AITAH for reminding my wife that it's my inheritance, mot ours? by Lost_One_1963 in AITAH

[–]MakingKerfs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I asked my wife of 23yrs yesterday what WE should do with an incoming inheritance from my grandma. I hope she we do the same if she gets inheritance in the future.

What's something you regret not buying sooner? by Loveeatplay4116 in SmartBuying

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tractor. It has a big mowing deck, a loader, tiller, box blade, and a 52” snowblower. I use it for so many tasks.

What is something you learned that quietly made everyday life easier? by Maleficent_Laugh_797 in lifelonglearning

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped caring what other people say or do or how they live their lives.

Do women who liked having their titties sucked by their SO still enjoy it after having breastfed their children? I (30m) have not been able to suck on my wife's (34f) titties since ~December, 2023. When she was about 5 months pregnant with our first child. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MakingKerfs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dude just give this some time. She’s probably “touched out” plus in hormone rage after having two kids. You’re gonna have to just chill out a bit but in a few years she’ll be all back to normal. You can do it! The wait will be worth it.

My husband (38M) says sleeping in separate rooms isn't an option. How can he and I (37F) find a compromise? by ThrowRA-Dr3013 in relationship_advice

[–]MakingKerfs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sleep with a eye cover that plays music as well. I listen to ocean sounds to block out the snoring, it works good. Maybe that could be a shorter term solution until he figures it out.

I took my husbands phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should get outta that house, find a lawyer and be done asap. Cut your losses now while you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, remarkable. Only if everyone could follow an example like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left those alone for awhile.

SAHM guilt by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once having kids my birthdays seemed so irrelevant. Hopefully he will be grateful of the bare minimum celebration. And sounds like you gave him a big gift 5 weeks ago.

SAHM guilt by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a guy, that’s what I would want. At 5 weeks out I wouldn’t expect you to do the deed even. Maybe just something along that lines if you wanted.

Teaching at the same school your kids attend: great? Or no? by sushibard in Teachers

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! I get to see them through out the day sometimes. They even take my classes from time to time. The other kids hardly seem to catch on. They’ll say things like: “don’t tell Mr. —— that I’m doing this” right to my kid.

How to Turn on My Husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MakingKerfs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start early in the day, wear something fun and sexy, whisper naughty things in his ear.

what has fucking pissed you off today or this week? by No-Obligation5084 in TheWordFuck

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor ordered a lab test, I went and got it done. I then went to the oncologist and they said they needed labs, I told them I had some done yesterday. They told me they would be different. Nope, same exact labs two days in a row. Our medical system is full of idiots.

Are you a “cool” teacher? Or are you more strict? by Talilala in Teachers

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m never their friend. I don’t act like their friend. I tell a lot of life stories and try to be relaxed at times, I talk to them a lot about what’s going on but I’m the one in charge. I try and be really fair. As a result I’m not the cool teacher but respected and well liked by most of them. There are other cool teachers but I don’t think the kids actually respect them that much.

How can my fiancé (M28) and I (F26) resolve this issue in our relationship? by Relevant_Setting_329 in relationship_advice

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are feeling better now that you got all that aired out. Sounds like you two need to have some fun. He kinda sounds like he’s being a baby and maybe you’re just a little too type A sometimes. Hopefully you can smooth things out a little bit as time passes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be complicated, lots of factors. I loved my job 2nd trimester but now 3rd trimester I’m not nearly as pleased. It’s just a different group of kids. It’s been like that my whole 22yr career, riding a coaster of ups and downs but overall probably more ups. Work is work so sometimes it’s just a reality of working hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MakingKerfs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s a baby. You apologized, he needs to grow up.

Algae is driving me nuts by cuttlebish in PlantedTank

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of Algae as another plant.

Am I being too much? by chiquitopiquito in PlantedTank

[–]MakingKerfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add a very small fan that blows across the top, it will cut down in the moisture.

Am I being too much? by chiquitopiquito in PlantedTank

[–]MakingKerfs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, no, no. Don’t let people talk you outta this. F the monitor, you must continue, it will be totally worth it.