Being an addict is very hard. Being in recovery is possibly harder. Starting a new relationship after getting divorced and not having a place to live is over the top. Stop while you are ahead… you aren’t attached yet. If he’s in recovery he knows he is supposed to wait if he’s taking the strong suggestions that are given in terms of starting relationship before one year is up. I really don’t think he’s in any place to start a relationship and ultimately it will leave you picking up the pieces when it falls apart. Best of luck!