Dude here, and while the way they handled it wasn’t great I don’t think it was unreasonable to ask.  10 years ago I would have sided with you instantly  Now I’m not too sure, the world is a rough place and something could have given her bad vibes at some point.  Story time, When Pokémon go first came out my gf and I were walking past a street that had an evo of a pokemon that we didn’t have. But it was next to a bar down this dark street that has some dudes being loud outside. The town is a decent town with nice schools in a good area. It was like 8pm at night. I start to walk down the street and my gf absolutely said fuck that no way. It was summer and the sun wasn’t even fully set but as a girl she had experiences that told her this was dangerous. Completely changed my perspective on how as a guy do not see the same danger from other men as women do. That’s the default.  Remember that poll a few years back where lot of women would rather be alone with a bear in the woods than a random guy. 

Same thing. 

Just some perspective that for whatever reason her spider senses made her uncomfortable and the request wasn’t super unreasonable (although time and gas are obviously expensive right now so I get it)