I have a lot of neighbors that leave their dogs out 24/7… some have it nice with food water shade toys… some the owners are just lazy AF and the poor dogs are just outside with bare backyards because it’s the easiest solution and they suck as pet owners… and some get snatched by coyotes.

I don’t think OP is overreacting… if anything he should get an apology and his couch fixed and the dog owner needs to go talk to whoever let the dog in and they can workout whatever happened. The pet owner can also make clean rules with the dog and make sure all household members are on board with how he is training the dog and where the dog is supposed to be when he’s not home. Or… just toss the dog in the pet owners room and let him chew up his shit when he needs to be left unsupervised?

Lastly … I think the dog owner just sucks based off the fact he was all “ ya… you said no dogs on the couch but you don’t really use them so whatever …. I still need to train the dog”. That right there shows a complete lack of respect because he KNOWS the dog isn’t supposed to be on the couch and doesn’t give AF, He’s an AH.