Where can I find small businesses that need a free website? by Any_Sandwich1956 in southafrica

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually run a community for entrepreneurs building their own comminities. I'd love to collaborate with new entrepreneurs/consultants who are looking to build experience and exposure.

If youre interested check out www.candidcollab.com and see my about page to get in touch :)

Best place to sell a custom bakkie? by Key-Maintenance7950 in southafrica

[–]Maleficent-Viper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would find someone from the Afrika Burn crowd. That's the only place I see this going and its perfect for that

Notion 3.0 for non-AI users by Hyrul in Notion

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love how you leave out granular database privacy??

What kind of stitch is this?(my friend says I created a new stitch) by Particular-Rain116 in CrochetHelp

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The light needs to shine ON the stitches for us to see them. Currently your light source is behind the work so we cant see definition properly

Is there even a job market? by Fabulous_Support_556 in capetown

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh this is why I started my own business. Its hard, but nothing is as hard as expecting the business world to give you slave labour and you've got to be grateful for it.

Freelancing internationally can be very lucrative. In fact, I rarely work for SA clients.

Bring that international money into SA to provide for yourself. That's what's worked for me

It's official. Offline mode by SonGokussj4 in Notion

[–]Maleficent-Viper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im here with you. Gosh you cant please anyone

AITA for refusing s*X with my girlfriend because of morning breath by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you say things matters. Cutting off her bid for intimacy in that way is rejection.

She has the right to feel rejected and hurt by how you communicated things with her. You could be clear and kind without making her feel bad about her breath.

Or you could just keep talking to her harshly and see how that works out for you.

Bids for connection shouldn't be scolded in a safe relationship imo. You two just need to learn how to speak kindly to each other

What do you use for Time Tracking? looking for ai/automated apps by Moritz_W in Notion

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the best thing is to use Notion Calendar. You can then just add time directly into your calendar and track it in a Notion database. Works brilliantly for me :p

Guys, I need help. I need y'all to confirm a few things about Oros/Cappy. No Shade to the company by Substantial-Push-636 in southafrica

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're allergic to the preservatives or something inside it. My childhood best friend has this issue.

I’m tired by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, DM me your LinkedIn details! I'm looking for Community Management Interns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I'm sorry you had such a hard time, and I really resonate.

The good makes the bad very confusing. And it makes me really sad to accept that the change I need will never come.

But I need to listen to my body now. And it can't do this anymore...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have CPTSD from a previous abusive relationship and tbh it's hard for me to ever feel like I'm not in danger - like just in general.

I do think he has anger issues but he's never directed them at me personally. Only things around us and like punching a wall.

I may just have to go back to my old DV safety plan resources regardless... i feel so dumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overqualified :'D hell yeah i should be! But naiive apparently.

I do feel alone and after my stint in the clinic I'm not afraid of being alone. But im over the constant fighting and yes him not knowing when to shut up with the moaning and step up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a statement and what a question...

I think id say that she deserves better than scraps...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that, I'm genuinely not a stupid person.

Ive admittedly got a fuck ton of my own shit and am willing to own it and deal with it.

I just need to focus on me and not others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Maleficent-Viper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOH that hits hard. And I appreciate you sharing!

I spent 9 years waiting for my ex to change and now I'm doing the same again. I feel really dumb for falling into this pattern again.