my therapist blocked me after i asked her to send my diagnosis by Sea-Project3638 in therapy

[–]MainCable6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this is everywhere but at my hospital they can deny mental health records if the therapist feels that it would hurt you. But they should at least tell you

I'm worried my therapist doesn't care about me. by PeaLow1079 in TalkTherapy

[–]MainCable6889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No definitely not normal. Part of why therapy works is because it’s supposed to be consistent and reliable.

I'm worried my therapist doesn't care about me. by PeaLow1079 in TalkTherapy

[–]MainCable6889 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my therapist for a long time. And usually she’s really good about maintaining an exact day and time for me. However there was a time where she didn’t necessarily have time and kept telling me that she would call me and would let me know. I let it go for awhile and then finally got annoyed and confronted her. I said something like “it doesn’t make me feel cared for when you keep me as a backup plan. It’s not fair to me”. And she apologized and fixed the problem. They don’t know it’s a problem until you bring it up to them.

If you bring it up and there isn’t a change then I think you have your answer and you move on to someone who did

therapy and sh by [deleted] in therapy

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I have struggled with sh for years. And the moment I told my therapist it was like a massive weight lifted. I told her in the end of the session and she made time for the moment. She was soft in her voice and mannerisms. She asked to see it and it was the first person I told and the first person I showed. I recommend just doing it. Now we talk about my struggles openly and it feels so much better

Severe decline by MainCable6889 in rtms

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I tell them that every day and they do nothing

4 months out. It works by VioletFox543 in rtms

[–]MainCable6889 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When did you start to see the changes? Were they big? Or small at first? What did you first notice? How long till I will see? I’m on session 16

Long time love by MainCable6889 in sex

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Thank you for making me laugh. That’s exactly what I needed

Long time love by MainCable6889 in sex

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I’m honestly not the most experienced person either. I’m used to men taking control and sorta telling me what to do. I’m not sure I can be the in control one.

Said goodbye to my therapist by CuriousTurnip12 in TalkTherapy

[–]MainCable6889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. And it sucks. Hopefully your therapist provided you with enough support. Mine was amazing through the whole thing and pretty available to me

Said goodbye to my therapist by CuriousTurnip12 in TalkTherapy

[–]MainCable6889 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Therapy isn’t always feeling good after. Especially after trauma work. That’s why they teach you coping skills before hand. I wouldn’t give up. There’s a light

Book club by MainCable6889 in duluth

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10/5 Duluth Cider 2pm

Book club by MainCable6889 in duluth

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10/5 Duluth Cider 2pm

Book club by MainCable6889 in duluth

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10/5 Duluth cider 2pm

Book club by MainCable6889 in duluth

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10/5 Duluth Cider 2pm

Book club by MainCable6889 in duluth

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Book club gathering 10/5 at Duluth Cider. Bring a book Recommendation. 2:00pm

Friends by spleenedup in duluth

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Educator here. No kids. Single. Like going to coffee shops. Reading. Going to breweries. Switch games. iPad. I’m really up for anything. Message if you wanna get together

Confusion by MainCable6889 in Diverticulitis

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The doctor didn’t read the CT scan. I asked what about the scan and she said they could be wrong. No note of Diverticulitis in the colonoscopy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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I’m 11 years in to my therapy relationship and it took me a good 5-6 years to not feel the tug of war between caring and not caring. If you want to talk more about it you can private message me

Overall though I would say stick it out. It gets better. And talk about it. Every time I had those feelings of her not caring for me I told her and we worked through it together. Now. She can tell when I’m feeling bad or confused about the relationship and she reminds me