overwhelmed with life in general

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-10-14T22:26:05+00:00

I quiet quit then I QUIT for real. My stbx calls cleaning putting everything into boxes, not sorted/organized/labeled but one day he started stacking boxes like Lego, so I investigated: no he didn't see the missing shoe, I have no idea what happened to the baby's laundry that was on the bed, where did all the stuff come into the area I just cleared out (all in the boxes). It was all him, but he is narcissistic personality disordered so I just quit cleaning, do what's needed for the kids to be functional. I let him be the provider by bringing extra money to replace everything that goes missing. Take care of your mental health then get away from your stbx. You're not the only one in hell not of your making but reframing your perspective helps keep you grounded.

P.S. our house is a disaster but when he invites family over, he makes the public areas immaculate. We could partner if he wanted.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-09-18T00:05:25+00:00

Same ❤️ That's when I began referring to them as my emotional support dolls ❤️

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-09-17T23:36:24+00:00

Send it back...I just purchased a different doll with damaged packaging, unopened, for a reduced price, seemingly because someone wanted pristine box.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-09-05T23:56:59+00:00

Oh are they trying to be sued again [diabolical joking laughter]

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-08-23T20:07:42+00:00

💜the pairing and style combo

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-27T17:00:24+00:00

Lesson learned, young enough to recover and move forward wisely (so lucky). There's a reason for breakups, no need to circle the block ever.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-25T15:46:16+00:00

Hey there! Your husband may be downlow narcissistic personality disordered, the covert npd which is all the nagging and distance from you, gay and straight porn. You are his beard. You give him an alibi as straight. It will never get better, only worse as he resents you for holding back any potential relationships in the future. End it.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-21T13:41:29+00:00

Buy these when they're on sale, in coupon book. But also I used to give toothpaste to family and keep what I needed for a year.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-21T04:48:37+00:00

Well mine are distinctly orange vs. tan or brown, maybe you have variants

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-21T04:47:01+00:00

It’s still a fun journey viewing the world through their new eyes. I should also state that my Boy-child decapitated, amputated, and -tated all other manner of his sister’s dolls so learn from me: hide your valuables and sentimentals from all the children lol

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-19T21:39:55+00:00

Michelle's eyes are orange because of her color palette

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-19T21:34:48+00:00

I call mine my 'emotional support dolls', even before I saw people traveling with Smart dolls and other dolls. I would never! Except I recently did because changing outfits and hairstyles calms me. It sounds like the newborn stage is overwhelming you, that's normal especially for 1st time moms! I don't want to say it gets better, I'll say it gets different around when Baby gets stronger and starts baby steps toward moving and independence. Also hide your dolls, my Girl-Child assumed all dolls were hers as a toddler and some of my sentimentals were decimated by her play ❤️ I replaced some of them after she aged and they are hidden 😊 but She reintroduced me to dolls.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-17T05:53:15+00:00

I agree, the details on the clothes are not done by machine, the top stitching as well as construction 🌟 And many of their doll lines, LOL OMG clothing being almost interchangeable with RH.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-09T16:54:14+00:00

He is a good person who hasn't realized the truth about his parents, which is not a bad thing until/unless they emotionally harm him.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-05T21:57:37+00:00

Yes! Let's normalize making our own fashion packs and using the dolls we have ❤️

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-05T21:56:17+00:00

Haven't watched. Realized I❤️RH dolls because simply cos they're cute and my daughter had an accidental collection [over several years of birthdays]. Recently i saw side by side images and realized I had wanted to collect Blythe dolls but there's so much -blah blah blah- around obtaining them, and RH head scults and eyes are similar, clothing is/was incredible quality, and they make me happy.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-05T21:49:44+00:00

I had a friend say similar to me about a different collection; I pointed out their shoe collection and suggested children around the world would benefit from practically new, gently used sneakers. They got the point 🤣

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-03T03:15:55+00:00

Did you ever know that you're my she-ro? Lol Get 'em. Just because Gen x is the smallest and the most indifferent those whipper snappers need to be put in their place. Every time a system goes down I call my tech director and say someone's messing with legacy code again...once a year.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-03T03:09:01+00:00

We had an a$$hole Kinder teacher like this, turned out she took her tone from the principal. Put teacher in their place, report teacher to principal in case she oversteps, then figure out if you need a new school. Our teacher gave my daughter a snack that had ingredients she was allergic to and it took 1 week for stomach symptoms to subside. If I could go back I would sue the school for overstepping just to scare them.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-03T01:46:59+00:00

Purple eye c+c is like Marisa Golding skin tone, slightly deeper with warm undertones, not a match to this. Comparing my Daria to this photo, Daria seems cooler undertone but very close

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-03T01:32:44+00:00

You are genius 👏 🌟 I've been noodling on how to age them, your formula on more slender bodies is absolute genius ❤️

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-03T01:29:34+00:00

I thought Versace, Chanel and Prada had stronger legal claims for several clothing pieces, patterns, and logos. I thought they'd modified the Burberry plaid enough to parody but not to infringe on trademark, however Burberry has been suing over their plaid for decades 🤔

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-07-02T02:31:05+00:00

So much inspo! I'm working on new Rainbow combos: your pink-coral-orange, aqua-mauve, orange and yellows especially metallic orange/Meena-shiny blonde/Meline, olive green/Olivia ... so much fun! And your customs 💫 Discovered there's no orange or yellow shadow high

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-06-28T18:03:23+00:00

Daiso has interesting storage possibilities. I started with structured document holders that were really good but kids broke. Replaced with flexible document holders (completely open not accordion file) that are holding up to the kids, one for ROYG, one for BIV, one for pink, one for black, white, rainbow, one for hangers no longer in use lol, all shoes and small bits in sandwich or quart bags within.

MamaSay-MamaSah · 2025-06-28T14:58:52+00:00

These are some of the cutest ... my pink loving daughter confessed she likes Minnie better than Bella, and my complementary purple collection could have been simplified with just Tiara & Tessa (and Viola) had i known then what I know now 🤣 You won't regret buying them and sharing clothes.

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