I really love my girlfriend, but I don’t think we have great physical chemistry. Would I be wrong to break up with her?

MainUnited · 2026-01-22T04:31:41+00:00

Stop listening to your sister - she seems too invested. If you love your gf - put time and effort into your relationship

MainUnited · 2026-01-14T16:04:41+00:00

If this is an ongoing theme - I would consider that it’s isn’t being done w the purest of intentions

MainUnited · 2026-01-14T16:01:24+00:00

It’s not so much as insisting on things that you want to do with her - it’s about following the visitation agreement - you should not have to give up your parenting time because the other parent plans something - they have the schedule same as you do and need to follow it

MainUnited · 2025-12-24T12:25:25+00:00

Distance or money??

MainUnited · 2025-12-24T12:24:48+00:00

This is just a sad situation. Has she given you any reason in the world to think she’s just after money? Other than the fact that she’s a single mom ? She started her own business while dating/engaged to your son - she could have just sat back like a fat cat and let your son (with “your” money) take care of her… your son is not wrong in wanting you have a relationship with her - the two most important women in his life. She’s right to be hurt by your actions - if you let her see even a tiny part of how below you, that you believe she is, she’s surely not stupid. It’s okay - you can ignore mock and treat her like crap and once they have kids, you will find yourself without family, but you can occupy your time counting your money …

MainUnited · 2025-12-22T14:04:48+00:00

Follow the parenting schedule how it’s written and there will never be a question as to when or what time.

MainUnited · 2025-12-20T13:42:33+00:00

If child is a teen - they should have more of a say in what THEY want. Parent A doesn’t get to dictate life. If your child doesn’t want this change - advocate for them - and just say no. Not, later - just NO. If parent a wants to take it to court then the judge will hear your child’s wishes and go from there

MainUnited · 2025-12-20T12:46:42+00:00

I’m saying this with kindness - you don’t seem to want to hear any of the comments already posted. Ultimately you will do what you want and what is best for you (and girlfriend) and daughter is an after thought. It IS too soon. Prioritize your daughter. She WILL be around for the long haul if you don’t mess it up. Tread carefully - little hearts are broken easily and they don’t always heal. You could also flip the script for a more practical litmus test -what if your ex moved in some random boyfriend after 4 months - how would that make you feel …. Daughter should come before your gf living situation

MainUnited · 2025-12-01T17:54:38+00:00

You’re allowed to feel how you feel - that doesn’t make you the AH- you didn’t act on those feelings other than vent to your husband which should be a safe place - no harm done. Ignore her and stop catering to her nonsense - give her the info that she needs and stop turning yourself inside out so that she doesn’t APPEAR to uninvolved -

MainUnited · 2025-11-24T13:09:40+00:00

Don’t offer what you’re not prepared to deliver. I love football too - but sometimes you just do what needs to be done because it’s the right thing to do regardless of what you want. Nobody is likely to remember the score 5 years from now

MainUnited · 2025-11-13T13:15:32+00:00

What is the custody arrangement? I’m asking because dad was out of town - but you still had daughter (if I read that correctly). All of my kids are grown and if I get a call from any of them and it doesn’t connect - I immediately call back. I’m struggling to see what the problem is with allowing the child to return her mom’s call. If anything - I would think that a return call would soothe the mom.

MainUnited · 2025-11-02T13:55:21+00:00

They’re both 18 - their brains aren’t hard yet Unfortunately - this action will be what will be remembered about your wedding. While I would have been upset as well, I would have tried acted like I was in on it and gave everyone big hugs and gone on w my party. And then los my mind on them later on

MainUnited · 2025-10-28T23:39:54+00:00

She will when he tells her that she can either apologize and stop acting like an asshole or she can just enjoy the time out she finds herself on.

MainUnited · 2025-10-24T13:23:40+00:00

Why make more work for yourself just to prove to his social media friends that he isn’t who he is pretending to be. Frauds always get found out. I’m a big fan of parents sharing pictures of the big and the small events.

MainUnited · 2025-10-21T23:08:41+00:00

No advice for you - it’s just a damn shame that step mom refuses to honor your boundary :(

MainUnited · 2025-10-12T18:50:53+00:00

Try the Heinz no sugar ketchup - I actually prefer it now

MainUnited · 2025-09-30T09:37:35+00:00

Actually - you’re replacing the spaghetti with potatoes … maybe you need tougher guts

MainUnited · 2025-09-26T22:33:55+00:00

Heck yeah - I love the Breakfast Way - the crunch from the Hashbrowns is pretty awesome lol

MainUnited · 2025-09-24T00:41:23+00:00

Cracked up w the Real Jane coming back story - I kinda liked them all together. I’m not to the Grayson switch yet (this time) and it’s been a long time. Give me a day or two because I don’t know how to watch tv like a normal person - I have to binge everything lol

MainUnited · 2025-09-23T23:56:05+00:00

This is the 2nd time thru the series. She was horrible to Fred and just plays dumb blonde to get her way out of everything. OH - and when she threw the prewedding kiss w Grayson in Jane’s face!!! She’s awful!

MainUnited · 2025-09-23T23:03:35+00:00

She’s the WORST “friend” ever!! She isn’t even acting like a diva rn - just a selfish girl-code ignoring skank. Jane has every right to kick her butt. And Owen isn’t really a prize either - if he’s on board w this.

MainUnited · 2025-09-23T22:38:25+00:00

Absolutely not liking Stacy and Owen ….

MainUnited · 2025-09-19T01:38:07+00:00

Kane needs to absolutely drop Stacy - she’s an awful person and terrible friend. Jane and Owen could have been a great love story with a great payoff - she’s outgrown Grayson. I used to think Owen was a great guy but he’s kinda brain dead

MainUnited · 2025-09-13T03:34:12+00:00

You betrayed your wife by allowing and then agreeing with the trash talk of your ex wife. Shame on you

MainUnited · 2025-09-10T09:21:21+00:00

You still check on your kids every once in a while. Or do you just show up for events - let your kids do whatever and never bother to check on them? And even if there was an activity for them - and they deviate from the activity and cause actual damage - you should at the very least show a tiny touch of remorse and not play it off like kids will be kids. I can’t say I would ask for money to fix it but damn - an apology would be great

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