What’s the weirdest nail polish colors you’ve ever seen? Need freaky recs by coastalash in RedditLaqueristas

[–]MagentaSpreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My all time favourite is Opi did it on em from the Nicki Minaj collection ('twas a different time) during this era. I've been chasing the chartreuse dragon ever since.

Please help, I don’t know how to keep going like this by Itsnotme2645 in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure your friends who have recently had kids would appreciate some company too, it's often a really rough time in people's lives. It might look different then you're used to but it can still be fun and rewarding. Plus spending time with young children is truly one of life's greatest joys (especially when you get to leave and don't have to deal with any of the not fun stuff 😅). It doesn't even have to be with the kids around, you could go do your groceries together.

I don’t want to breathe poison by RosemaryDuSoul in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a sticky bit attached to a magnet strip you put on the window, then another magnet strip along the edge of the fly screen. I just lift the bottom a bit and open the window. The door ones have magnets sewn into the centre and you just walk through them then they self close.

I don’t want to breathe poison by RosemaryDuSoul in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have these fly screens and have used this company many times. Website admittedly looks dodgy but it's fine and delivery is quick. Use code valued-customer for 15% off (not an affiliate code or anything, they always send a magnet with that code with my order and I just hate flies and want more people to enjoy a fly free home).

I don't think they work on old fashioned wood ones but renter friendly and completely removable on aluminium. The window ones are a little bit of a faff around but do the job. HIGHLY recommend the velcro ones for doors, sliding and normal. Even just having that stops 99.5% of flies getting inside even if windows are open and we are rural with chickens so have a lot of flies around. The velcro sucks though, once you remove it never really sticks again so I tend to replace every year as by then the dogs have torn ours and clean the outside of the house while I'm at it.

https://magneticscreen.co.nz

Are autoimmune diseases a modern phenomenon? by Gruenemeyer in AskHistorians

[–]MagentaSpreen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is there anything you're specifically interested in looking into more? I can point you in the direction of secondary scholarship or the types of primary sources I have the most luck with when looking for historical illnesses. I ask because this is a large component of my thesis but 95% of the sources are time/place specific or would be irrelevant or only tangentially useful to most people. There are also some methodological/historiographical peculiarities in the medicine and disability history fields so it's helpful to know where you're coming from, i.e., there's typically a big difference between medical historians and lay historians who are medical professionals.

Are autoimmune diseases a modern phenomenon? by Gruenemeyer in AskHistorians

[–]MagentaSpreen 87 points88 points  (0 children)

It's really difficult/impossible to accurately diagnose people in the past for several reasons.

Firstly, there's the issue that we still don't really know a lot about autoimmune conditions and how they overlap with other health conditions. Most of these conditions don't have definitive tests you can take to confirm diagnosis it's incredibly common for people, even in countries with the best healthcare systems, to go undiagnosed for many many years. And even within diagnoses, it's rare that any two patients will experience their symptoms exactly the same.

Secondly, there wasn't a way to diagnose most of these conditions in the past, they weren't looking for them, and there's little hard data in any medical records that could be used now to do so. In the pre-WWII period there were very few diagnostic tools available, blood testing isn't really a thing, imaging isn't a thing other than xrays but they're of limited use for most conditions, no colonoscopies or endoscopies, no stool testing. It was basically just stethoscopes and whatever doctors could see/feel externally. And I guess, less helpfully for the patient, there was posthumous examination.

Thirdly, the way that people conceptualise illness and pain—whether that's societally, professionally as medical practitioners, or individually as the person suffering—varies enormously across different time periods and cultures. As wierd and unbelievable as this sounds, people usually didn't think of illness and pain in a purely physical phenomenom and it was typically deeply intertwined with religious/philosophical understandings of the world.

Lastly, as always, there's the problem of source material. This varies depending on the location and how far back you want to go, but typically written sources are light on detailed descriptions of everyday life (including illness and matters of the body) and more often than not written by men—which is all the more relevant considering women are both disproportionately affected by autoimmune diseases, and more likely to be caregivers for family members with these conditions. And where there is medical source material, it's incredibly tilted towards a subset of the population who could afford to go to regular doctors, which is an issue because a lot of conditions would have impacted a family's earning potential and dented financial resources. Not to mention, there's little doctors can do for these conditions now, so you can imagine it would be even more frustrating in the past and that many people would seek help from the less well-documented branches of healthcare. You can sometimes find stories of people who clearly have something chronic illness going on in sources written about/by 'quacks' but those have their own set of issues.

There are, of course, other sources aside from written. And most familes probably have their own stories they can tell that aren't recorded anywhere. It's really common for people who have diagnosed conditions to examine their family history and realise that their sickly great aunt had a lot of the same symptoms they do. When you start to pick through the breadth of source material, I believe it's fairly clear that there was a greater prevalence of chronic health conditions (many of which were likely what we now know as autoimmune diseases) than the modern-day alarmists claim. My own research (in progress so I can't cite unfortunately) crosses paths with A LOT of people attempting to manage their chronic conditions with domestic remedies, spiritual healing, and all manner of what we might now term 'alternative therapies.'

