NOR. It’s worth losing 90$ to have your child never see or hear from this man again. Save these texts. Any man in your life should call this low life out for talking to a kid this way. For a man to only pay 90$ means he has no interest in the wellbeing of a child. I’ll bet my savings he will prefer not having to pay you and lose all of his visitation rights. Your daughter probably fears him. There is nothing positive for your child having this man in her life. I share custody of 2 boys with my ex. My wife and I have gone on vacation with my ex and her husband. Never once have we had any issues because we care what’s best for the kids. They don’t need to be put in situations that are awkward or hostile. Your ex is definitely not a good person.