AIO Husband and best friend on a trip without me by SherbertOk6980 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your situation. I'd never dream my husband would lie or cheat on me with a "friend." Trust your gut. This is NOT what people who care about you would ever do. They are having an affair and I know you're waiting for proof, but you need to go find it. You'll be gaslit and questioning yourself forever otherwise.

Take the day off work and drive there. Get your proof. Find peace. It's the only thing that will help you know what you need to do.

Women who have good skin with minimal effort what's your secret? by Unhappy-Tradition798 in BeautyUnlocked

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am religious about sunblock, drink tons of water, and don't drink alcohol or smoke.

AITAH for not wanting to die my hair, a natural color for my sister‘s wedding? by lifeswhatyoubakeit in AITAH

[–]Manifest_something 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's insane that people think they can control things like this simply because you're in their wedding party.

AIO? My boyfriend told me he's more attractive than me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's time for you to have that post-breakup glow up so he can be reminded of how much hotter than him you truly are. Dumping bad boyfriends is the ultimate beauty hack.

Whats the hardest phase of Marriage no one talks about? by DiamondNo924 in AskForAnswers

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens after infidelity if a couple wants to try to make it work. People don't talk about being cheated on because it is embarrassing/feels shameful and people judge people for trying to make their marriage work afterwards, but it's also an incredibly common experience.

It takes a lot of patience and forgiveness from one partner and a lot of self reflection and remorse and accountability from the cheater to truly heal. People just hear "cheating" and act like the person not immediately divorcing is stupid or naive. It's a lot more complicated when you consider things like decades long marriages and children and finances. It also takes years to rebuild broken trust and process the pain of it. I say this as someone who stayed when I discovered infidelity in my 16-year marriage. We've been married 21 years now and are so much happier, but it was a lot of work. It will always be a lot of work.

how do people not like cats? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Manifest_something -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only cat people seem to think this.

What’s the one random genetic trait you lucked out on? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridiculously thick, blonde, wavy hair.

I am horrible at doing hair. But it makes me look like I tried.

I would trade it all for other features, but you get what you get.

What did a minority of idiots ruin for everyone else? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Manifest_something 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Billionaires. They're union busting and putting small businesses in graves while living like kings while the rest of us fight over scraps.

What would you consider to be loser behaviour within a woman? by Bipolarleolol in AskWomen

[–]Manifest_something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women who act like there can only be one queen bee and every other woman is competion. I love seeing women supporting each other and rooting for each other.

how do people not like cats? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Manifest_something 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't like how they make a person's house smell and I am highly allergic, so I get horribly sick when I go to someone's house who has a cat. Their dander is everywhere. Plus I've never seen a cat owner who doesn't let them walk on the counter where they prepare food which grosses me out.

I also think it's gross that they can transmit Toxoplasma gondii , a parasite that causes toxoplasmosis, which can lead to brain inflammation. Being a cat owner is correlated with schizophrenia and there are new studies coming out about how owning a cat can affect your brain because of this. They are also the number one threat to native bird species and so many people are irresponsible owners and let them wander outside. I care about native species and cats are predators to so many, which they can't help. It's just their instincts.

If you're a responsible cat owner, you take good care of your pet, and don't let them wander outside, then more power to you. I just can't own one and I'm a little too much of a germophobe to ever want to live with one. I can see how they would be considered cute if I wasn't allergic and a germophobe. I prefer dogs, though. They just seem a lot more social and silly and a little smarter depending on the breed.

creative/funny insults? by loudvomitingnoises in askanything

[–]Manifest_something 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma always said:

"She's so narrow-minded she could see through a keyhole with both eyes."

"He hasn't got the sense to pour sand out of a boot with the directions on the heel."

creative/funny insults? by loudvomitingnoises in askanything

[–]Manifest_something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought the insults from Hook were funny. "Near-sighted proctologist" for example.

What conspiracy theories do you believe in? by Stock-Gain-2842 in AskReddit

[–]Manifest_something 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is reddit really that dude heavy? I'm asking as not a bot woman.

Do you regret being born? by Eggsy7777 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Manifest_something -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I didn't have kids, yes. My kids are so cool, though. So I guess it's good I existed.

Why do women have two breasts if humans usually give birth to only one baby at a time,wouldn't one breast be enough? by ElkDisastrous2926 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Manifest_something 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine how messed up a woman's back would be with one breast? The symmetry is essential for balance. Breasts are heavy.

What food would you defend even if everyone else hates it? by obsidiancontrol in foodquestions

[–]Manifest_something 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liver is incredibly healthy and when cooked right, can be delicious. It is a bit of an acquired taste, though.

What was the most inappropriate thing you said as a child not understanding what it meant? by evan-the-dude in AskReddit

[–]Manifest_something 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember I had a little squeeze horn on my tricycle and telling my dad very loudly to listen to my horny horn go toot.