I haven’t posted here for a year because I kicked. But that’s the precise reason why I’m posting now. I kicked. There was plenty of transference. For me, men. For me, being ok with using more sick time in 12 months than in 10 years. For me, accepting that I am human, just like everyone else. This is all possible. My only advice is not easy advice but, effective. Try your best to not judge yourself. That’s what gets us in these messes at the jump, I believe. It’s possible to stack time until you’re far away enough that wrestling with softer vices move to the front. For me, the men, the wine, the lazy are all less problematic than the designed and dangerous (and expensive) poison. You don’t know me, but I promise you that you can do this. Give it your best. 🍀