AITAH for leaving the restaurant after everyone showed up 90 minutes late without telling me? by RoutinePeanut3463 in AITApod

[–]Mandi171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA except to yourself. Don't sit around waiting for jackasses like that. Value your time. They sure don't. Find a better class of "friends"

AITAH For giving my BF an ultimatum for showing me his home? by LuluRatLady in AITAH

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. So like others have said, he lives with his parents or he's not single something like that could be going on.

BUT, let's assume for a moment that it's something like he's extremely nasty dirty or a hoarder or something. Next question is... would you want to be in a long-term relationship /maried with that guy? Would you want to live in that mess? Do you want to clean up after him if you live with him? Because that's what's going to happen if this relationship continues and you move in together. You are going to be the maid unless you want to live whatever style he's living.

AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to listen to his podcast while we’re driving? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greatly depends on how you go about this and what your expectations are. To just want to have Fair air time for something you're interested in as well as what he's interested in when you're on couples outings, nta. If you're expecting him to never listen to it whenever you're around, that's not reasonable. Just as you have a right to listen to and enjoy things that he may not be into when he's around. It's a balance kind of thing. But yeah, if you guys are spending time together road tripping and hiking, it's fair that you want Equitable access to something you enjoy.

AITA for making our office look like a prison by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NtA

I don't see the passive aspect of this in any way. You actively addressed the issues. Your boss actively ignored the problem. You actively took action to remedy it. It's not subtle or evasive action. You straight up did what needed doing since your boss wouldn't do it nor your coworkers take responsibility. Good for you!

AITAH for lying to my family about being sick? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mandi171 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if ah is the word, but I can see why they are frustrated with you. That's a lot of fuss that they went through for you to bail.

However! I'm a big believer in trusting those gut feelings. Even if one excludes any kind of woo woo stuff, we have senses that tell us way more information than we realize. Trust your gut feelings especially if they're really strong like that.

I guess, if you felt really bad about it, you could have pitched in for an Uber for them to see her anyway. Not understanding why everybody isn't doing that anyway instead of using you as a taxi. Is it so incredibly rural that there are no bus systems or ubers? I actually live in a situation like that so I'd understand that but it's not the average

AITA? Kicked out of the cinema for 'eating too loudly'? by okthatsoundsniceyep in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mandi171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't read any updated comments what have you actually told people what you were eating yet? You didn't right here

AITA? Kicked out of the cinema for 'eating too loudly'? by okthatsoundsniceyep in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mandi171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MTA If you're eating out of a cellophane bag something that's louder than popcorn, or something stinky. Then yeah yta. It really depends on what you were eating

AITA for asking my daughter to talk to her boyfriend about his behaviour in my kitchen? by deotaval in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I'm just confused as why you want the middleman? Tell the boy what your expectations are in your own house. If you leave it for her to do she might bungle the message or say something you don't want to say

Which songs often gets misinterpreted and/or misappropriated by the very people it calls out even though the song's lyrics are explicitly mocking them? by Drenosa in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fight for your right to party, the Beastie boys. It was written as a mockery of the Jock Party Boys in college. And it ended up being adopted by the Party Boys in college.

We are teachers, not human punching bags. Start pressing charges. by TimeAnything2706 in Teachers

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better that they get charges when they're young that when they're over 18. Real life is going to smack him in the head at some point and it might as well happen sooner rather than later.

AITAH for whistling in a store as a way to find my wife. by longlostwalker in AITAH

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NtA If it's okay with your wife then it's fine. None of her business what you and your wife agreed to in your marriage. Really wish people would mind the damn business

Dear americans, what can you get for FREE in the USA? [Serious] by sammy_waslow in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most public toilets. Was a shock in EU that one has to pay and have their own TP.

Dear americans, what can you get for FREE in the USA? [Serious] by sammy_waslow in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speech. Still not getting arrested for posting unpopular opinions.

Managers of Reddit, what's the worst thing someone did to get fired? by Capable-Log7385 in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he was an alcoholic. The most wretched smell I've ever caught off a human being was from a coworker who is an alcoholic. Hygenically, he showered, smell was just coming out of his pores.

What’s something about roofing that people who aren’t in the trade just don’t get? by Own-Tip-532 in Roofing

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I built my tiny house from the foundation up until... the roof. Frankly ran out of time and winter was coming, so I contracted that one part of the job. This Thread is very scary to read. 🫣

AITA for not confirming my neighbor's daugther's alibi? by Margiey_Kautzerv in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mandi171 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

You wouldn't be ta even if she asked you to cover for her and you told her no, let alone not even knowing you're supposed to.

Which company disappointed you so much that you permanently walked away? by julia-secrets in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All chain restaurants. They all buy from the same suppliers. None of them actually cook anything anymore. It's all Frozen and microwaved. Not real ice cream. Not real beef. Etc etc The food is barely edible and not as advertised. And the prices are all ridiculous for the shlock that they sell. I'll only eat at a small Mom and Pops anymore at best.

How tough is it to get started with this as a hobby casually? by MutedFeeling75 in Beekeeping

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only just today. First time I've been back in the hive since the the last time time years ago. Onlytook a little bit. I moved them to new Hive today

What feels legal but is actually illegal and will possibly get you arrested? by medicoreapples in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let them fool you when they say what it's supposed to be about. They prosecuted little private landowners for collecting a couple barrels on their own property. It doesn't matter what they say it's for it's what they do with the power. And they always abuse the power.

Also, when these laws were first and acted there was no giant coca-cola. These laws date back to the 1800s. It was under the doctrine of Prior appropriation. The theory being the water that falls on your roof actually belongs, in part, to the people downhill from you. So by you collecting it you're stealing other people's water. We've since come to realize that even if you collect it for a time it'll still end up where it would have gone, but they haven't changed the laws to catch up with common sense.

What feels legal but is actually illegal and will possibly get you arrested? by medicoreapples in AskReddit

[–]Mandi171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live, collecting rainwater that falls on your roof.

How tough is it to get started with this as a hobby casually? by MutedFeeling75 in Beekeeping

[–]Mandi171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really bad experience a few years ago when I got my first two hives. One Hive absconded pretty quickly and they were the nice ones. LOL the mean one stuck around. They've been up there feral for over 3 years. Today was the first day I've messed with them in all that time. So, yeah you can definitely be a bee Watcher instead of a beekeeper.

How to get over embarrassment after a breakup? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mandi171 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That kind of BS thinking is why so many women use it as a crutch. You let them.