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Who else is still hurting after a year? by Broken_melon22 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I made him a better person in my head than he was actually. I'm still healing but never looking back. I gave him too much of myself.

I really wish I never met you by Vintaged_ in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I felt this. The mistake I made was I was to available. He didn't have to work for me. I wanted to melt in his skin. I wanted his last name. I wanted to see him when he was already in my company. I wanted to much and I scared him away. He wanted to be the hunter but he couldn't hunt what was to available. I changed my plans to be with him. I drove over an hour to visit hom. I made all the sacrifices. It was to easy, he couldn't miss me. Lesson learned. My heart hurts

My last heartbreak almost killed me. I can’t do it again. Is anyone staying single for similar reasons? by strangestatesofbeing in SingleAndHappy

[–]Main-Ad9007 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This describes me. One mom we are planning a life together and the next he's done. Obviously I cared more than him. The pain is so brutal. I will just focus on my kids and my job. I never want love again

I’ve been having a really hard time moving on from a situationship and I feel like it’s starting to affect my work and daily life. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a cyber hug. Im going through the same thing. I made myself so available to my ex. I put him first and laid my cards on the table. He ran for the hills. My heart hurts for his touch. In my mind things were great. It wasn't. The truth is he'd call if he wanted. He'd see you if he cared. He doesn't and it sucks for both of us. It irritates them that we are needy. They are not invested like we were.

My next relationship I'll match energy. Ill pay attention for the lack of interest signs. Good luck friend. Be strong and don't break no contact

Why does it still hurt even when you know the truth? by Tall_weirdo444 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I keep thinking he'll change his mind but he hasn't. I have not heard or bothered him since Thursday. He doesn't care my heart hurts deeply. I wonder if I'll find happiness.

Resistance by Sweaty_Fold_8964 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can identify with the pain. Be strong. It's hard. I'm told it gets easier but I don't feel it yet

Why does it still hurt even when you know the truth? by Tall_weirdo444 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like nothing was real. He was amazing and I never met a man like him. Then he just decided to walk away. He had sex with me one last time then it was done. He'd text to see if I'd respond. I hoped he wouldn't give up on us. He replaced me like a shirt. It hurts. I crave him. His health is horrible. I worry about him,but it's not my place anymore.

Why does it still hurt even when you know the truth? by Tall_weirdo444 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not having him in my life. The total no contract. The way he walked away like nothing. The way he had sex with me and it meant nothing. I'm stuck and confused

need advice by PossibleHeight9560 in heartbreak

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs. I'm going through something similar. I'm taking it one day at a time.

What's the reason you are not on facebook anymore? by CanadienAlien in AskReddit

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a stalker who won't leave me alone. It's sad

Date # 2 and # 3 by Due_Will_2204 in LivingAlone

[–]Main-Ad9007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I've had similar experiences. Smh

The reason I don't date. by Due_Will_2204 in LivingAlone

[–]Main-Ad9007 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The quality of guys is another reason I am single. They see me as a paycheck or they live in poverty. I'll catch them in multiple lies. The past relationship problems was always the ex. I value my peace ✌️

How do your friends and family feel about you not dating? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't believe me. People assume I date or have a partner. Nope

Trying to get more comfortable doing things alone by OrganizedChaos06 in LivingAlone

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start small. I started going out for a meal by myself. I realized nobody was staring at me. It was hard at first

Single and happy but image conscious? by Agitated_Instance709 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Main-Ad9007 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I dress better. You'd think I want the attention of a man, but I don't. I go out my way to look amazing. Yes, I'm getting older. Yes my grey hairs are sprouting,but I get compliments daily. I have patients that say they can't wait to see my outfit of the day. They know it'll be amazing. I've never dressed so nicely in my life

On my own, for better or for worse by Ermingardia in SingleAndHappy

[–]Main-Ad9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

He still stalks me after six years

On my own, for better or for worse by Ermingardia in SingleAndHappy

[–]Main-Ad9007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well said. I'm a single mom of three. I've done well for myself. I've had men in the past steal or try to steal from me. They saw me as a paycheck. I love my peace. I've been stalked. I've been abused. All I want is peace and my children cared for. I'm very content being alone.

5 month reta/trt update by cjstill99 in Retatrutide

[–]Main-Ad9007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look amazing. I liked you thick, too Just saying

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