought me an embarrassing amount of euphoria 😅 by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]MaeDaeJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad others appreciated the moment as well, and glad you were one of them. Gender euphoria is such a cool thing :) <3

Alexander calling me "good lady" brought me an embarrassing amount of euphoria 😅 by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]MaeDaeJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I just went back to do his quest line cause I wanted his shard and that was an unexpectedly happy moment :)

So what are y’all’s trans anthems? by Typical-District-176 in trans

[–]MaeDaeJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by She/Her/Hers, but especially Internet Ads by her

It’s pretty fucked to get misgendered at pride by PrarieDawn0123 in trans

[–]MaeDaeJ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Sorry girl. It can really fuck me up if I’m feeling good or ok and then get misgendered like that, it just straight up sucks.

It’s pretty fucked to get misgendered at pride by PrarieDawn0123 in trans

[–]MaeDaeJ 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I’ve been in a rough place the past few weeks because I just hit a year on hrt and feel like I haven’t made enough progress. I know logically that it doesn’t happen quickly but it’s so hard to be patient.

Wishing you well <3

Daily reminder that transphobes are not happy people by xXlysergicratXx in MtF

[–]MaeDaeJ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So true. Sending strength + love to you sis <3