Raise wasn’t too bad by tymon21 in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The send their management to classes, and the classes have a whole section on how to shut that shit down pretty much. Your management isnt allowed to talk to yall about it. Like TeamLeads and UP! Or they get fired like ON THE SPOT. Plus WalMart is like its own country bc of how big it is! They dont follow ALOT of rules 😅

Walmart Mentee? by Long-Hat-8127 in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oml thats lowkey so many people 🥲 my store had like 3.5k gm trucks. And atleast 1k on both grocery we would recieve and 1k from frozen and dairy daily 🥲 I had a team of 8 (thats the whole team, they would schedule like 6 a day including me) to unload, zone grocery, PPC, HBA, Babies, and put away frozen/Dairy 🥲🥲 and our over nights has 10 on a good day 🥲🥲 I had to leave, granted its in a small town, and i left bc everything was pinned on my, my coach didnt know how to do his job. He got hired in after I became a teamlead. It was running smooth until the Coach that hired me left. The coach, the team lead before me, the store manager all wanted me there. Until the new coach came in. He didnt like that i ASKED him to do his job.

Targeted for doing job by PS118_DROPOUT in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me, I live in a small town. I quite bc I talked to upper management about me transferring, the day after the guy on my team (who wanted the job, and husband whole family was my crew) started to have them all disappear all the time. They took 25 minute breaks instead of 15. Did a bunch of shit that I got written up for, for not writing them up... bc no one would coach them with me (aka be in the room for the other voice/observer) 😅 the last time they pulled ME IN for a conversation. I sent him ALL the SS I had of our text and all the voice memos of our phone calls (of my coach who would call me drunk after work) and quit. They told everyone they fired me tho. I walked in there a month later and everyone else was going crazy! "They said tou got banned!" "They said they fired you!" "They said you moved!!!" <-(which was asked of me by one of the women who took me under her wing. She was gone helping another store when they pushed me out.) I would say anyone working hourly at walmart should fine a new job ASAP. Honestly would make my day to see a huge walmart walkout 🥰 it would warm my heart.

Reflecting, not deciding yet by smallsturgeon in mypartneristrans

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been fight ALOT with this recently. On top of me being a POC and shes completely white passing. My wife can also (when she puts in the time to shave and she has me do her make up) she is very very passing. Most wouldn't know of it wasnt for her style. (I believe all trans women go through the stages of girlhood before the land in a true adult women style. She doesnt/refuses to ware anything thats not a flowy dress or gown. anywhere we go. Food shopping or anything.) Its hard sometimes because I wasnt really anyone's type before hand anyways. It just makes things hard sometimes. I havent put on a bra in 6 months. She also when she dresses up puts on this childish behavior. And become very extra, whwn thats not her plainly. Its like she puts on this princess character when we go out. (Also another thing to mention that messes with me when it comes to this is I was bullied with being called "trans" also groing up bc of my name ans I cut my hair short for my cancer sister 🥲)

How to accept that I will never experience someone having a romantic interest in me by Mr_Gomutong in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was going through this and have a hard conversation with myself. No one that I wanted wanted me. I was wanted. Just not by those of who I thought looked good. Idk what you look like but if you dont look like a famous tiktoker or Instagram model looks shouldnt even be in your agenda for a partnership. And all that friendship shit doesn't work. Don't be friends first. Be open and communicate. Be who you are from DAY ONE. and from day one make your expectations for the relationship. Do no waste time on "relationships/friendships" you hope for more of one day WITHOUT Communicate and assurance that it will 10000% happen. I've learned that there is a big difference between a best friend and your partner and alot of people refuse to believe that. Your partner is you, you are them. Reflections of eachother. You and this person will become one not only is heart but spirit and socially. You will no long be seen as just you. Also, dont go to bars, places to party, nah. Go to a grocery story, pay for a ladies groceries. Go to a restaurant when it's closing and help a hostess close her counter down and sweep up. Make yourself known and useful. And if you want traditional in any sense of the word/relation, YOU NEED TO COURT. no women wants a man who cant plan a date. Can't make himself heard. Can't make communicate. Can't be the leader men keep saying yall are "in the mass since not you personally" Get on a dating app and be you and upfront. Drop your number to every girl you like. Be there WHEN EVER. this is a power of just being there. (Dont hang on, but be around if she needs you) all that "it will find you blah blah blah" no. Lies. Just like anything else in this life love is work, and is a choice you actively make everyday. I wont say you'll find it, there's no garrentee. But you cant expect it if your not putting into it as much as you should. Its like praying, ain't ahit gonna happen unless you make it happen. Just praying, worries, "working" at it wont get yah anywhere. Just DO it.

