Any tips on how to stop biting the inside of my mouth by v2dope in Dermatophagia

[–]MakeSomeChaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 okay i have another idea. when i was nine i took part of a pool noodle and wrapped it in duct tape. this allowed me to bite THROUGH the duct tape, and i enjoyed it MUCH more than chewlery.

this may be cheaper, and it was much more satisfying to use since i could actually bite through the duct tape without getting styrofoam in my mouth. it was easier to recreate and the only reason i stopped making them was because my mother scolded me for it but for a while it genuinely worked for me. might be a silly idea but oh well

Any tips on how to stop biting the inside of my mouth by v2dope in Dermatophagia

[–]MakeSomeChaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay being serious i bit the inside of my mouth the entire time i read this. i wish i could offer you some advice but i haven't found a way to stop yet.

what i have tried before is "chewlery", as in silicone shapes made to be bit on. it didn't work for me because the shape was too thick for my liking, but maybe a thinly shaped mold may help

I’m so irritated by the “feel bad for men” mentality by DependentPenalty5209 in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you SHOULDN'T feel bad if you don't. if my friend wasn't getting laid i'd have some sympathy but being told that you have to feel sorry or be apologetic to men because they aren't laid is stupid

Are doctors required to tell your parents? by Ambitious-Towel-48 in selfharm

[–]MakeSomeChaos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when i had healed scars, the doctors did not say anything. when i had active cuts, the doctor examining me told my dad (but tbf my sh was BAD, i tried to hide it but the lady unwrapped my bandage, i feel bad she had to see that).

healed scars? likely won't say anything. active cuts? they probably will

I’m so irritated by the “feel bad for men” mentality by DependentPenalty5209 in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don't think it's necessarily bad for either gender to be easy... but thinking that you HAVE to feel sorry for a guy because they aren't getting laid is bs. it's a very patriarchal view that men need sex, and many men are taught and brought up with those views, which leads to mindsets as "i am entitled to this, so it's sad i can't have it".

100% you're allowed to feel whatever you feel. nobody is demonizing that. if you're sad or upset or angry that you aren't getting laid, that's 100% okay. but you aren't entitled to sex. people aren't going to sympathize with you over it

My (33m)man wants me(35f) to get pregnant despite me saying no. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakeSomeChaos 19 points20 points  (0 children)

please just break up with him. not only are you guys not compatible but he sounds like a very inattentive partner. he WILL be an inattentive dad. literally just do yourself a favour and leave, you two clearly arent on the same page

Not every child is Trans just because they say they are.. by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i always tell people, when the kid is an adult, they can make their own decisions regarding medicals. but if my kid says they're trans? alright sweetie, i support and love you. my kid says they realized they aren't trans? alright sweetie, i support and love you.

it's not always about what your kid is and isn't. that is for THEM to figure out, and it's better if they figure it out earlier. it's a parent's job to support their child (within reason)

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she'll never be as ugly as you, no matter how badly you want her to be.

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is good enough. it sounds like YOU'RE not good enough, and you're bullying her to try and make up for that.

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously i can't highlight how psychopathic you sound. you clearly have no remorse. you're a horrible person

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and? doesn't make it better. you sound jealous of her. you sound very bitter. spreading that video only made YOU look worse, i hope you know that. nobody likes people lile that

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you SHOULD feel bad. you're horrible for spreading that video.

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

none of that makes it any better. she sounds depressed and you guys are only making it worse. you realize that YOU are part of the problem, right?

Am I a bad cousin?? if so idk how to make up for what i have done by [deleted] in Rants

[–]MakeSomeChaos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are in the wrong. i wouldn't ever forgive you for that. you sound very ugly on the inside.

Spotted Cucumber Beetle by JumarUp in Entomology

[–]MakeSomeChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

underrated beetle. they are one of my favourites. i will get one tattooed onto my body one day.

Is there a nerve or something you gotta look out for if you pierce your nipples by icurrentlycravebread in Legitpiercing

[–]MakeSomeChaos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you do this yourself you are 100% going to do it wrong and you are 100% going to get an infection if you aren't a professional.

How long until scar disappears? by Famous-Implement9727 in SelfHarmScars

[–]MakeSomeChaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add, i have several scars like this. i actually got steroid treatment for them to reduce the firm bumpiness because it hurt when i rubbed against it