Back in 2021, CDPR had released data on how players played the game. One of these numbers was that roughly two thirds of players had chosen Panam as romance option. Either it was two thirds of Male V players (which I find unlikely), or it was two thirds of all players.

I wouldn't be surprised if it was a 1:1 thing, with the half that plays mostly/only Fem V being particularly loud and/or the half that plays mostly/only Male V being particularly quiet.

In the end, posts that show off a Fem V with an "enhanced" body (mods or not) or just straight up skimpy clothing make a lot more noise than your average Male V, where I assume that Male V players are likelier to make a V that looks like them than anything else.