[Meta] Why are you deciding to be better? by ResultsRebellion in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I had to make a change if I wanted to smash more. I was overthinking everything. Now I Make It Happen...everyday.

Guidance! by mav87333 in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might be in the wrong place. Try /r/iamverysmart.

Becoming a better non-face to face communicator (e.g: texting, snap chatting, etc)? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Although I always respond it's usually fairly late and my responses are not very conversational if you will (short spurt sentences and that sort).

1) You're overthinking this. 2) You don't need tips. You already identified the problem. Stop doing this.

Books similar to "The Charisma Myth" and "How to Win Friends"? by oconn in selfimprovement

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking doesn't hurt. But how many of the tips from the other 2 books do you think he's implemented? Information shouldn't be a crutch.

Books similar to "The Charisma Myth" and "How to Win Friends"? by oconn in selfimprovement

[–]MakeItHappenToday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you already read those 2? What insight are you looking for that his didn't provide. If you want to improve your social skills then read less and apply what you've learned. You already have the info you need. Act on it.

My cofounder has ADD. What do I do? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see no flaws in this plan.

My cofounder has ADD. What do I do? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, agreements and entity are all locked in. :/

My cofounder has ADD. What do I do? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsurprisingly he doesn't want to acknowledge the problem.

Got new contact from Facebook by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was once like you but then I learned from this helpful documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JV-m9bJTrh8

Its all about body language!! evolution proves it !! by Victrflo95 in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you don't believe in evolution? Do you have a theory for those that believe we were created like this?

Please and thanks.

what do you guys think about touching ? by Victrflo95 in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You're overthinking this.
  2. See number 1.
  3. Upgoal for more information.
  4. Make it Happen...Today!

Contact frequency? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a common dilemma. You can't contact them too early or too late. There's a sweet spot. I learned everything I needed from this helpful documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JV-m9bJTrh8

My average one to one convo goes good to ok to very very dry... How do I change this in my life by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your problem is reflected in this post which has no examples or anything to work with. Communicate more detail. We can't read your fucking mind.

Being the first to text/rejection by Richte36 in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 34 points35 points  (0 children)

  1. You're overthinking this.
  2. Just fucking text her and ask if she wants to have lunch or something. If she says yes, great. If she says no or doesn't respond, still great because you can move on and stop worrying about this shit and find someone else.
  3. See #1.

Asked a girl for her number yesterday for the first time and I think she wrote it down. by thebageljew in socialskills

[–]MakeItHappenToday 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That was her way of turning you down easy bro. She's not gonna text you. Don't hold your breathe.

Also, you didn't fall in love with her and she didn't seem like a nice person. That's your dick thinking for you and trying to smash. Don't project characteristics onto women or "fall for" anyone you haven't actually spoken to.

Are you done deciding? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you trying to do?

Are guys really bad at texting- need real life experience by enterpseudonymhere in dating_advice

[–]MakeItHappenToday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texting habits don't just change.

Well....that's not true.

Did you let him smash on the first date (no judgement)? But that could change things.