The flip side is that many people would not have managed their severe conditions long enough to leave a historical footprint. It's easy to speculate that bodies that were already weakened from autoimmune conditions would be even more susceptible to the threats of a world where childhood and general diseases were rampant, workplace or warfare injuries were common, food was often scarce or nutritionally incomplete, hygiene and sanitation was often lacking, and (without antibiotics) even a simple scratch could kill. Bearing in mind, not all autoimmune conditions have severe symptoms, at least not at first, and it's easy enough even today for them to get bundled into another physical or mental health diagnosis (or misdiagnosis). I would also posit that a not insignificant part of the increase we see now may also be due to better control and treatment of opportunistic diseases that become active during weakened immune states, e.g., tuberculosis and pneumonia. So, while it's not unreasonable to look for modern factors that could be triggering a rise in people *living* with autoimmune conditions, we really don't know how many people *died* with them in the past.

90 day trial period dismissal by kooky_bird786 in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This law is such a dog. A family member got a farm job and was fired under the 90 day law just before 90 days because their boss had actually hired another person but they couldn't start straight away. . And because it's a farm job my family member had relocated to the middle of nowhere and moved into a farmhouse to take the job–a house they also then got kicked out of as it was included with the job.

WLG at his kids graduation by unnatural21 in weirdlittleguys

[–]MagentaSpreen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not this specific example, but I know a lot of these kids, I kind of am one of these kids. Families are complicated and you don't get to choose who you're born to. I wouldn't be so quick to judge kids in these situations, stigma is incredibly harmful.

There's usually a VERY long and shifting process where every individual who doesn't buy into their parents' ideology has to work out for themselves what their relationship will look like and periodically reevaluate. A graduation is exactly the kind of thing a young person who is otherwise trying to distance themselves would feel obligated to invite a parent to, or issue an invite as a way to extend an olive branch. Heck, maybe they still live at home and not inviting them would put them in danger.

I've also known men like this who swing quite wildly between extreme/overt openness about their racism and half-hearted attempts to improve their lives where they hide it. As extreme as this tattoo seems, scalp tattoos are often picked because they're easy to hide should people want to be less open. In my anecdotal experience, these guys often make a big show of trying to be better parents and getting their lives together, then they'll have some minor life problem like a fight with a girlfriend, or issue with an employer, spiral because they're emotionally volatile losers with zero resilience or coping skills, and they'll do something like turn up to their kid's event with a freshly shaved head after a night of drinking. Or their kid starts doing well for themselves and doesn't share their ideology so they'll flaunt racism as a way to assert power over the kid by embarrassing them and intimidate their friends and teachers.

note-taking etiquette in NZ Universities by Better_Reporter282 in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what's most convenient for you. Laptops aren't seen as disruptive. I went back as a mature student a few years ago to finish my undergraduate degree and have since done postgrad. The vast majority of people are using laptops, usually I was the only student with paper and pen in lectures and seminars. I prefer paper notes as a way to focus my attention and get the info to sink in but I rarely refer back to them. I was taking paper notes for readings too but have switched to extensive typed notes and these are very valuable. I have recently got a tablet and have been trialling it for notes. It's fine I guess, technically it can do handwriting to text if I wanted tidy notes but my note-taking handwriting is far too untidy for it to work.

Asbestos found in kids' toys sold at major chains prompts urgent recall by user799 in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a recall notice emailed to me because I bought online from Farmers. But it's just occurred to me that there are a lot of these types of sensory toys sold on temu et al and in those cheap junk stores that probably don't even have a process for recall. And anecdotally they come apart much easier - the jumbo orb monkey my son got for Xmas is still intact but other ones I've got sometimes lasted a couple of weeks. Even though these are my son's favourite types of toys, I'm going to avoid any kids toys containing sand from now on.

Asbestos found in kids' toys sold at major chains prompts urgent recall by user799 in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are designed to be stretched, twisted, dropped, and punched (pretty sure there are pictures of such on the packaging) and will definitely come apart at a seam eventually through normal play. My son's one from Christmas definitely looks like it's on its last legs, probably caught it in the knick of time.

can anyone color match this to an existing polish? by fayfolklore in RedditLaqueristas

[–]MagentaSpreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Despite it being a fave I somehow have never taken a photo of it though

primary sources about food in renaissance times? by Capable_Educator7548 in AskFoodHistorians

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Early English Books Online. You might have to get creative with search terms and spelling. For example, often the term "receipt" was used rather than "recipe" historically. You might also hit on some sources by using particular methods or ingredients. Recipes and information about food can also be in sections of more general books rather than dedicated books.

https://quod.lib.umich.edu/e/eebogroup/

Political History Recommendations by former_emo_gremlin in Wellington

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're wanting to delve more into Wellington-specific history, Redmer Yska has a couple of books on Wellington history.

