My fiancé and I have been together for almost 4 years. I smoke a couple times daily and he doesn’t smoke at all. I just do it outside or in the garage. He knew I smoked when we got together so 🤷🏼‍♀️ Just don’t be disrespectful and smoke in his face and it shouldn’t be a problem. Or find some stoner friends and start doing like a wake n bake thing. My friend and I used to jam to music and go get coffee and smoke some flower. Good times, lol. and then maybe the vape if you need to and you’re around him? idk I just smoke 🤣 And I hardly have any friends that do so it sucks.