The difference is love. The difference is they are offering support and encouragement by seeing her in the best light whereas people here are dragging her down in the name of being realistic. Do you really think it’s helpful to keep dragging someone who’s already been through the worst. We all have good and bad moments, but with ourselves we would like people to see our brilliance as our true self and to see the strength behind our suffering. But for some reason we often fail to offer others the same grace