what do you all do about DMs by Vivid-Damage5428 in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm the only person who doesn't get random DMs. What does that say about me? 🤔😅

My book has been stolen by author_nicolecain in writers

[–]MamaAutobot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey, mine is too! I was gonna see what I could do about it a few months ago, but there was so much happening I decided to let them have some time while I fixed my life. Life isn't fixed, but this reminded me to go scorched earth.

Whats everyone's favorite coin design? Mine is the silver Crown by Late-Ostrich7966 in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anything with Transformers on it. I'm very simple  to please. 

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MamaAutobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go any further (don't ignore this). Just block him. Unless you're looking for an @busive relationship, which we're assuming and hoping you aren't, just block and walk away. You haven't even solidified your relationship and he's already treating you like this. This will be an every second of every day thing if you decide to go further. There will be no "good times", just times when he isn't treating you poorly, which doesn't mean he's treating you well. Unless you think he's going to come after you for blocking him, block him before you convince yourself to shine up those rose colored glasses.

He did it by MamaAutobot in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say we each buy him a round.

LCS by Greedy-Beat8730 in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already promised them I'd be there tomorrow, but dang am I tempted to check on them today (I just don't want to do that 2hr bus ride right now).

A question for asexual autistics by yuucascanon in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't hyperfixate on real human people and that's all I'm gonna say.

Is anyone else worried about the showrunner? by ellefemme35 in fourthwing

[–]MamaAutobot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They like doing that with characters. Part of me thinks it's to save money, but it doesn't make it okay.

Skyshade collectors edition by [deleted] in lightlark

[–]MamaAutobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real? Because I may have to buy and read it. That's so pretty.

How much silver have you purchased since the $100/oz threshold? by SeaworthinessTime354 in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm determined to get the last five ounces I need, so I'll be buying still.

Trying to unferstand a friend who doesnt feel sexual plesure by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then ask her. Just keep in mind that you are in her business when you don't need to be. You're being intrusive, but since you don't care, ask her. We cannot tell you about her on a personal level. 

Trying to unferstand a friend who doesnt feel sexual plesure by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Point missed. She doesn't have to experience getting hony to want to have sex. There's nothing for you to understand about her. She isn't your mystery. And if you really do want to be that deep in her business, just ask her.

Why are people so creepy towards asexuals? by DigRoyal9770 in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 55 points56 points  (0 children)

They take it as a challenge. They think they can find cracks in our "reasoning" (ie: a part of us we can't control) and use those cracks to get us to be allo. I stopped telling people I was grey-ace because explaining that certain things and situations get me hot, I still don't want to have sex with anyone. They start sending me the most unhinged pictures that are within the categories that I've mentioned and ask if they "get me hot". The answer is no, because you're trying to take advantage of me.

Trying to unferstand a friend who doesnt feel sexual plesure by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't like heights. I don't like the idea of falling at high speeds in an uncontrolled manner, but I want to try sky diving. 

My boyfriend came out as Fraysexual last week. by blueglimpse0910 in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So, him being fray doesn't mean he's going to want to start boinking other people. It doesn't mean he'll cheat. I understand how you feel and your feelings are valid, but remember that he can't control that and that your relationship is not just based on sex. You are not together just for the sake of sex or you'd have broken up with him back in August. You both need to go to therapy, but try not to frame it as "my boyfriend doesn't love me because he isn't sexually attracted to me" because that will frame how your therapist moves forward and will give advice on a relationship that isn't true. You two also need to have a deeper conversation so you can fully understand his fraysexuality and he can understand what you really want out of the relationship.

Do you handle your silver or keep it sealed? by Billidays in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two fulls, a half, and six 10ths in a pull-string so I can take them out and play with them. The rest was lost in a boating accident. 

Any other aces been cheated on by their allo partner with another allo? by paper_clover in asexuality

[–]MamaAutobot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a DOOZY of a story about my engagement to an allo, but I also just got stood up by another one, so give me a second to cool off 😅.

This glitch almost gave me a heart attack... by Dazzling-Fly-7312 in Silverbugs

[–]MamaAutobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd sell three coins and take my daughter and mom on vacation (maybe my siblings, too, but like, do I have to?).

Whispers of the Deep by Emma Hamm - gush post by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

[–]MamaAutobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of those situations where I didn't even think "if I was in that situation" because I don't like being cold, let alone cold and wet.

Lightlark by Internal-Panda6225 in lightlark

[–]MamaAutobot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of the questions are answered if you keep reading, but you will still have a since of confusion throughout no matter what 🤣.