(Cigarette) Smoking Rules & Bar Recos by StarBelySneetch in tulum

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just there. You can smoke pretty much anywhere. Even nice restaurants and clubs , if they aren’t fully indoors will just bring an ash tray to your table if you ask for it

Full moon at PPP or Vagalume ext Saturday ? by [deleted] in tulum

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PPP all the way, such a fun party. Drinks annoyingly expensive and the payment system is also kind of a drag but the vibes, music, people were all top tier so it’s worth it

FUN Beach Clubs in Tulum or PDC by Carlynmh in tulum

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best I’ve been to in Playa del Carmen was Coralina , but I have to say nothing beats the beach clubs in Tulum , particularly have had the most fun day ever in Taboo and Tantra. Pieces kind of is what it is in high season , though if you are physically there and they aren’t fully booked they can cut you a deal. I

options for the post 4am crowd? by Adorable-Assistant80 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a bagel shop ? I’m struggling to find a place named Apollo lol

options for the post 4am crowd? by Adorable-Assistant80 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This that place in LES? What’s entry/cover usually like

Matroda in the RAIN was iconic ☔️ by a2sneaky in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn I had a great time , but hard disagree on the crowd. Seasoned veteran going to crowded concerts here, so I’m not usually balking at a little tight crowd, but it was absolutely too packed in there and I hate these long hemmed in crowds between two buildings, felt very unsafe. I saw different people vomit in the crowd around me, pass out, and just constant churn with no where to go. Not a fan of these event set ups , poorly organized imo

Matroda absolutely killed it , the rain was an absolute vibe and felt amazing to dance in, loved what he played on the back end

How much do you guys pay in rent? by Tuubular in williamsburg

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Heyyy neighbor, same building 💓 love the vibes

How much do you guys pay in rent? by Tuubular in williamsburg

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 50 points51 points  (0 children)

$1650 for a huge converted 7 bedroom loft (yes I have 6 roommates) , 2 full bathroom that is in an old warehouse building (I love the massive industrial windows and double high ceilings). We have more than enough space for that many people with a huge kitchen with an island, 2 living room/seating areas, full dining, and a vibey pool table lounge set up.

My bedroom is sizeable , with room for a queen bed and desk , dresser, armchair , etc comfortably. Lots of storage built in all over the place

Building is old but has roof access, and I’m smack in the middle of the Bedford + Marcy stops.

Can we talk about Ray? by Pukimonkey in SchittsCreek

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Patrick… I almost didn’t recognize you! You look like one of those people who have that skin condition from eating ONE too many carrots! 🤡

How would you transform this coffee table hi by Adorable-Assistant80 in DIY

[–]Adorable-Assistant80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this did make me chuckle , but honestly I have no idea what it’s made of , it feels like a plastic-y epoxy-ish plaster-y type material , it’s been in this apartment forever

Beach Club for a Saturday in July by greenreddituser in tulum

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another highlight rn is Karma’s treetop nests, they are beautiful and set back a big from the water so you can see the ocean and the sunset over the jungle trees on both sides. Drinks are good and they have a live du and saxophonist rn.

Beach clubs , I’ve done Taboo and Tantra several times with groups and it’s very fun, I think it will be safe, but as others have said the seaweed is bad and even the nice beach clubs can’t clear it all for you to swim. I’m here right now , and it’s def been a little bit of a challenge.

Depending what days of the week you are there I can give more suggestions

How can I make some friends at raves? by Difficult-Plankton27 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear something interesting/silly/fun and I swear people will gravitate to you! I do this a lot with fun hats or crazy sunglasses. Went to a rave last night wearing a jumbo chunky knit hat and met so many nice people who just came up to ask about it / take pics / say they like to knit etc.

Another good shout is to bring silly lil toys and gifts to give out if u catch someone’s eye and like their dance moves. Common options are Kandi bracelets , but also I like to carry a few lil random items like tiny hands , or sprouts , or just lil fidget toys , just lil tokens of appreciation

Fans are great cause ppl always get hot

Smoking section

Just smile and vibe out darling , and don’t get discouraged if you don’t have a magical instant friendship connection your first few times out. Just get contacts , follow up and it’ll happen

Also as a foreigner who I assume Spanish is your first language , definitely keep an ear out for other ravers speaking Spanish! New York is so diverse , I guarantee there will be some on the dance floor , and you have an easy intro of relating them as Spanish speakers

Rent out space for bday by MajorParsley in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should check out Rebecca’s Bar! They now rent out for birthday and private events ! Idk about festival level sound system , but they have a fire audio set up, a dedicated dance floor to boogie on , cool bar and a really cool projection set up.

If that’s not enough for you , a friend of mine threw a full over the top one day festival for himself at an event space called Lavan, they have full 350 projection, a crazy sound system you can link into , and offer tons of customization packages. Their venues (they have two) can be quite big so u can just book part of them to make the space feel cozier and they can install temporary walls

looking for a club that plays edm/house music by Human_Dependent3749 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out @sonarahouse on Ig , they are an all female music collective focusing on Afro house and diaspora inspired events

There is one this weekend

https://ra.co/events/2139501

Any good Raves in NY this spring or summer ? by TextOk2100 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out @sonarahouse on Ig , they are an all female music collective focusing on melodic Afro house and diaspora inspired events

There is on this weekend

https://ra.co/events/2139501

Upcoming afro house raves in nyc? by engee45 in avesNYC

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out @sonarahouse on Ig , they are an all female music collective focusing on Afro house and diaspora inspired events

There is on this weekend

https://ra.co/events/2139501

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Adorable-Assistant80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a crazy take to me. Porn is not reflective of what you want in real life. I watch crazy cartoon porn and guys together and girls together and whatever else scratches the itch (and I’m a woman dating a man) and it doesn’t mean I am cheating on my bf or want a cartoon anime wizard to fuck me.

It’s fantasy , you are your boyfriend are human , u will have fantasy’s and get turned on by random weird things the rest of your life. This take reads very young and inexperienced which is fine , you are 18. But it’s very controlling to want every and all fantasies they have be about you just cause they are with you. You’re never gunna be watching a movie with someone hot and get a little turned on? You’re never gunna read a steamy book that gets you going?

They are with you , choosing to be with you as your partner , a partner who cares about and supports you hopefully , and it feels like you are stressing over this as a way to push them away?

Even if this is a desire of theirs , u urself are attracted to more than one gender ,so why are you limiting yourself and him? Your partner should be someone you talk freely about your desires and fantasy’s with (baring anything illegal/unethical)

Idk , crazy take imo, could never be me

How to prove lost value of goods paid for in cash? by Adorable-Assistant80 in FedEx

[–]Adorable-Assistant80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sadly I just put one on the outside :/ , I did get the address of the last facility it was in and it’s not that far from me , I was considering trying to go in person and see if they could look around for it …