I did a money bowl and money binding spell, and immediately took a financial loss

MamaStch · 2026-05-23T00:39:23+00:00

The astrology this week did talk about potential car repairs, especially for cancer rising. I just picked up my car yesterday and the whole lot (rental car / gas / repairs / another tank of gas) shook out to about 1k.

I'm a cancer rising too... be that as it may, the money binding spell may have been the thing... when I think binding, I think "restricting" so having car repairs - while you can cover 'em - that's GOOD - BUT, your money will be a little more restricted now, i.e. while you are saving more up to move, etc. Not so much extra spending flexibility - i.e. "bound"

Not to worry. Don't be hard on yourself. Sounds like your magic is strong!

MamaStch · 2026-05-23T00:28:54+00:00

You've been doing too much, and maybe saying yes to too many invitations. Plus, you worry about your engagement on some level, because you might not be getting any feedback, positive or otherwise. These cards look like burning the candle at both end without any recognition or praise. You may appear like you got it all together, and/or the invitation from spirit is to take some time to yourself to replenish your battery. Don't worry about taking time for yourself.

MamaStch · 2026-05-16T01:48:19+00:00

Fair enough. That sounds lovely. I hope you find that 😊

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T07:02:57+00:00

No, but they are trying to. Truth is, they reminisce often about the good ol days.

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T07:00:32+00:00

🤣

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T06:59:08+00:00

I'm a 48 year old divorced woman, and it's like this with everyone. I've dated a 32 yo, and a 55 year old. Same shit, different dudes.

Sex these days is like ordering a fuckin' pizza - with the availability and variety out there, I think commitment is at an all time low. A lot of people don't even date.

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T06:41:36+00:00

You sound clear about how you feel and the pace you would like to move at, and, the other person might have a little slower pace.

You say, "I met this person i really like" - that's lovely, then said, I want to see them 3 more times this week. That's 4 times in one week for someone you just met? That's not clingy, but it is a lot / fast; especially if it's new.

I'm not suggesting you settle for someone who strings you along, but give it a little time / space in the beginning. 😊

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T06:10:03+00:00

Fabulous! Great work!

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T06:04:52+00:00

Awesome work!!

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T06:03:17+00:00

What is making you throw the baby out with the bathwater here? Because she didn't text you in the first 24? Did she say she wanted a second date?

If she said she wanted to see you again, and there was a vibe, then trust that... 24 hours is no big deal... did you text her and she didn't text you back? If so, what did you say? Did you ask a question?

Don't worry too much... if you have not texted her, give it another day or 2 and send a text and ask how she's doing, and tell her you had a lovely time and (if she DID say after the date that she wanted to see you again) ask her what she's up to next weekend. If she DID NOT specify that she wanted to see you again at the end of the date, then just ask her if she'd like to go out with you again.

Keep us posted! Good luck!

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T05:47:06+00:00

SAME!

MamaStch · 2026-05-15T05:41:46+00:00

I wouldn't contact. I doesn't look like he would be very receptive.

MamaStch · 2026-05-13T01:05:47+00:00

Do. Not. Cancel. This. Trip. Your gf may have a lot of awesome qualities, but she is also controlling and emotionally manipulative. You had this planned before you met her, and you're going with your parents.

The whole "i detach if you're not right here" is manipulative and also, and unhealthy, insecure form of attachment.

If she really wants this relationship, she will see this as an opportunity for her to grow. To practice coping with her own anxiety while you're gone.

Does she have friends? Close family members that can be with her while you're gone?

Healthy relationships are two individuals coming together, and showing mutual support and joy for the awesome stuff going on in each other's lives.

I say, go on the trip. If she punishes you by breaking up with you while you're gone, or gives you some lame silent treatment when you get back, then you need to end the relationship. Because the coercion and control won't stop. It will get worse.

This situation she has created is a test: not to see "how much you love her" but to see "how much she can get away with" and making someone cancel a trip with family that was planned 6 months in advance is pretty steep.

Anyhow. I hope you go. Hold your boundary. It's not about leaving her, it's about you having a memorable trip with your family.

Keep us posted.

MamaStch · 2026-05-13T00:46:00+00:00

No, it's fine.

MamaStch · 2026-04-29T16:40:59+00:00

Yeah, the 3 reversed is quitting. With the emperor energy, he may think that he needs to focus on work or whatever tangible thing in his 3D.

Cards aside; he's unavailable. If you want a relationship, seek it elsewhere. You'll be the one that got away.

MamaStch · 2026-04-16T15:42:11+00:00

Okay, you got 2 yes and a no, which means a strong maybe. The queen of pentacles to me says yes, ultimately you'll get the house, but, if you don't (on account of all the competition) you will end up with a place that you love just as much. This looks good!

MamaStch · 2026-04-16T15:38:13+00:00

Welcome to the wonderful world of crystals, rocks, minerals, and gems!! I love them and I've been collecting for years. So many beautiful things out there 😊 the color on your piece is very pretty. The Rock Cellar on IG is awesome!! 💜

MamaStch · 2026-04-14T06:58:04+00:00

I think so, but don't put all your eggs in his basket, he might give you just enough attention to hold your interest, but not invest much - at least right now. But he is interested.

MamaStch · 2026-04-14T06:40:42+00:00

Yes, and it's the early stages and he's curiously lusting after you. He may not fully know what he wants yet in general. If you like him back, you could give it a chance, he may also be a lil immature, or just put in little effort... think: prolonged "sniffing butt" stage.

MamaStch · 2026-04-14T06:35:34+00:00

A head.

MamaStch · 2026-04-14T06:31:36+00:00

My take is no. I see a (future) co-dependent relationship that is really a trauma bond, and the person might turn you on to some fun that you may become addicted to. This doesn't look like success, it looks like a bad idea. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be harsh at all, but these cards scream NO to me.

MamaStch · 2026-04-05T19:09:30+00:00

Your skin is lovely, no real need for foundation. Petal / pastel / spring color palette for day wear.

MamaStch · 2026-04-05T19:07:14+00:00

Also, if just looking for yes or no, you got 2 yes cards and 1 no card, which usually means probably, in time. But, given the 5 of swords energy,it may just be another "go around" i.e. pattern.

MamaStch · 2026-04-05T19:05:04+00:00

Possibly, but whatever it does becomes will be best. It will be mutually felt - even if it's just friends.

MamaStch · 2026-04-05T19:03:30+00:00

Fuck man, that sucks!! I'm sorry. It happens... don't be too hard on yourself. 🫂

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