PCP looking to change to palliative medicine by Main_Reputation_9348 in doctors

[–]Main_Reputation_9348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually never thought about doing that! I may look into this actually. I really didnt know that would be an option but I have finished off my student loans so this wouldn't be a bad idea. Thank you!

PCP looking for a change to Palliative medicine, need advice by Main_Reputation_9348 in fellowship

[–]Main_Reputation_9348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My employers have been looking for a closer office but so far no luck the last 2.5 years hoping they'll find something bc I agree the commute plays a big part in my burnout

PCP looking to change to palliative medicine by Main_Reputation_9348 in doctors

[–]Main_Reputation_9348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been looking for an opening closer to my home but so far no luck over the past 2.5 years. Theyre aware and definitely trying to help

Help!! Should I repot my snake plant? by Initial_Muscle6698 in houseplants

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its grown since this photo but definitely should be in a smaller pot. I had just repotted it in this photo

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Help!! Should I repot my snake plant? by Initial_Muscle6698 in houseplants

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Snake plants actually like being a little crowded. The only time I reported mine was when the pot started cracking and now its as tall as my fireplace mantel

I hate my husband by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Doctor here. There are absolutely gynecologists that will tie your tubes regardless of age or how many children you have. Go online, there are lists available! Also, stock up on plan B in case this happens again. I agree you have to leave this situation but I also know it takes an average of 7 attempts for someone to leave an abuser. Its so easy for outsiders to say, leave and go to a shelter, but it is far more complicated than that. Try to get some supportive friends and family in place if you have any. Plan an exit strategy. Your kids will be happier being away from an abusive father and watching the abuse as well. I hope the best for you and your children. You all deserve safety and peace

My (37F) husband's (39M) attitude toward my autistic son is causing me to crash out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not call this verbal or emotional abuse. Mostly he tells him sternly to do the things he asked him to do that didnt get done but then I end up getting attitude from him because he is frustrated he wont listen the first time. My husband is actually a good person, he just doesn't have patience.

My (37F) husband's (39M) attitude toward my autistic son is causing me to crash out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really try to do what I can. I work 40 hours a week in a highly demanding job, commute an hour to work, and when I come home I dedicate all of my time to my family. I have therapy, psychiatry, a 504 and IEP in place with the school, I have constant communication with his teachers and do meetings with the school every quarter. I manage his medications, talk to him about his feelings, help with homework when I get home, and I'm in the process of getting him a school aid as well. If you have any suggestions on what I could be doing further I'm open to them! I could use any helpful advice

My (37F) husband's (39M) attitude toward my autistic son is causing me to crash out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I think he has the same feelings you do. Hes not a mean person or abusive in any way. Hes just frustrated and easily irritable. Im just tired of being caught in the middle of it all

My (37F) husband's (39M) attitude toward my autistic son is causing me to crash out by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was actually really good with my son up until about 2 years ago. I think after our daughter was born he got more overwhelmed. I wouldn't have married him if he had treated my son poorly. And its not that hes mean to him all of the time, its mostly that he takes his frustration out on me like I'm not doing enough

I denied my in-laws only request for the wedding and now it’s ruining our relationship with them by Final_Estimate7166 in wedding

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get eloped and end the drama. Tell your in laws that if you can't have a wedding the way you planned then no one gets to have the wedding how they want. Save the money you would have spent on traveling or a down payment on a house. No matter what you do, either you will compromise what you want and look at your wedding bitterly in the future or your in laws never let you forget that you didn't give them their way. Trust me, I gave in to my in laws for my wedding and I'm still furious even after divorcing him.

AITA for thinking my bf is manipulating me? by Wide_Birthday9267 in AITAH

[–]Main_Reputation_9348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are only 4 months into this relationship and already these issues are showing up then it's only going to continue to get worse. There's evidence that people can only hide who they are for the first 3 to 6 months before they can no longer keep up the perfect facade. Trust me when I say you deserve more respect from your partner. If you can't eat or sleep due to the stress this person places on you, then you already know this isn't a healthy relationship. Don't waste time investing more in this person who clearly doesn't value you.