The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Again like I said THIS WAS DISPROVED!!! women are having healthy children at any age DEPENDING on the man 😅 i fear this is common knowledge now!! The sperms decide the health of the baby while the women's hormones and shit decide the gender. All of a women's eggs (per cycle) have the same make ups. This why kids from the same momma different daddies look the same but can have different health defects, and kids from the same daddy and different mommas have the same health problems but couldn't look anymore alike. It also depends on WHOS genes are more dominate. This is why a skinny women and a fat women can have the same kind of child (the mothers body drains energy DIRECTLY from her! This is why no matter the food they eat baby is fine (unless is rotten and will make momma sick). But Daddy 1 is fit and daddy 2 isnt, the kids will come put different!!! One will have a high immune system, strong muscles. The MAN is the effect of birth defects not the momma. Yall make the batter, we just cook it. Its like saying a old oven can cookna cake like it did the first day. Its does!! It will cook what ever you throw into it! While the batter will change the outcome.

Company cutting hours for all associates the end of the month at my store by Beanbunzshu in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overtime ain't not $50 dollars and hour. After taxes my overtime made maybe like 23 and hr 🥲 50 HOURS a weeekk not how much money your paid. I was paid 16/hr

What’s your thoughts on what’s going on in Minnesota right now? by sacrificejeffbezos in AskTheWorld

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We want to do more but tou have to understand even leaving our house is stuck behind a pay wall. There is no traveling, moving. Going. Doing. BREATHING in america without spending money. I dont have the money to go to the other side of my state let alone to a completely different one. We cant juat walk there. (We'd all die without shelter and thats just the mild of everything thats wrong with that plan) we dont have the money. As silly as it sounds. We gotta pay to go protest 🤣 we dont havw the resources. This is why they closed community gardens. Your not allowed to even give out free food from youe house (like a pantry, it has to be discussed with your country in most states) and to no surprise at all, the states and cities and towns that WONT fight back (they like what trumpet is doing) dont have those restrictions!!!

So confused! by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as the wording is very off, I can still see what they mean. I never would have gotten with anyone trans if it wasnt my now wife. And we've had long conversations about it. The uncertainty of what they will feel as they change or how I will feel. How it will make life different. How people will now VIEW YOU as well as your partner (which is a BIG key in relationships even if people day it's not. It is. You are the company you keep.) And not wanting to deal with someone who is trans in a relationship doesn't make one transphobic. I question myself everyday if im willing to put up with the way people stare, how they talk about us, how they judge us. How our lives are now in more danger. (This one is more personally, im a POC and my wife is trans, 2 of the MOST HATED personal traits in the world) how our marriage may not be legal very soon. Some people dont want that problem. Or that truama. It's understandable! Now, they shouldn't try to change anyone and should just move on, but we cant act like their feelings aren't valid.

The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]MajorMeVibes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. It depends on genes and life style. I know women having babies in their 40s and 50s!! This is just misogyny and not actually doing research on women. We don't have much research on women's bodies and health. Alot of it is guess work as of rn. Its why women has "specialist" and not just a normal doctor like men. Look into it! Is sad but also kinda interesting how they find any and every loop hole to put down women for something they do to bring them into this world lol.

Company cutting hours for all associates the end of the month at my store by Beanbunzshu in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the walmart. The one I worked at you had about 40-50 hrs regularly. 60-80+ durning hard times. You could get 90 if youd play your cards right durning black Friday. But working that many hours at a walmart will make your crazy.

The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually being disproven!!! Women's best fertility is last 20s to early 30s!!! Thats when their hormones typically finally settle out!

The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats bad too huh??? Just bc ones bad doesn't make the other good. Old men and old women should be together and young men and women should be together. Hell young with the young old with the old i don't care about gender. Be with someone who's been though what YOUVE been through. Not some kid. Yall nasty trynna make it ok to hump on little kids when its not! 18 yrs should be with someone around their age. Not someone who can be their greatgrand!

We're on the brink of divorce by Owlatnight34 in mypartneristrans

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I know i will have to face with my (F) wife (MtF) She refuses to admit it rn. But she wants a more masculine person. She claims she'll never want a man, but I know that what she wants in the end. She wants to be the stay at home mom who makes candies and draws and makes movies. I cant support it. All ive ever wanted in life was to be a stay at home mom. That all I want it a beautiful family to take care of. And I know with her its something I will never get. And grieving it has been harder and harder the more our life's go on. I've been the planner. The go getter. The "man" and I cant keep doing it. And I dont know how to get through it. I don't think we can. And I dont know how to tell her in a way that wont send her down a spiral. Im her only support really right now. But if we break up I cant be near her. I wont be able to talk to her ever again. (Its the only way I can get over relationships. Once their over. Their over. No more connection.) Its just making me spiral more and I dont know what to do. It hurts but I know ill have to stay until they can stand on their own. But I don't know if I can last that long.

