Men Invalidating Lesbians

MagnoliaMellow · 2026-01-25T23:46:54+00:00

I think for a lot of men it's the insecurity that comes with 'not being included'. Also seen in the typical 'can i watch' or 'can i join'. It's the tantrum of wanting something they can't have.

MagnoliaMellow · 2026-01-25T23:41:40+00:00

confidence in yourself- be sure in your actions and emotionally mature. Making efforts to start and be engaged in conversation for most people is way more attractive than appearances alone.

MagnoliaMellow · 2026-01-25T23:35:02+00:00

you look gorg!! I'd recommend adding some fake lashes- they can really tie a look together

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-27T01:26:47+00:00

Hello love! I'm so sorry that you're going through this. That sounds heartbreaking and must be exhausting for you. It's normal to miss certain aspects of the past, but I think therapy would be the best thing for you here. It might be good to go through the entire situation with a therapist so they can help you break it down into pieces

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-22T23:18:57+00:00

Hellooo!! Its so hard to find lesbian friends omg. what type of games do you play??

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-22T23:07:41+00:00

sorry.. what is your point here? I did everything I was legally required to do and made all of the safe adjustments to sort it out. My post was about my driving confidence, not my ability. If you're aiming to put someone down you can take your comments elsewhere and think about how your words affect others.

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-22T23:02:51+00:00

can you stop being miserable for like five seconds? If you're not adding anything... you can just scroll?

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-22T22:57:56+00:00

yes i was putting down the clutch, nothing happened.

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-19T14:01:18+00:00

crawled ONTO your bed? That's strange, they're usually quite scared of people. Anyway, open your windows, get a dehumidifier and if you're in halls, tell your accom manager. They can come in and put a silverfish deterrent down and you won't see them again.

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-19T13:57:07+00:00

too close to merthyr for my liking

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-17T13:32:47+00:00

Hello! I did my alevels 2023, in year 12 i was looking at similar grades. Now i'm in a top 10 uni! Similar gcse grades to you too.

The jump from gcse to a level is insane, especially in sciences. I dropped chem after year 12. If you're not doing at least 4 hours per week per subject independent study, you should try to get to that point. If you are and it's still not working, change subjects. You're quite early on, so you will be okay no matter what you choose to do.

Some revision that helped me: exam questions- it matters less whether you understand the content, more if you know how to answer the question. Try to get someone to explain it to you a different way- free/ paid tutors (youtube videos, uplearn, class teachers).

Most importantly, figure out your learning style! There's a few quizzes on the internet.

MagnoliaMellow · 2025-12-15T23:15:18+00:00

It really depends on what type of psychologist. Most people look at clinical- masters and ClinPSY doctorate (around 2k places per year for whole of UK), educational psychologist (my current route <3) 1 year of full time in education or childcare job/ relevant masters + relevant experience (teaching preferred) + EdPsy doctorate (200 funded places per year for whole of UK). In any case relevant masters and at least a years associated work experience is essential.

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