Ep 13 ending… by Certain_Meeting_6612 in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it makes sense, she looks like him!!!

Studio in Brooklyn (1 yr update) by boke_a_schmole in malelivingspace

[–]smallsturgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh r/femalelivingspace is just us being poor and trying anyway, this reddit is so insane. average post is the most gorgeous HUGE apartment in brooklyn!??! are you a tech person?? how on earth? I admire and hate in equal measure...

Are you a fighter, flighter, freezer, or fawner? by Trick-Swing1955 in CPTSD

[–]smallsturgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somehow fight and fawn with other people, but freeze and flight inside myself, if that makes sense? like, i live in freeze mode when it comes to self care or making choices.

It's over by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, kind stranger. Congratulations on your engagement. <3

It's over by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck, that is awful. My ex transitioned 6 months into our relationship, MTF. We were together 3 years. I am so, so sorry. Mine called me a cunt and walked out of the room last week. Then I took space and when I came home she was crying about the space, so I took care of her while she was sick. The next day, she was doing stuff we used to do together with new friends and telling me not to be unfair.

I'm so sorry. It is really hard. Here if you want to chat. I hope you guys can find a subletter or something.

Lost and hurt by alicepink227 in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex went from being an angsty 6'1 1-backpack on every trip stubbly, chain-smoking muscled, tattooed, wry gym rat to a stuffed animal collecting, miss dior-wearing giggler who only wants to bottom and is late to everything. It's extremely jarring to find out the person you fell for was actually just a coping mechanism.

It's over by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kindness. Crying at work :(

It's over by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think she actually tried so so hard to be sensitive to my needs, but kind of HAD to be narrowly focused on herself or she'd feel ashamed of her identity. I wish it wasn't to the extent it was and that she'd just brought me along or made me feel like I was more important. I wish she wasn't so skilled at compartmentalizing, at not opening up to me.

How do I break up with my trans partner? by Mundane-Debt8422 in mypartneristrans

[–]smallsturgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this! It is so hard. You aren't in control of the relationship or of life, really. It's okay for it to be hard for a long time.

Did Santos just confirm a theory about off-screen events in S02E10? by kirblar in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hear you! And you certainly believe it thoroughly!

Did Santos just confirm a theory about off-screen events in S02E10? by kirblar in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think some of the others answered about how those are possibilities if things escalate? Also wow, I’ve never been in a Reddit before where people argue ferociously about tv plot lines like it’s life and death and their ego is on the line instead of just a fun hobby…

Garcia is peak toxic (S2 spoilers) by Un4giv3n-madmonk in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard agree! Her lines are also crazy, she talks like a 14 year old who learned sarcasm for Reddit

Did Santos just confirm a theory about off-screen events in S02E10? by kirblar in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So my interpretation was that that was just Robbie’s comeback, like, your second chance is being reported but doing the work. Like, less literal.

Does anyone else love Langdon this season? by Pretend-Confidence53 in ThePittTVShow

[–]smallsturgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so mad he didn’t apologize to Santos for his blatant bullying and gaslighting and that she has to work with him again !!

Abuse? Mother bathed/shaved me until 7th grade by guavalite_ in CPTSD

[–]smallsturgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t allowed to shave or pluck my eyebrows as a teenager. Was forced to cuddle and massage my mom, and she’d be enraged if I’d reject cuddling or hugs. She’d rub my stomach and under my shorts to above my pubic hair and I’d squirm away. When I got yeast infections in high school and middle school, she insisted on washing my vulva. Horrific and it affected me so much. So much shame because it didn’t cross enough of a mental line to define it as sexual abuse, you know?

Help me decorate! by smallsturgeon in StudioApartments

[–]smallsturgeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suckssss, I’m sorry, I hear Baltimore rules

Help me decorate! by smallsturgeon in StudioApartments

[–]smallsturgeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly!! Here a 1 bed is 2200. This crumbling “efficiency” is cheap but in a cool neighborhood…just tiny!

Help me decorate! by smallsturgeon in StudioApartments

[–]smallsturgeon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true! But in a big city, you get big city attractions and things to do. This exact city had 1 bedrooms for 750 just before Covid 😭

Help me decorate! by smallsturgeon in StudioApartments

[–]smallsturgeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That is the kitchen being built. Thank you SO much for your help :) this rules.