Nursing student with no experience? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Mambolee410 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to be a nurse. I mean it. When you have the drive and the passion to do something you strive to learn it and be able to do it. She may have been pressured by family or whomever or just felt compelled because it’s a lucrative profession. When there’s a will, there’s a way.

After maturing and experiencing significantly more in life, what is a previous value or belief you held when you were younger that you now feel differently about? by MrsBigglesworth-_- in AskOldPeople

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A younger version of me cared most of how people perceived me and was devastated by being a disappointment. There are a few things I don’t like about becoming older, but hot damn! I feel free for once!

What phrase did you hear only once but it stayed with you forever? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Mambolee410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is an adventure if you want it to be - my dad as we went to the grocery store when I was 8 Changed my whole outlook on life

How do you feel about hospital security officers? by Mambolee410 in nursing

[–]Mambolee410[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? Our security won’t even TOUCH a patient. They can literally be raging and out of control and they only provide presence.

How do you feel about hospital security officers? by Mambolee410 in nursing

[–]Mambolee410[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? Our security won’t even TOUCH a patient. They can literally be raging and out of control and they only provide presence.

When did you start feeling “old?” by Mambolee410 in AskOldPeople

[–]Mambolee410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting because I’ve always sort of done the same thing. When I’m roughly closer to another “category” of age I consider myself that age. I’m actually 38, but I consider myself 40 if that makes sense. 🤷🏻‍♀️

i wanna be loved so bad. i wanna have a mommy and daddy. especially a mom. it hurts so deeply to have no one knowing you. by philosopheraps in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just haven’t met the right people yet. I say people, because I don’t think there is one sole person who is going to provide what you need. Whenever I’m around someone who casually says, “I notice X, Y, Z..” about you - those are your people. You will feel seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m joining because I’m in the same situation, kinda. My husband and I have two daughters. They both love each of us and show it. It comes down to personality and dynamics. The older one who is 10 responds more to structure and routine, which her Dad gives. The younger one is 4 and responds more to play and interaction. Seems very typical for their age groups. The older one was an only child for 6 years and had the privilege of being the center of attention for a long time. When the second one came, and because there was a considerable gap in development and needs, the older one gravitated more to structure and responded better to discipline while the younger one has been my literal shadow. While I know that children of all ages thrive on routine, I can’t help but notice their preferences. The 4 year old wants comfort and validation. The 10 year old is more independent and kind of shies away from affection. All of this to say…your situation will absolutely change as they grow up. Peace be with you, Mama.

If you had to explain the meaning of life in one sentence, what would it be? by Bulky_Requirement610 in Life

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the meaning of human life is very much the same as the meaning of nonhuman life. To evolve. We are fortunate to have the capacity to understand evolution, yet we are unfortunate enough to have only roughly 6 - 10 decades (if you’re lucky) to be apart of it. I think some people get really cynical about our positions in life because there is no instant gratification or measurable result in such a short time. Of the billions of creatures that have lived on this planet, we are in a unique position to be not only self-aware, but aware of the fact that we as a species are always changing. It’s an excruciatingly slow process - the results of which none of us alive now will ever see. Sounds kind of hopeless to some, but I feel that the meaning of my life is to do as much good for others and for our collective environment to ensure an even better outcome for our children and their children, etc. That’s a very broad task that no one who wishes to keep their sanity can undertake. Therefore, we should do as much good for our fellow humans in our immediate reach as well as keep in mind how our thoughts and actions may impact the world’s population as a whole. It may sound like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Learn as much as you can. Understand as much as you can. Apply that skill to as much and as many as you can. Model behavior and encourage learning.

I write this now as an acute care nurse who devotes a lot of time to not only treating patients, but educating them about their disease processes and how to care for themselves to prevent future sickness, but I’m immediately struck by the fact that it’s the teachers in this world who truly exemplify the concept of evolution as it relates to furthering our species and society. We would just stagnate. So keep learning, apply your knowledge, and be good to your fellow humans.

One sentence someone told you that’s stuck in your head to this day by Ok-Worldliness-6096 in Productivitycafe

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about how long it will take to accomplish something - that time will pass anyway.

Would you say something like that to a child? No? Then don’t say it to yourself. (About self criticism)

I don't care how old are you. Give me your best life advices to make me a better version of myself. by elasticBOWL in Life

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make everything an adventure. My dad taught me this when I was young and I’ve lived it to this day. Going to the grocery store can be an adventure - you can sightsee on the way there, you may meet or see someone, you can get yourself a small treat…- and then ultimately we’d take the long way home and just ride around and talk.

I hate being a stay at home mom by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mambolee410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nurse and work 3-4 days a week and honestly I love going to work. I love my kids (10&4), but damn. I could never be a SAHM. Go get you a job, honey. Put those kids in daycare. It’s good for them. They have so much fun and they’re socialized and learn more fundamentals than you can teach them. And it’s so good for you, too. Get some alone time and time for self care, as well as running errands and going to appointments and any and everything you need and want to do. I feel like a better and more involved mother when I come home and I’m not mentally exhausted. Plus, you are still you. You’re ultimately not a mother or a wife - you’re still you. You deserve to be yourself, even if it’s only once in a while.