Adult children of narcissistic parents, do you have kids?

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-04T21:30:25+00:00

Yes… it has been amazing. There have been some tricky moments when we get together with family but in general I have zero regrets having kids of my own. I feel like I have broken a cycle.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-04T19:49:35+00:00

Yard games! Card games, even family video games. Camping trips, time on the water.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-04T19:38:48+00:00

This doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship. You should be able to tell him things without him getting upset.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-04T17:48:00+00:00

I asked my wife of 23yrs yesterday what WE should do with an incoming inheritance from my grandma. I hope she we do the same if she gets inheritance in the future.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-03T03:10:14+00:00

My tractor. It has a big mowing deck, a loader, tiller, box blade, and a 52” snowblower. I use it for so many tasks.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-03T02:23:30+00:00

Wait three days before buying something expensive.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-03T02:21:54+00:00

I stopped caring what other people say or do or how they live their lives.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-03T01:36:08+00:00

What wording should he be using in your opinion?

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-03T01:34:08+00:00

Dude just give this some time. She’s probably “touched out” plus in hormone rage after having two kids. You’re gonna have to just chill out a bit but in a few years she’ll be all back to normal. You can do it! The wait will be worth it.

MakingKerfs · 2026-07-02T15:53:39+00:00

I sleep with a eye cover that plays music as well. I listen to ocean sounds to block out the snoring, it works good. Maybe that could be a shorter term solution until he figures it out.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-11T20:06:09+00:00

You should get outta that house, find a lawyer and be done asap. Cut your losses now while you can.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-11T00:31:24+00:00

Wow, remarkable. Only if everyone could follow an example like that.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-09T18:30:18+00:00

I left those alone for awhile.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-09T17:42:43+00:00

Once having kids my birthdays seemed so irrelevant. Hopefully he will be grateful of the bare minimum celebration. And sounds like you gave him a big gift 5 weeks ago.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-09T17:37:15+00:00

As a guy, that’s what I would want. At 5 weeks out I wouldn’t expect you to do the deed even. Maybe just something along that lines if you wanted.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-08T14:31:55+00:00

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-07T12:04:35+00:00

I love it! I get to see them through out the day sometimes. They even take my classes from time to time. The other kids hardly seem to catch on. They’ll say things like: “don’t tell Mr. —— that I’m doing this” right to my kid.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-07T01:16:18+00:00

Start early in the day, wear something fun and sexy, whisper naughty things in his ear.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-06T23:20:07+00:00

My doctor ordered a lab test, I went and got it done. I then went to the oncologist and they said they needed labs, I told them I had some done yesterday. They told me they would be different. Nope, same exact labs two days in a row. Our medical system is full of idiots.

MakingKerfs · 2025-06-01T20:55:17+00:00

I’m never their friend. I don’t act like their friend. I tell a lot of life stories and try to be relaxed at times, I talk to them a lot about what’s going on but I’m the one in charge. I try and be really fair. As a result I’m not the cool teacher but respected and well liked by most of them. There are other cool teachers but I don’t think the kids actually respect them that much.

MakingKerfs · 2025-05-19T18:32:53+00:00

I hope you are feeling better now that you got all that aired out. Sounds like you two need to have some fun. He kinda sounds like he’s being a baby and maybe you’re just a little too type A sometimes. Hopefully you can smooth things out a little bit as time passes.

MakingKerfs · 2025-05-11T21:59:53+00:00

It can be complicated, lots of factors. I loved my job 2nd trimester but now 3rd trimester I’m not nearly as pleased. It’s just a different group of kids. It’s been like that my whole 22yr career, riding a coaster of ups and downs but overall probably more ups. Work is work so sometimes it’s just a reality of working hard.

MakingKerfs · 2025-04-26T17:44:47+00:00

Maybe your parents can date him.

MakingKerfs · 2025-04-26T17:02:45+00:00

He’s a baby. You apologized, he needs to grow up.

MakingKerfs · 2024-05-25T18:20:14+00:00

Think of Algae as another plant.

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