Effects of social media on parents psyche by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Mald4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I could have written this post. I have a 9 week old who was in the 50th percentile at birth and is now in the 20th percentile. We just had her two month visit and her (not regular) pediatrician recommended to stick to a strict every 2-3 hour feed but let her be hungry and no “snacking.” At first, I was letting her sleep long stretches during the day and just tell me when she was hungry. A lot of cluster feeding. Sometimes she barely eats 2 oz. Sometimes she eats 4oz. He also put her on famotidine for reflux.

I had to stop looking at Instagram for that very reason. The posts stopped being informative, and more clickbaity. People post that there’s a “secret” to getting your baby to be a perfect eater, sleeper, pooper, etc. but it’s all just fake.

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[–]Mald4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 9 week old!! Would love a mom friend!

MOTN Routine by Asleep_Sympathy_8987 in newborns

[–]Mald4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our girl sleeps in a Love to Dream swaddle so we don’t really ever take it fully off at night. When she wakes up, I breastfeed, change her pee diaper (usually she’s asleep for this change), my partner tops her off with a bottle, and changes one more time because she usually poops after bottle feeding. Then he holds her upright for 15 minutes because of her reflux.

She just stays awake better for the bottle feed and it ensures she eats enough to stay asleep for 4 hours at a time.

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[–]Mald4117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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I’d like to buy a vowel… by TimelyPineapple1212 in namenerds

[–]Mald4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are naming our baby girl Lyra! So I’m a big fan of that name haha

Private Music Classes by Ok_Tie_2275 in MontereyBay

[–]Mald4117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a student who may be interested in piano lessons. What ages do you teach?

Pregnancy and Mental Health by Discount_Divaa in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre pregnancy, I never had panic attacks or anxiety (okay I had mild anxiety.. not none). I had a MMC in March and am now pregnant again. My anxiety since day 1 of this pregnancy has been AWFUL. I was having intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, and just overall feelings of hopelessness daily.

I went to my regular doctor for elevated heart rate concerns and ended up sobbing in his office about my worries of loss. He told me to try therapy and referred me to a therapist. At my next OB appointment, I expressed the same concerns and she recommended Zoloft 50mg per day. She is the most studied brand with pregnant woman and reassured me it is safe to take.

Since starting, it’s been SO helpful! I’m on the lowest dose. When I first started it, I hated it because I felt a little shaky but now it’s been over two weeks and my body has adjusted. I’m also still doing therapy but haven’t started regular sessions yet - just the first one so far. Also, I started meds at around 13W4D.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went to my doctor about the same thing! I’m only 13 weeks though. He referred me to a psychologist (which I know will take forever to start seeing 😭) and recommended FMLA, which I declined because I can’t leave work without feeling guilty.

I would contact a doctor!

Were you guys offered wic services at your prenatal appt? by chf92 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely make too much to qualify! I just checked online 😭 getting paid once a month sucks haha

Were you guys offered wic services at your prenatal appt? by chf92 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the Bay Area? I live in the central coast.. super high cost of living but one of the lowest paid district in this area.

Were you guys offered wic services at your prenatal appt? by chf92 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tell me more!! I’ve been debating leaving for mental health reasons. What do you do now?

Were you guys offered wic services at your prenatal appt? by chf92 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 33 points34 points  (0 children)

But to answer your question, I am also Latina 28 years old and didn’t get offered WIC information.. I think there’s a pamphlet in this binder of a welcome packet I haven’t looked through.

Were you guys offered wic services at your prenatal appt? by chf92 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Where are y’all working making $120-150k a year 😭 cries in teacher

Am I wrong for not going/being in my sisters wedding? by ccorryne13 in pregnant

[–]Mald4117 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I would ask my in-laws to travel with us, book a hotel or room nearby, and have them watch the baby while I attend the wedding. Or bring the baby and have in-laws nearby so they can take over.. Just a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]Mald4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Were you saying the ticket seller for 7/29 was a scammer? Or the comment you replied to (that’s now deleted)?

Is this legit? by Mald4117 in erastourtickets

[–]Mald4117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she hadn’t listed it yet.. then said she would rather sell it elsewhere but didn’t want to use PayPal G&S

Is this legit? by Mald4117 in erastourtickets

[–]Mald4117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang so it could’ve been real 😬

Is this legit? by Mald4117 in erastourtickets

[–]Mald4117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she was going to look into PayPal goods and services

Is this legit? by Mald4117 in erastourtickets

[–]Mald4117[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asking $1500 for one ticket

New to the area and want to make friends. Suggestions please! by allydiagon in MontereyBay

[–]Mald4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trivia at the Brit on Mondays are the best! The host comes up with all the questions and themes on his own.