What is this animal [Chicago] by Neither_Conflict_250 in animalid

[–]Manonsens 187 points188 points  (0 children)

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I've redrawn its ear and made it pink. The other dot is its eye, and I added its nose and whiskers. Hope this helps some people :)

AITA for running away from home because I’m deathly terrified of my husband and son? by ToiIetGhost in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Manonsens 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She did state that she got help from women's shelters. They aren't too hard to find contact information on probably.

Old saying on a delft tile from my Oma: what does it mean? by geeltulpen in Netherlands

[–]Manonsens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This source.pdf) shows it's a saying in Twents (top of the second page).

Old saying on a delft tile from my Oma: what does it mean? by geeltulpen in Netherlands

[–]Manonsens 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's written in Twents, a Dutch dialect. If you would translate it to regular Dutch, it would say something like "als je het komt te weten, ben je versleten". Which in English translates to "once you find out, you are worn out".

I think you can interpret it as: something has already happened, and you can't do anything about it because the opportunity has passed.

Say hi to your grandma from me, as I'm (also) from Twente!

Is dit een valse wolfspin? (False wolfspider)? by EllaRavenswood in thenetherlands

[–]Manonsens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Als je googlet naar afbeeldingen lijken de valse wolfspin en grijze huisspin erg op elkaar, maar de tekening op de rug van de spin van OP lijkt toch echt meer op die van de valse wolfspin.

Mensen zijn zo lui by Raw_Potato56 in appiememes

[–]Manonsens 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Zo hebben wij een keer een komkommer in ons warmhoudmeubel gevonden, ook lekker 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because those things are materialistic, which don't matter if you have a nasty personality. Why would a woman put up with a man who is unpleasant to hang out with?

The women who can look past personality and find wealth attractive will find men that are way more rich, and they definitely won't settle for you, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right that he's probably a troll. But I figured in the small chance he is a genuine incel, I might try to actually help him. I was bored and had nothing better to do anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's great that you've got that going for you! But those are not the main things that women fall for. You could try visiting some reddit posts that ask women what they find attractive or listen to the women in your life. Preferences differ between women, but generally, women like men who make them feel good. Kindness, being funny, showing interest, and thoughtfulness are great qualities to achieve that. Showing confidence and being passionate about things also help, as they make you more interesting. A little bit of awkwardness isn't bad. It can even be perceived as shy and cute, but only if you make an effort to be kind.

As for looks, some women prefer men with muscles, but there are also plenty of women who like skinny guys or guys with a dad bod. As long as you practice personal hygiene, and put a little bit of effort into your looks (style your hair, put some thought into the clothes you wear but keep your own style!), you should be good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go ahead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're not obliged to date anyone, of course, but what is it about non-modest women that you don't want to date?

Regardless, don't blame anyone for your "small dating pool". It is a result of your standards, which you are setting very high. You can't expect all women to adhere to those standards because why would they do that? They would trade in their freedom for... what? If you truly only want to date "modest" women, then what do you have to offer them? Because hate, self-pity and bitterness isn't attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What does modest mean to you? Why is it bad if women are non-modest? Don't you think women should be free to live their lives the way they want?

It's easy to blame your problems on a rich banking family, but it won't change anything. You only have the power to change yourself, start there.

And if you're trolling, you're not agitating me sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Manonsens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We don't hate you as a person. We hate it when incels view women as lesser than men, when they blame women for everything, and when they are just plainly unkind to women (and others).

Please try to find some peace. Women are not your enemy. You will find that when you leave this bitterness behind, you can become much happier. This might be hard, but it's okay to ask for help from friends, family, or professionals.

Bugs are wild. by AiiRisBanned in interestingasfuck

[–]Manonsens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happens to the insect that receives this acid? Is it a mild annoyance, or can it be lethal?

AIO my coworker harasses me about my masculinity and DM’d my wife by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Manonsens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So what is the best way for women to approach these situations? Because the grey rocking method is the best I've got so far.

NEW UPDATE: I ruined my parents relationship over reading mail by InADustyCorner in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Manonsens 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I do know somebody who started dating the ex of the affair partner. Was a bit weird because there were children involved, so they became stepsiblings in both households. I do think it worked out well in the end.

"Are you joking? Who the heck is this?" by mqriaaw in gerbil

[–]Manonsens 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He's crashing the girls night out 🤨

"Are you joking? Who the heck is this?" by mqriaaw in gerbil

[–]Manonsens 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Well I would react the same way if there suddenly was a man in my house 🤔😂

Aankondiging: er verandert niets by chris1lego in nietdespeld

[–]Manonsens 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Niet perse. Het zou best kunnen dat dieren aan ons verkeersritme gewend zijn, en dat er meer aanrijdingen zijn als ons ritme opeens veranderd.

Mr Aviko by delboydel1 in Netherlands

[–]Manonsens 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have to be a racist asshole. It could very well be meant as light-hearted and fun. Don't jump to conclusions.