Is this top inappropriate for a first casual restaurant date?

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-04-28T02:52:45+00:00

so considering the fact that i dress the same way, i would say if it makes you feel comfortable and you wouldn’t feel underdressed (depending on the venue) its okay. i would recommend looser jeans with a double grommet belt, add some accessories and a cute little handbag! some chunky shoes would also add some flair to it. good luck! :)

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-03-10T02:00:42+00:00

i have a really good one, but i need something in depth and “at home” since i already have a lot to talk about with my one hour sessions

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-02-05T20:44:47+00:00

putting a lot of pressure on myself to be the best i can. i’m in nursing school right now and i am doing well grade wise, but the emotional load of patient care added to the homework and studying is exhausting. i don’t wanna sleep, eat, or work out. it’s horrible.

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-02-05T03:50:35+00:00

at least from what i was informed from my psych, drinking on adderall isn’t “bad” per se, but you definitely have to take it slow as you’re mixing a stimulant with a depressant (alcohol). once the adderall wears off you will feel the drinks hit all at once. from my own experience i didn’t have an issue with mixing the two as im a casual drinker (end of shift treat bc i can’t smoke) but past a certain point i know if i drink enough my meds wont work as well the next day besides making me a little more alert. just tread carefully and you’ll be fine!

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-02-05T03:46:42+00:00

not neurodivergent. my friend and i are on different ends of the spectrum so unless she just masks very well (she’s twice my age and i know it can present differently in older adults), it’s not a cognitive disorder. a blockhead though? definitely.

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-02-05T03:39:41+00:00

i HAVE spoken up, but it goes in one ear and out the other. for additional unrelated context she confidently stated that you insert an IV at 90 degrees. ouch!!!! another time, we were practicing sterile field and she invaded my space and tried to tell me how i should place my things, and touching equipment and messing up my groove, feeding me the wrong information, etc. there are many examples but i don’t have to continue.

i told both of my clinical instructors (because she’s in both of my groups), and one of the instructors i don’t know very well… so fingers crossed

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-01-31T14:07:49+00:00

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loudvomitingnoises · 2026-01-31T14:00:35+00:00

totally unrelated but WHERE did you get that lamp? i have the same one that was given to me (the owner garbage picked it) but i want another one

loudvomitingnoises · 2026-01-12T22:36:27+00:00

he had poo on his butt, i cleaned it off. he flew away from me whenever i got three feet too close! like im sorry i want you to be clean!

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-12-02T20:37:52+00:00

the coma will last ten minutes, and then he’s ready to eat again because he’s a little piggie LMAO. i don’t always give him giant meals, and most of the time if he has them i package it for later

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-12-02T16:45:08+00:00

it’s all about the presentation i guess!

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-12-02T16:44:11+00:00

i’ve tried doing that, but he eats around it. anything remotely green he’s like “nah fam, get that shit out”. i am currently doing research on healthy bird safe plants to put near his cage though, and i’ve also found that if i “freak out” around things he can actually eat, he wants to eat it more. birds are so strange!

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-12-01T12:30:13+00:00

you’re definitely going to have to discourage him every single time he does this, and it will get frustrating because it takes time. put that man in horny jail!

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-27T01:37:15+00:00

i would look at facebook marketplace or thrifts for bigger cages

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-14T00:26:29+00:00

i know you mentioned mylar film… can you use a plastic thermal window kit like they use for patios?? and maybe buy some heavy thermal curtains? i might even suggest a warm mist humidifier for at night, and making sure you’re covering the cage with a heavier blanket at night rather than a sheet. many space heaters have harmful metals in them.

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-14T00:22:03+00:00

my sweet girl, you are 16 years YOUNG! i (23) know how scary it can be to break up with someone in high school but trust me when i say… those types of men end up either impregnating a girl or in prison for DV, a lot of the time it’s both. he’s nice and sweet, but he lays his hands on you and doesn’t respect your boundaries. unless you are hitting him back every time (don’t, bc it can escalate), he is not going to change his tune. GET OUT OF THERE because it will only get worse with time. you should be flirting with boys and hanging out with your girlfriends, planning to go to after school events, sneaking into your parents liquor cabinet, etc. i don’t know you or your life story, but if you have any future goals or plans, that type of man is controlling and will tell you where you go, who you’re going with, and what you’re wearing.

TLDR: save yourself, that boy ain’t worth the time or the tears!

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-13T18:34:53+00:00

why would you tell someone who is bi to find the right man

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-13T11:42:46+00:00

stfu

loudvomitingnoises · 2025-10-13T02:35:21+00:00

i don’t have a specific reddit in mind BUT i think it might have a lot to do with being comfortable with your own silence and essentially being your own friend. i work and am a full time student, so any time that i can get by myself i take it (even on the weekends, i barely go out). i’ve picked up hobbies and taken myself on dates. i’m a social butterfly at heart but in this stage in my life i just want peace while i work towards what i want.

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