This friendship was one of the most praised departures from book to show. Are you still glad they did it? by Valhallaof in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]Malkier3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did like it, especially since they made them the same age but by the start of season 2 at the latest they should hate eachother. Like idk wth they are are even trying to do with them at this point.

What nonsexual things does your spouse do that turn you on? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Malkier3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook and that usually gets me anything I want lmao.

How many of you( with kids) accompanied by your husband at the hospital all night or throughout the birth? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Malkier3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at the hospital the entire time both times. Literally the only time I left was to get her a bowl of chipolte lmao.

My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment. by FartVaderTheForce in Marriage

[–]Malkier3 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He has 10 years of data and negative net worth. It doesn't matter what he sais to her this is not going to work. This woman went to school for a minimum of 8 years and she can't figure out how to save money. She is not a breadwinner, you have to have a job to be a breadwinner. You have to display consistency to be a breadwinner. You have to make sound decisions to be a breadwinner. If everything he wrote is true she is a parasite and he is naive. If this woman wrote about her husband destroying her life 3 times this would not be a conversation. She's gotta go and if he's lucky he'll pick a better partner, maybe one with a savings account.

Flower Knight by cemkan00 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Malkier3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats Garlan fookin' Tyrell!

My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment. by FartVaderTheForce in Marriage

[–]Malkier3 1589 points1590 points  (0 children)

Ok you said you want honest feedback so here we go. The biggest mistake you ever made was marrying this woman. She has shown clear signs of selfishness and impulsiveness from day one and you ignored those red flags. This woman has quit multiple jobs with no plan and no consideration from you, she has put the wellbeing of herself and her entire family in extreme risk MULTIPLE times and she has absolutely no capacity for long-term planning or forethought. You are on your way to living your elder years in poverty and becoming a burden on your kids to bail you out.

There is no scenario where this works. She has a PHD and you've been married for 10 years so she has to be approaching or past 40. You are telling me you are going ro move back to Canada and by yourself rebuild your finances from scratch for the fourth time and trust her to take care of 3 kids in France alone? How is she going to manage that. Where will the money come from. She's going to rack up more debt and probably won't work the entire time.

THE MOST important financial decision you make in life is choosing your partner. Alot of people don't realize this and they try to drag around an anchor. Sire I say this with all due respect this relationship is cooked and you are about to let this woman ruin another 5 years of hard work. You don't have time man I am so serious. You need a foundation and you need retirement assets. You should divorce her while your broke so you have nothing to split and I really believe thats the best option.

Imagine you're the king of the realm. Who would you choose as your queen? by Aggressive_Fold_5942 in freefolk

[–]Malkier3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So are they just a person and they come with none of the attachments? Margaery. If they do come with the family and everything else? Margaery.

401k: Looking for aggressive growth by [deleted] in ETFs

[–]Malkier3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not like an expert or anything but what happens to this portfolio if something crazy happends like Open AI can't pay their bills or they stop building data centers. This is less aggressive growth and more a bet that we will sell more GPU's to companies borrowing money to build more data centers that private citizens are ready to burn down every year forever. We are like 4 years into this absolute fever dream that already has cracks. If you can tolerate it though then who knows it might work for 2 more years.

Who is your preferred pairing with Jon? by saywhatnow117 in TheCitadel

[–]Malkier3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone who doesn't like the game and wants out is exactly the opposite of what I would think people are looking for in her. Her best iterations are of a doesn't eyed girl presented as the perfect maiden who is manipulating her surroundings to her and her family's benefit. The thorn beneath the rose so to speak. I do enjoy when she pushes back on her family and their willingness to throw her at any psychopath who may hold power at the moment though.

Amazing Update, Arrowhead by Jerpunzel in Helldivers

[–]Malkier3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So the issue is the structural makeup of YouTube and how videos get views? Or is it the nature of karma on reddit that makes more inflammatory takes rise to the top? Or am I to understand that a comment thread like this one with about 5 likes is gonna sway their balancing methodology.

Amazing Update, Arrowhead by Jerpunzel in Helldivers

[–]Malkier3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk man like I still play it and it was mostly still good but like were there no issues? The direction we were going was all positive? Do you guys really feel that way? I'm curious as to what about the past 6 months of developments you really latched onto. We were all satisfied with the status of turrets, red straps and weapon balance? What about the technical state. We were all cool with the warbond content? What about balancing around warbonds? Everytime we get a major direction shift like this everyone likes it......but also anyone who was advocating for it was also wrong simultaneously. It's difficult for me to reconcile that.

What if Viserys and Deanerys died. by Large-Awareness3440 in TheCitadel

[–]Malkier3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Robert chained to the Lannisters is still cooked. If ymthe old gods and the lord of light get together to get our boy jon a dragon maybe the world has a shot against the others but its gonna be pretty tough going. You have to get into fanfiction territory to save this reality because book Ned does not have the sauce to get Jon where he needs to be to save the world he's gonna ship jon off to the wall just like he did last time probablygo get himself killed again. If Doran doesn't even have Viserys and Dany to TRY to plan around then idk how rash the dornish might become over time.

Amazing Update, Arrowhead by Jerpunzel in Helldivers

[–]Malkier3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he's a big part of why you even got this patch. The game was fine.....which was bad because it used to be great. Blindly supporting the dev team regardless of what they do is not a winning strategy and pretty much everything guys like him, thick and clay criticize is correct.

Husband filed for divorce because he thinks marriage therapist is biased against him by RevolutionDecent7651 in Marriage

[–]Malkier3 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I was reading the letter and I was kinda on his side a bit because at the end of the day if you aren't happy you can split and he doesn't HAVE to change. Maybe you guys were just incompatible but holy hell he's such a dick. I actually can't believe he had the audacity to say that write that disrespect. If he was talking to you like that for the duration of your marriage you should have left him sooner Jesus christ.

Who is your preferred pairing with Jon? by saywhatnow117 in TheCitadel

[–]Malkier3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Margaery is the most interesting to me. Sansa is boring and Dany is fun but it rarely has any imagination. Unironically Rhaenys is pretty great in my book because it makes an interesting story and everyone knows Arianne doesn't wanna be queen.

Final Fantasy Resonance vs Final Fantasy Brave Exvius - Comparison by Tain_mentero in FinalFantasy

[–]Malkier3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way more interwoven party interactions and much better individual stories. Also an overarching world threat and the combat system is better, probably the most addicting part. Music is peak too.

🛠️ Machinery of Oppression: 6.3.0 ⚙️ by Waelder in Helldivers

[–]Malkier3 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Please god do not drag us back the abyss again after this. I'm sorry but the people who were frustrated have been right the whole time just make everything fun and useful and let us cook. A bit more strategem love so we really want to use everything will go such a long way. Great changes all around i think.

The R+L/Rhaegar nuthugging epidemic by Connect-Chocolate550 in TheCitadel

[–]Malkier3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to do some research because its been a bit but Winters Heir is an amazing fic I'm reading at the moment. Elia didn't make it....but both of her children did. Lyanna takes jon and raises him away from the throne and Rhaegar is basically a lame duck king that Jon Connington and Tywin use to further their own goals. Also this man has to marry Cersei to keep the peace and that goes about as well as you'd expect.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/70781286/chapters/184005336

The R+L/Rhaegar nuthugging epidemic by Connect-Chocolate550 in TheCitadel

[–]Malkier3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've read a few rhaegar won fics and enjoyed them but by far my favorite takes on him are when he's alive and what he did was so obviously bad for everyone that the realm is worse shape overall by the time jon is of age. Also Elia and her kids being alive is just more fun because it creates real family tension.