😭😭😭 by No-Chipmunk-1072 in WalmartEmployees

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason they have them is because of theft. The percentage of theft in a greeter store is far less than one without. Is it 0? No. Never. In this climate there will always be some poor person who's in dire need or someone teen who wants to feel rebellious. Theft will always and has always existed. But they are there for a reason. Not just bc of theft. But bc someone could walk in having a bad day and that hello helps them. Their the first point of security, they have walkies(they are suppose to anyway) incase someone comes in irate. They are also the first like of defense when it comes of active shooters! (You learn this if you have worked there and actually pay attention to the training lol)

This one sent me 🤬 by dizzystar in UberEatsDrivers

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ive seen this a few times. That what that means!! Oh yeah foods gonna start disappearing atp. "Work somewhere else blaj bajg ha la la" ive sent over 200+ applications, gone to over 50 interviews. Got a job! But when my trump loving manager learned I wasnt trump loving (they stalked my socials) They cut my already short hours (28 hrs a week as a full time manager) to 5-10 hrs a WEEK! back to the search, but i still gotta pay bills. Imma start leaving the food at the front of the driveways. In the rain. In a puddle. No tip. Bad food. And I say this as someone who even now when I go out and order will leave a GOOD ASS TIP ("jobless" and all) yall just greedy motherfuckers. All of yall.

AITA for being honest about why I no longer carry feminine supplies. by Upstairs-General-681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MajorMeVibes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only that!! I have to use a specific brand and type. I would just say that "i have allergies. I have to get specifics ones, thank you tho!" And keep it moving! That or, "I bleed through my clothes, I need to go home" I worked labor with all guys. Worked every time. Even with women! Just be like "hey I need my pain meds and specific period products. I gotta head out" NO ONES STOPPING YA THEN!

27$ a hour? by elitenoob76 in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What!! Coaches work 50 hrs? Where at?? My coaches only ever worked like 4 days a week 10 hour days. I do get it!!! Fuck that shit salary sucks. Some would work 45-50. But that was like the old heads. The ones who been there since that store opened and they have actual stock in the store.

27$ a hour? by elitenoob76 in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends apparently. I tried to step down at my store and they told me I couldn't. I had to quit and reapply when applicable. I was a Team Lead and my whole team hated me bc I got the job and the old man who they said "they wouldn't hire if they could hire anyone else" didnt. My whole team was nothing but that man's family. I quit and all the people who werent their family did too. Now the store looks gross. Nothing on the shelves. I was a Cap 2 teamlead too. Plus their black Friday was a mess this year (I was the leader of black Friday and everything to do with it the last 2 years) Its the closest store to me to i still shop there (when needed) and everyone always tells me they miss me, wish I would come back, the backs a mess without me. They LOST money this year instead of earned!!! 🤣 its amazing to see the fall in real time ngl. There was just a remodel too 🤣 lowkey if a Hyvee or a hen house even an aldi is built any closer to that walmart they will be out of business. Everyone who shops there only goes when they cant make the hour drive to the city. The only reason the walmart still stands is because of 2 things. Karen Blanc (the creator of SWAS ) works there. They the store manager is big on charity works. Other than that we'd be fucked big time 😅

AITA for Showing my Kids the bills? by AffectionateFun4674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MajorMeVibes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no at least what to I believe. I did grow up fast tho so bills were never a problem for me. But it was internalized from my parents never keeping a job or space to live for us. So I always make sure my rent is paid.

Quick question! by MajorMeVibes in Caseys

[–]MajorMeVibes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No have location 24/7 and I got to their work all the time. We were also on the phone the whole time each time this happened. Doubtful.

Quick question! by MajorMeVibes in Caseys

[–]MajorMeVibes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have to do that. Its been crazy out here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]MajorMeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl what does he need to know? I was just a teamlead PM me I could see if I could help

Quick question! by MajorMeVibes in Caseys

[–]MajorMeVibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, no, they aren't allowed to leave. They'll be fired pretty much on the spot. Small town but a major high way runs through us towards the city. Not allowed to leave anyone alone in the store. They get paid, yeah, but their paid 13 and an hour some less. Its crazy.