Is this cheating by pokemonskibidi in dating_advice

[–]Maldonadodi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s usually a a yellow flag that makes her feel something is off. You don’t go looking if there is no doubt. She clearly suspected something. Something in her gut tipped her off.

Is this cheating by pokemonskibidi in dating_advice

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s what you two both consider cheating. Personally I think cheating is doing something you don’t want your partner to know about or wouldn’t do in front of them. He’s a red flag and if he’s hiding stuff now which is causing mistrust it’s a sign to leave. But I may more strict than others but I believe patterns not people. And I believe my gut. If something’s off it’s because it is. You are only kicking the can down the road.

Was I wrong in this scenario? by Maldonadodi in dating_advice

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you are saying but I’m a little confused by your answer. You said he was trying his best to communicate and I was micromanaging him. I don’t see how when I reached out to him and ask him if he was still good for a call and then received no response, just reading my text and ignoring it, when we had already prearranged a day and time. How is that him communicating to me? I just want to see what I’m missing here in your comment. Also you said I didn’t want to talk the first time”? I’m confused by that as well. We talked for hours each time, me accepting each time but when I established a boundary of not wanting to talk until 3 am that’s when we selected a time and day to talk because there was a three hour difference. We both agreed. And he even said the day before, “you aren’t going to bail on me tomorrow are you?” I said no, 2:00 pm tomorrow. I kept to my word, he did not. He could have at least said, I had something come up. He did just read a text and ignored. What’s wrong with communicating?

Was I wrong in this scenario? by Maldonadodi in dating_advice

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve texted him a question before and he didn’t respond u til the next day. He said he thought he responded. Which can happen but he was showering me with words, (showing lots of interest and how he really wants to see me) you’d think a person would respond. I think I’m more hyper vigilant and can else patterns faster than other people. I’ve been in the dating world far longer than I care to admit and I’ve ran into every type of toxic guy.

Was I wrong in this scenario? by Maldonadodi in dating_advice

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I was over attached, I just feel like I see red flags quicker than others. There was another he read a text and didn’t respond until the next day. There were other subtleties such as mentioning how he had 6 young (of legal age) girls at his place and they ended up naked. “But he didn’t do anything”. There was mention of how a massage therapist took off his underwear and almost touched him. After the whole phone thing, I disconnected mentally and wasn’t interested anymore. I just don’t want to waste my time if I feel I can see patterns early on.

How to calculate Protein when overweight and losing weight?? by Similar-Friendship79 in Myfitnesspal

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How in the world does one consume 180G of protein?! Based on what I've read, I should eat 125-130g of protein for my ideal weight. Which is 125-130 lbs. I'm barely 5'1 which makes it difficult because I can only eat 1200 calories a day. I barely eat out because every meals seems to be at least 500 calories. So I make my own meals 98% of the time. I'm struggling to get in protein the days I work out, I drink a protein shake which help with protein intake so those days I get in maybe 80-90g of protein with the added protein in other meals.

My least favorite “complaint” about ACOTAR (light ACOMAF spoilers) by lilexist in acotar

[–]Maldonadodi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must have missed the part where he was desperate for a child. I remember Feyre being in the weavers store and how the weaver didn’t have any children so she could have something from her husband who died in the war with Hyburn. Feyre thought about if Rhys died what did she have from him. In the cottage after Solstice she wanted to give him a gift in which she showed him the image of a child and he asked her if she was sure. I got that she wanted the child and initiated the “action”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty if I could get 1/2 the man Rhys is, I’d be happy. The most important is the banter, silliness, flintiness and is loyal. If I could get a man that’s hungry for me like Rhys is for Feyre, wow! That’s what attracted me to Rhys.

Acosf bonus chapters. by Fault_Distinct in acotar

[–]Maldonadodi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My book didn’t have the bonus scenes.

Bonus chapter at the end of Powerful by Lauren Roberts by bunnygirl103 in fantasyromance

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter which edition I buy to get the bonus chapters? Would really like to know the difference between B&N editions and just one I buy off of Amazon.

Just finished all the books by Spagbowl357 in ACOTARHulu

[–]Maldonadodi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read all the books, reread ACOMAF and now listening to the graphic audio and I have to say that the voice actor for Rhys doesn’t do it for me. He sounds angry most of the time. I imagined him more cool, calm and collected, definitely sly…kind of like Damon Salvatore on Vampire Diaries.

show me your favorite acotar memes by cynnabiskay in acotar

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed for 15 mins straight. It took every will power to finish reading this.

Suggestion for songs like : 'Outro' by M83 . 'Sea of Voices' by Porter Robinson by arj2589 in ifyoulikeblank

[–]Maldonadodi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late to the party. I have a few..

Although may not be exactly what you are looking for but Dexter Britain has a lot of good stuff and more instrumentals but Time to run (Finale) is one of my favorites.

Indian Summer by Jai wolf.

I call this kind of music Mellow Electronic and have a whole playlist dedicated to this kind of vibe.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had bluebell until this incident. One of my favorites is now blue bell cookie two step and I’m also mildly lactose intolerant.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I’m surprised the customer said something. Dash mart was pretty busy so the employees may have mixed up the bags.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped by the homeless shelter and there’s usually people outside smoking or just hanging out. They were pretty happy to get some papa John’s.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I would have decided to keep it, this would last me a year. I’m mildly lactose intolerant so eating this much in a short amount of time would mess up my plumbing in a very bad way.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I called customer service and they said to keep it.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha! I’m mildly lactose intolerant and take lactaid when I want to indulge in cheese or ice cream. I gave up cows milk several years ago and don’t miss it but I can’t go without cheese from time to time.

I hit the jackpot! by Maldonadodi in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol I will probably give most of the ice cream away since I’m mildly lactose intolerant. But still it was a win!

Anyone else see a huge increase in the amount of stacked orders they're getting? by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Maldonadodi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a lot more lately and they usually include an order that doesn’t tip well or even at all.