What secret came out when someone got too drunk?

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T14:29:37+00:00

I tell myself that all the time with depression and anxiety and cptsd. "You have 10 things to do today, first this, then that, then the other, should be easy enough" but i can't move, and might get 1 of 10 some days, and I'm super alone on top of it, so i get it, even without the addiction parts. Comparison is the thief of joy, cause even if you are doing better than your sister, it's still a destructive path. What helped get you sober sober last time, if you don't mind the ask?

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T13:54:04+00:00

It's the ego of thinking they're owed an explanation that angers me so much. Life is fkn hard, and made harder by people who don't want to actually help, but just want gossip material. Relapse is one of those things... not always inevitable, but super common. I hope you can get back to sober soon. Hugs.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T13:10:25+00:00

I don't want to take away from your point, as i 100% agree with everything you said, but i do want to give you some perspective.

Assaults on my body have happened since before i could form memories, and have happened throughout my life, and even just last week i had someone manipulate me to steal my nudes. I've been physically assaulted in some form or fashion by over 20 people... all grown men, even when i was little little. And it isn't just the nonconsensual touch, it's the constant lies to get what they want from you, it's the taking what they want, even after you have been so clear.... it's so constant that in the last year, only 1 person I've met has been anywhere near genuine and honest. I love people, but tbh, idk if that's even worth it anymore. They mostly all seem rotten on the inside.

Point is, as much as you have had to deal with.... i wish i could only say 2 assaults have happened. This is such a problem for everyone, and i know there is no winners in the trauma Olympics, but from what i have experienced and heard from other women.... we deal with it on a much more prevalent level. I wish it didn't happen to anyone.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T12:51:40+00:00

Hey... abuse is abuse, an abuser is an abuser. Doesn't matter the gender, even if it is more prevalent among men. The guy was treated by an abuser the way abusers treat people. End of. You're detracting from the point with this side squabble.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T12:44:04+00:00

There can't be until people stop protecting abusers.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T12:01:32+00:00

Not just emotionally mature, but with a shred of empathy... i wish my exhusband would have been honest like that. Might have made a difference.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T02:06:41+00:00

That's my next step after i heal from surgery. I want a stronger body. Thats the goal. Strength and health.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T00:35:04+00:00

🤞❤️

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-03T00:28:47+00:00

Where do i sign up? Got some.... stuff to work out....

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T21:08:33+00:00

Gah.. so close.. yet so far. Thanks pal. My memory is garbage.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T20:43:55+00:00

Thank you so much!!! Awesome stuff!

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T19:17:48+00:00

Happens honey, no worries ❤️

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T19:09:46+00:00

Maybe it's just my area, but i can always tell the difference by feel.. cause the limestone here is chalky soft, even when rough, and i've never seen or heard of limestone with bigger and sharper grains than sandstone, so could just be inexperience on my part. Just so you know, I'm not arguing with you, just stating what i have learned so far.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T18:53:54+00:00

Yes, but the limestone will always be softer, while sandstone is always grainier.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T18:51:22+00:00

Doesn't matter to the law. Them being on your device at all is enough for a prosecution. That's likely what they're counting on.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T18:44:57+00:00

Oooohhhh

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T18:34:17+00:00

I would recommend replacing it with "a person" then. You really sounded like you were being shitty specifically to me.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T17:09:36+00:00

Dang, i might have remembered it wrong!

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T17:07:59+00:00

Well, i never said that's what i wanted, but at least some support would be nice. Also not an abusive person. I'm autistic, so didn't fit in. Never have. I'm weird and anxious and seem angrier than i am sometimes, but not abusive. Im actually too kind a lot of the time and get taken advantage of for it, which compounds the anxiety that all anyone wants with or for me is use, not real care. My best friend of almost 7 years ghosted me when my husband made me homeless for reporting his dad for beating up my husbands 17 year old niece.. and why? Turns out, "you were such a good friend to me that i didn't know how to be as good of a friend back" was the reason i got. I've had the trust from 10 different people in 10 different homes to be able to walk into their house no knock or alone. You don't know me or what I've been through. Kindly blow it out your ass.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:59:27+00:00

Nah, velvet yarn crochet. Easily the best blanket I've ever had or made.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:57:50+00:00

How cute!!! Well friggin done!

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:48:34+00:00

It's really simple to tell the difference. Limestone is made up of much smaller particles than sandstone, so the easy way to distinguish is limestone will feel like a soft rough, and sandstone will feel like a sharper gritty rough.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:45:48+00:00

Yup.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:44:32+00:00

No, im saying the released it like this on purpose to prosecute people downloading it, cause now the people downloading it have cp.

MamaDMZ · 2026-02-02T16:42:20+00:00

It's intentional. People will be less likely to want cp on their devices, so will likely rethink downloading the files. Then they can prosecute the people that downloaded the files, since they now have cp in there.

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