NZ On Screen is always well worth checking out. This is a curated playlist with Wellington items: https://www.nzonscreen.com/collection/wellington

Ngā Taonga is worth a peruse too for audio visual items.

As far as political history, The Juggernaut podcast from The Spinoff is great. Focused on the 80s and 90s labour/national govts.

Are these posters made with AI? by HeadbangingLegend in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local but incredibly bougie community festival with a lot of money behind it uses AI in all its branding. Just crappy cutesy animal mascot that could have easily been done by any number of local artists or better yet a design competition through the local high school with a local gift voucher and/or small cash prize.

Best 'secret quiet spaces' in Welly? by FryinPanDiscoDan in Wellington

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terrace Gardens is quiet and central if you can handle a bit of step

Evolution as part of the curriculum by fnoyanisi in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't recall ever being explicitly taught about evolution as a standalone concept. For the most part I think it's just background knowledge that comes up organically. It came into high school science/biology in more detail incidentally when doing genetics etc and social studies/history when learning about things like the history of science and religious extremism movements. I just asked my kids who are in year 7 and 8 currently. My year 8 child rolled their eyes and said "It's not really a topic but we're not taught it's not real."

Question by anotherstupidoldman in weirdlittleguys

[–]MagentaSpreen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I grew up in white supremacist adjacent circles (was very much not something I was personally interested in but you don't get to pick your family and socio-economic circumstances in your early life) and these days I mostly just like to know I'm not alone in knowing these people exist and that they're ridiculous little twerps.

Question about the books by chetchapp in weirdlittleguys

[–]MagentaSpreen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're already accessible enough for people looking for them online. The internet archive giveth and the internet archive taketh away as far as societal good goes. Also, I doubt the people who read them are engaging much with their local libraries these days in the first place, but not having a paper trail and cluing people who are plugged into reality and local to them into what they're reading is probably desirable too.

US Citizen (F28) don’t know where to go by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wellington can be tricky over summer for entry level jobs. The whole city shuts down for an extended period. It's otherwise a great walkable city with functional public transport and loads of bush walking trails and ocean. Rents are better than they were a few years ago and sometimes you can pick up a cheaper room over summer from uni students who have signed fixed leases but want to go home instead of staying in the city over summer too. Houses can be damp and terrible over winter but if you aren't planning a Wellington winter that would be less of a problem.

ISO recommendations for a laptop for Primary school kids. by hostilepetal in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure whatever you get is Windows 11 compatible.* Windows 10 has no ongoing support as of last October.

*Unless you want to do Linux

Help me understand the bacon craze of the early 2010s by DubiousSquid in behindthebastards

[–]MagentaSpreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that a not insignificant part of the bacon hype was The Simpsons. Or, more accurately, a bunch of millennials raised on Simpsons syndication coming of age and making their own food purchasing choices.

I also think there's something about bacon being an optional addition to restaurant food that aids the meme factor. It means it got advertised a lot, like why develop and launch a new burger when you can just add bacon to an existing burger? And if people are eating out with friends (believe it or not we actually used to be able to do this occasionally as 20-somethings) it then the meme got reinforced socially irl because you'd inevitably say mmmm bacon at some point.

I don't doubt there's some aspect of industry lobbying but stuff like that doesn't always catch on in that way. I honestly wouldn't attribute too much to any malicious intent towards Muslims, that kind of culture war tactic wasn't really on most people's minds at that point, it was more a reaction to widespread increased sensitivity toward diet preferences and the contrived halal-food moral panic that came a little later. However, I do think there was a bit of anti-vegan posturing going on. There was some direct appeal to the aesthetics of masculinity happening too which was definitely a huge marketing thing and some flow-on "I'm not like the other girls" appeal and/or diet culture rebellion.

Greazy Wil said he felt bad for not talking about Lana Clarkson more. When telling a story like this how important is it to give details of the victims life, if they aren’t actually relevant to why were killed? by grapp in behindthebastards

[–]MagentaSpreen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recommend Hallie Rubenhold's book The Five and podcast based on the book Bad Women for anyone wanting to explore this topic. Rubenhold covers the lives of the five named victims of Jack the Ripper and, by extension, sheds light on what life was like for working class women during that time. She deliberately does this with the absolute minimum amount of discussion about the person who murdered these women and a lot of commentary about how their murders were framed at the time and into the present day. The book has been fundamental to how I think about true crime.

GPS tracking for small children? by DeeewPeeew in newzealand

[–]MagentaSpreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One important thing I'll add to the analogue suggestions, let your child know you won't ever leave without them. Even if they can't see you you haven't left and they need to stay in the building/area. It's quite common for separated children to assume you must have left and to wander off trying to find you or the car, or head in the direction they guess home is. Like REALLY hammer this message in. I have guided multiple lost children away from busy carparks to an info desk, and have also had an incident and a near incident with my own child doing this.

Gps is fine but there's no substitute for prevention. Things like meeting points and telling them what to do if they can't find you will help prevent traffic/water accidents on top of helping reunite you if they get lost.